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hey my name is Alexa! everyone calls me Lexie. i live in Tennesse and love to cheer. i love to give advice to people cause i think i can really change some things. i know i mite be young but i can really help. you can ask me anything you ever want! if u want u can im me anytime you want. i am always on most of the time. well hope i help yall!!!

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theres this guy that im friends with and i like him a lot like more then jus a friend. we have a few classes together, i no i can talk to him if i have a problem and well say hi to each other in the hall what should i do??

well if you talk to him on the fone just start talking to him more. and at school stop and start converastions. if you have aim and he does just say your a friend and see what he thinks about you! that always is a good one.
or just come out and tell him how you feel

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srry this is not a question but my sn is wilsonharley75 no spaces like i put be4.

okay umm your on my buddylist right now!
lol

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Hi umm i need a little advice i like these to boys but they r best friends ther names r Jimmie and Elijah. Jimmie is cuter but Elijah is more my type which one should i go wit hwhen school starts because they both like me. what should i do

Signed Beautifulmamii05

thats kinda hard but i would go with Elijah because just cause kimmie is hotter yall wont get along as well as you and th other. but the other problem is, is that they are best friends and the other one might get upset but i hope i helped.

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ok there is this really long story about me fighting with my friends. so im not going to talk about it. but i want to know if there is an easy way to forget what happend between me and my friends

well yes say your sory and tell them it was a stupid fight we need to get over it and move on with life. tell it how it is.

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OK this girl thinks that i called her something that i really didnt call her. i dont really mind losing her as a friend cause she isnt a good one... but i dont want everyone to think i did something i didnt do.. what should i do??

just tell the truth and hopefully your true friends will belilve you and if they dont there not worth it.

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ok i ave afriend.. we have been friends for a long time.......and i am starting to like him more as afriend and i think he does to but i am not sure.......... wat should i do... im not going to ask him out.. i want him to somehow ask me out.. like secretly bring our friendship higher... me and my other friend always flirt and it doesn't work so thats out of the question

thnkz

Rissa****

ok i have dont this alot of times. get your best friend to talk to him and see who he likes and then tell her to say that yall would be a cute couple. and u need to tlk to him more prolly get to knw him and let him knw he can trust u major.
hope i helped,

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what is a "flamer"? my friend called my other friend that and they got into a huge fight! what does it mean?

flamer means there gay and they dress gay.

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I am throwing my best friend a surprise party. She's a girl, 16. I already sent out the invitatations to all of her girlfriends, but I can't decide if I should invite boys or not. She is not friends with very many guys, and the 3 or 4 she is friends with may not even all be friends with each other (I don't really know all of them well). I don't know if I should invite them or not, because they aren't even people she hangs out with outside of school, and I don't know if it would be awkward for them to be there. However, I think that the party should have boys, I mean we are 16 years old. What should I do?

well if she doesnt have that many guy friends i think it should be an all girl party and have a big girly fling i mean it is her party and she wants to be surpised but you dont want her to feel uncomfortable with guys there...you know so i think you should just have an all girl party for her.
hope i helped

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I'm in 11th grade now... well i'm going into 11th... and me and my friend have been friends since 4th... we are two completly diff people but that's what makes us good friends... she is more wild and i'm more not... she will do things without thinking and I think things through... last week she told me she liked this guy... every week it seems as though she likes someone diff... she had a 3 some with him and his friend... the two guys is her exes good friends... and the guy she doesn't like is one of her best friends ex and her other friend slept with him before she had the 3 some... she has wanted me to hang out with them but i'm not that type of person... i'm waiting till i get married to loose my virginity and i have more respect in myself than that no affense to her... i love her but i don't know what to do...she has told me if i hang out with them nothing like that will happen... but everytime she tells me a story about when they hangout something sexual like that always happens... we havent talk in almost 5 days... maybe more, maybe less... i don't know what to sday to her... she has had sex before with her ex and after she did it all changed... she kisses guys without really thinking... to her hooking up witjh a guy is no biggy... to me you should know the person and have semi feelings...

confused and lost

i agree with you all the way all you have to do is just tell her how you feel. just be like i really dont want to hang out with them because i am not that sexual yet and i dont want to be and if she is your good friend she will understand and she wont pressure you into it or anything.
hope i helped,

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Okay so i go to a small high school i'll be a senior, and i hang out with this group of people and i mean we're all really close, and it's really weird cause theres i'd say about.. 50-60 of us, but we all hang out at school at lunch together and take up this big spot and everything. Anyways there's guys and girls. I really want to have a birthday party this year i'll be turning 17. because i didn't do anything for my 16th really and i haven't ad one since like 6th grade. but i was just wondering if anyone had any ideas on what to do with so many people. my friend had her 16th bday at this big hotel room thing..like whats downstairs..and there was a dance floor and a dj and food and stuff. so i dont really want that. i would just feel bad if i didn't invite some people cause we're all like best friends..and thats what makes it hard. 50 best friends? whaatt.. i mean i have ONE BEST BEST friends, but everyone else is pretty much the same. any ideas?
oh and my bdays in november.

ok i would have a big blow out! have your party somewhere where u like to go most and just have a blow out there and afterwords go to your house and have a hottub party if you have one or just bring them back to your place and have a house party with nice music and your best friends.

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what age/grade will your friends start to act more mature, and start being more than just someone to laugh with. you know, when will it be easier to find that one true friend, cause i'm pretty young, and i dont think anyone is that mature enough that they are the kind of friend that will give you a shoulder to lean on when your sad, or you can call anytime just 2 talk, you know that kind of stuff. does anyone know what age>

no one will ever no what age to be honest becuase everyone matures at there own pase. but when you find that friend dont let them go.
hope i helped,

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What is your opinion of hippies?

I think hippes are there own type of people. you shouldnt judge anyone becuase God made you that way. i have nothing agaisnt them at the moment so they are fine in my book.
hope i helped,

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I made the cheerleading squad this year and i love it.. but our coach said any girls that argued or talked about each other behind their baQs or caused drama were going to be kicked off the squad.. and there is a girl on the squad that is so mean to me.. she makes fun of me but says she is just pickin but it bothers me and she says rude stuff that makes me mad.. but i havent said anything to her about it because i'm afraid it will make her mad and start a fight but i'm rele tired of being treated like that... wut should i do?!?

ok i am a cheerleader too and basically our coach is like that too. i would tell your coach about it and just say i want her on the team just want her to be nice or you can tell the coach and have her kicked off the team. because i wouldnt want any of my cheerleaders saying stuff about me. it is just your way of looking at it! well i hope i helped

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