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HOW do i become more outgoing?! I want to get more friends and be funny,instead of a shy good girl!! can anyone help? thnx! (link)
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To become more outgoing, I would suggest expressing yourself while still being yourself. Dont act desperate for more friends, and just use your best judgement for cracking a GOOD joke, or just acting silly. hope i helped!
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ok so i like this guy but the thing is everytime we get kinda close he asks some one else out! Err annoying and today i brought my best friend ty. A cookie and he comes up from behind me and holds my hands down and kisses my neck a couple or times and sometimes he hugs me,plays with my hair
out of no where he kinda annoys me sometimes. But i mean all my guy friends all like do u like him ..and i always say no because they don't like him but i really like him wat should i do !?? Please help i rate 5's if its good ,and i don't want people being dumb about it i just want your opinion. (link)
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Okay, do you know why your friends don't like him? It could be because they know his past, or something you don't know, or he could be a jerk. I'm not saying he is, but before you do anything, question your friends about why they don't like the guy. If it's a lame reason, don't take it into consideration, go out with the guy!hope i helped. my s/n is xobubblegum25xo if you need more help and want to talk about it!
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Its my birthday in may, and i dont no what to do. Any ideas? my mum said garden party think that would be a good idea??
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It really depends on how old you are, and what you are interested in. If you are a teen, my ideas would be like a house party/hang out party. Or a pool party. Those always work, even if there will be guys attending. If no guys are attending and you LOVE gardening, go for a garden party. You could also have a sleepover with a bunch of your friends. Hope i helped!
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You told me to IM you but I dont know what on lol so lemme know (link)
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AIM .. i don't have yahoo. and once again .. my s/n is xobubblegum25xo
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My neighbors and I used to play out side and play nintendo at each other's houses and stuff all the time. a few months ago, though, my mom had a cardiac arest, resulting in brain injury. For a while, my mom was in the hospital, so me and my family were hardly ever home, and almost never free. She's a lot better now, and just has trouble remembering things. Since she came home though, my neighbors seem to be avoiding me. When I get on IM, they get off. I called them a few times, and it sounded like they were making excuses, but I didn't really have any grounds to argue on, so I didn't bother. Do you think they're avoiding me or am I just being paranoid? Sorry for the length, but please awnser. (link)
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Okay, I'll get right to my answer. I honestly don't know whether they are avoiding you or not. You're probably not being paranoid, but your neighbors were most likely once your friends since you all hung out a lot before. I think you should go over to their house or call and ask them what happened. If they make an excuse don't fall for it. Get them to tell you, but if it's something really mean just drop them. if you need more help my s/n is xobubblegum25xo. hope i helped!
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there is this kid in my grade that likes me, the only problem is that he is a total geek and i don't even like him as a friend (not because he is a geek though, because he is annoying)
Now he told everyone that he IS stalking me and that he likes me!
what should i do without hurting his feelings?
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Okay, I can't guarantee that anything you tell him to get him to stop 'stalking' you won't hurt his feelings. He obviously likes you, he even admitted to it. I think you should just go up to him and in a polite voice say " I'm sorry, but I don't like you, I like someone else *even if you don't* .. and don't take this offensively, but if you want someone to like you back, don't stalk them! " .. something like that. Make sure you're serious when you say it, and if he continues you should be able to make your own decision about whether to be rude or not. hope i helped
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hi, im 16/f i have this friend who has a bf and everything is different now that she has one, we have been fighting so much, we went 2 months with out talking, i was fine with it b/c i didnt have to put up with all of her bull shit, all she ever talked about was her bf, and if not that then just everything about her, and if i tryed to talk about like a guy i liked she'd get mad at me bc "im selfish" and we hardley ever talked about me or my problems, it was always about her. at first it didnt bug me, but then it got to be too mch so i called her on it and she got so mad at me and called me selfish, so thats why we stoped talking those couple months, now were talkign again, and it's worse then ever i can hardly stand her. sould i call her on it again, or just leave things the way they are? plz some one help me!! thanks (link)
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Okay, you're friend is being arrogant .. sort of. I think you should call her and talk to her about it and tell her that you've seen a major change in her personality AND attitude since she and her boyfriend have been together and if she wants to keep your friendship then change her attitude/personality, and if she doesn't just let her go. If she denies that she has changed, tell her to look back on the last few months (or years). And really, if she's giving you this much of a hard time, being VERY obsessive, and not caring at all about you or your problems, just let her go, or at least take a break for a while. hope i helped
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ok this is what happend, during spring break (2 days ago) me, my friend, my sis, my dad and mom went to las vegas. While we were there we saw kids from our schools baseball team there (we were going crazy) .. and my friend likes 4 guys total and there happend to be 2 of the guys that she liked there..then my dad told me to say hi to them so i did..i went up to them and started talking..then later that night 1 of the guys m friend had liked asked me for my # so i gave it to him. Then while we were walkin up and down the strip my friend was trying to tell him all the bad things about me so that he wouldnt like me anymore (i guess that didnt work).. then when me and him went to get some subway my friend was talking to my sis and my sis said that my friend was saying that its not fair that he likes me and that she liked him first and blah blah blah.. but whenever i got to know him i started liking him ALOT and we madeout that night too (it seemed like she didnt care that much), but thats the only guy i like (and shes obbsessed with 3 other guys too). So when we were driving home she was saying that whenever we get back to school shes going to try and impress him (cuz that night she looked like a piece of cr*p).. then i had no idea what i was going to do so i called him up and starting telling him everything. Then he said not to worry cuz im the 1 he kissed that night and not her .. but i know shes going to get mad cuz hes going to ask me out whenever he comes back from las vegas. I just dont know what to do right now... (link)
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Okay, although your friend doesn't find it fair that you sort-of-but-not-really stole from her, it's okay. She's got 3 other guys and the rest of the single guys at your school to choose from! Yeah, so it wasn't the nicest thing for you to do, but it's okay. I think you should just stay with liking this guy, you can't control your heart. Just try to be polite to your friend and help her get a boyfriend, then you both can be happy! Hope I helped! Just remember to follow your heart!
