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okay so about 2 months ago i did something with the guy i liked. i ended up being his rebound girl and i didnt want to be so i stopped what we were doing before it got any further. ok so i told my one "friend" about this because she was bothering me about not getting any action from guys so i wanted to shut her up because it was getting really annoying. she promised she wouldn't tell anyone and i trusted her because she was always a trustworthy person. except for now. she went and told this boy's ex girlfriend that i made out with him (i didn't make out with him) and now they're both mad because they think i made it all up. im not known to lie by the way. but anyway then they went to the guy and asked him and he's denying it all because he still thinks theres some chance that him and his ex are going to get back together. so i look like the liar but this boy has been known to lie to get himself out of these dramatic situations before. i dont know what to do, they wont believe me when i tell them i didn't make out with him and they think i made this all up for attention and i didnt! this guy just isnt helping me and coming forward with the truth. please help me, what do i say to these so called "friends" and how do i get the boy to come clean?

Well you can either just try telling all of them the truth, and if that doesn't work then you can ignore it. But try talking to your "friend" and ask her why she told his ex a lie. Forget them, if he's upset because he wants to get back with his ex but she's mad then that's his problem! If he's denying having any relationship with you then it's only hurting him. I'm assuming that he might just want an honest relationship, and in that case he should tell who ever he's going out with, but if not, then just let him lie about it and he'll be the one paying when his girlfriend finds out!! If you didn't make out with him, just say it, leave, and forget about it. good luck!!

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Hi, my name is Jenna. I'm only twelve but I really need some good advice. I think you can help me. There's this boy at school I really like but he has a girlfriend. I really want to let him know how I feel but I'm afraid to tell him. I give hints to him but he just doesn't get it. What do you think I should do? If you could help me I would greatly appreciate it! Thank you sooo much!!!

Sincerely,
Jenna

Hmm...wellll...is he really into his gf? If you still want to try to give him hints then maybe try to make the hints more noticable. Or, you can always try the failproof plan, ask one of your friends to tell him that you like hime. That way, you dont have to worry about embarrassing yourself in front of him but hes still going to find out. Or if you get a blast of courage you can tell him yourself. good luck!

"hope i helped"
~*skippy_pebbles*~

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I moved away from my hometown in 5th grade, now im in 8th and i want to get ahold of some friends that i left behind. i have a myspace account and i tried that but theres just to many ppl. uhh is there any other way i can get ahold of some long lost buddys?

Have you ever an online phonebook? AS long as you know last name and parents first names, then you should be able to find someone. Or if you have one of your friends phone #. Myspace is a good idea but there are a lot of people so you should try something else until you find them. Once you find a friend then you can tell them about your myspace and hopefully find more friends. Good luck!

**hope i helped**
~~skippy_pebbles~~

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a person that i know "layla" used to pick on me a lot, then we made up and became friends...all my other friends are saying that i shouldn't be friends with layla because she might hurt me again. should i give layla a second chance or go with what my friends say?
will rate good if you can help,
-dianne

I can see both sides as being true. Your friends are worried about you and they don't want you to get hurt again. I think you should give her another chance since she did apologized to you. But if she hurts you again, you shouldn't keep it to yourself tell someone that you can trust with anything. If she still picks on you then you shouldn't be friends with her anymore because odds are that things will just get worse.

**please rate**
~~skippy_pebbles~~

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