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see i have this friend that is like bulimic & i tell her to stop but she never listens to me. i tell her that she is skinney but she doesn`t believe me. we have known eachother since we were small. she also talks painkillers & i kno its dangerous but she told me not to tell anyone...but i think she might die..she is already in rehab & is very sneaky.. (link)
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Okay, first of all, are you completely positive that she is? If you are, then you have to get her off the pain killers and to a doctor FAST! She will probably be mad at first, but when she's 'okay' she'll forgive you and possibly thank you for helping her. after that just be very alert and make sure she eats, and see if she has red marks on her pointer and middle fingers, thats a sign that she has been making herself vomit. She might hide it in plastic containers in her room (i just learned this stuff in health class), most likely in her closet or under her bed. If she goes back to acting the same way after you get help, you need to do it again because she had a relapse. Be sure to stay by here side and always be there for her and comfort her. Do not be afraid to confront her and tell her how bad it is to have an eating disorder. She could die, or less majorly, be increasing the chances of having organ problems or diseases. Eating disorders aren't fun, so you have to do something for your friend. FAST! hope i helped
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okay, so i have this friend, and she cuts herself. it really scares me, because one time she cut so deep that it wouldnt stop for a while. her dad abuses her, and she doesnt get along with her mom very well. her boyfriend went away for spring break and she misses him a lot. she cut herself again because she thinks her life is so fucked up, and she thinks she should die. i really want to help her, but i dont know what to do. please help!!! (link)
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Okay, if your friend cuts herself, she's obviously in need of A LOT of help. People say that you can not die from cutting yourself, but the truth is that if you cut in the right places, you can. If you can get your friend to talk to you, another friend, or a teacher/guidance counselor/other trusted adult, ACT FAST! People don't realize that all it takes is a blink of an eye, and someone you care about could be gone. Forever. So if you really care about your friend, comfort her and tell her how much you care about her and that you're always there for her. Tell her how much you would miss her if she did commit suicide. You really have to be there for her, and get her to get help, whether its from you, a friend, an adult, or even a professional. Hope I helped, i/m me if you need more advice.
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I am a thirteen year old girl and I have a close male friend. We usually get on quite well and we are always talking and hugging. We used to be attracted to each other and he on/off still is to me but I don't feel that way about him. Everyone says we act like we're a couple and that we should get together but I honestly don't want to. We are very close but are we too close? I admit I hug him more than my other friends but I don't have any feelings for him. So is it wrong to be this close to him if we're not in a relationship? (link)
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Okay, I'm going to get right to answering your question. I don't think it is wrong to hug a guy friend, its not bad at all. As long as you don't do it too much, and don't go too far beyond that (like kissing)I think you're fine. It's okay to be close to a guy friend. If you've made it clear to him that you don't want anything but the what seems like very good friendship, then it's okay. hope i helped.
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I have a friend who doesn't seem like she's my friend anymore. It's not fair. She has several new friends and i barely see her. I don't know what to do and I don't want to loose her as a friend. HELP ME! (link)
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Hey. First of all, was this friend of yours a close friend? I've had some "close" friends come and go in my lifetime, and now I look back on it and stuff, it might have been for the better. Are the new friends she is hanging out with what you would consider bad news? Are they what you would consider stuck up or popular, or are they just kind of like .. there? Have you tried to talk to them .. meet them .. or become friends with them? You should probably talk to your friend, but be polite. Ask her what has happened, if she still likes you as a friend. You may not want to lose her, but if she's making no effort to see you, she's obviously not worth your time OR trouble. Try to make plans with her for this weekend .. maybe next. If she cant seem to make it because she's with her other friends, hang out with your other friends. The ones that make an effort to see you. If you need anything else, you can i/m me at xobubblegum25xo. i hope i helped!
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i need help. I cant do anything though. HELP
love Natawaaaaa (link)
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That's a good question Natawahhh. I might possibly know who you are talking about, but i'm not postive. I would talk to an adult, like your parents or something. Maybe they could sit and talk to your friend about it? Do you know why your friend wants to die? Guy troubles maybe? Or their parents? Be a good friend to your friend, i'm sure he or she is a nice person. Maybe you can do something with them to get their mind off of it. Go bowling or to the movies or something, have a sleepover. Make them have a good time, then afterwards ask " Why do you want to do THAT to yourself when you can have such a great time with your friends? " or something along that line. That's all i can really think of right now, but you can i/m me and talk to me more about it anytime. hope i helped!!
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