I am a 17 year old senior living in Chicago. When I go off to college i plan on majoring in psychology. This is because i am always told that i give great advice. I am a determined and willing person. I answer any and every question with care and i always give my true opinion. I put myself in that persons situation and answer the question with what ever i would do. I am trustworthy and i never give up.
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Location: Chicago
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Age: 17
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so i have this friend 'jane'
&&her mom does && does && does for her.
she does everythinq she says.
i mean i quess you could call her mom a sort of 'push over?'
then my friend [13years old) starts screaminq && pouts.
im like wtf dude?
i tell her to chill out ; butt she acts like thats okay for a thirteen year old qirl to do.
its almost like when you see a qirl in a movie yell at her mom.
she trys that butt she looks ridiculous.
what do i tell her so she can stop makinq a complete fool of her ; her mom ; && me in public? (link)
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well for 1 it is nothing that you can do but try and show her how ridiculous she acts and just stop hanging out with her whenever her mother is hanging with you. The way her mother raised her is the cause not you. Her mother needs to show her that she is in control not jane. Maybe you should send an anonymous letter to her mom and give them both a wake up call if you disagree with me just try and explain the situation to your friend gently and see where it goes from there
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Hi im thirteen & i have these two guy friends that are older then me like one 16 and the others 17 . And they wanna hang out with me . But im not sure if i wanna hangout with them cause im younger and + my mom probally wouldnt aprove of me hanging out with them once she heres there ageses . Everytime they ask me to hangout with them i always have to make up an excuse that i cant that im grounded or something like that ... & there both nice . But i don't know what to do . ?
should i lie and hangout with them and sneak around or should i just keep putting them off . Please help ! Im in a giant state of confusion & id apreciate it greatley .
- torii babiiee * (link)
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if you feel that it is creepy for them to want to hang out with you then dont hang out with them. either tell them the truth on how you feel or lie and say that your mom forbids you to hang out with them. but if you get a perfectly good vibe from these boys then maybe you can hang out with them as long as you have other friends to back you up just in case trouble occurs.
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Hey, im 16f.
You know how when you have a best friend and you tell eachother you will never let a guy come between your friendship? Well, what if your 'friend' totally dumped you as a friend for a guy... and on top of that, this guy she dumped you for is your brother! .. :/ What would you do? Obviously she never was my friend to begin with if she would do this. (link)
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i totally agree with you. this person might have not been your friend to begin with. not trying to start any drama but maybe she was using you to get to your brother or maybe she does not know how to manage having a boyfriend and a best friend. Talk to her and see what the deal is. But come to her gently or drama will start.
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3 or 4 weeks ago, this is a long story, i'll try and make it short. My friend(no longer) touched me in very inapropriate places. My mom thought she was cool by letting me go with him places, im 15 and a half, and he is 18. Thts illegal right? And I didnt really want him to touch me, I was scared, and we were alone, and i was afraid if I tried to get away, he'd hurt me, and if I stopped hangning out with him, he would come and get me, or something. And I just told me mom..I was so afraid, but she realizes tht my so called friend was playing her. She feels horribly bad, but we both cant decide if we should tell my dad. For one thing, my dad is a police officer. Second, my dad already hated my so called friend and offered to arrest him before. And the guy is really creepy, who touched me. He was a ponytail on the back of his head, and is just plain...looks like a child molestor. I was so stupid, talking to him, txting him, hanging out with him, i dont know why i continued to do things with him. He even asked me to have sex and brought condoms on night, when it was dark, he pulled into the parking lot at a nearby lake in some place i didnt know and parked the car. And of course I said hell no, im not on pills, condoms break, hes ugly, im scared, im smarter than this, i dont want to be pregnant, bingo. I wanted to go home. And if I tell my dad, that hes touched me in "wrong" places, my dad WILL arrest him and put him in jail. And I'll have to go to a testimony/trial. And I have been stupid and have been giving his phone number to random people on the internet and my friends, to call him or txt him, saying tht hes a creeper, or giving it to random people, one which sent a picture of their own penis to him, which wasnt entirely my fault, because my friends were over. Is that considered phone harrasment? Im so scared way beyond belief. i live in Ohio (link)
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well if he did not have sexual intercourse in any way using fingers,a penis,etc. then it is not rape. it is in fact sexual harrassment and he can get reported. i think that you should sit down with your mom and dad and tell him and ask him what will happen. But with the phone thing it was not as bad as what he did to you, but you could have just been a little better because you basically stooped down to his level. but if he knows or find out that those are all your friends who has been harrassing him and if you think you might be in danger then tell your dad before any thing happens. Be safe.
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so im 18/f
i have friends, but its that i commute to college, and i only talk to like two of my friends from high school.
i've been talking to this girl, emily. she use to go out with my cousin. she is in 9th grade though, in high schoool. i'm a freshman collge. the thing is, she gets me. she is the only one who understands whats going on in my life, because she is going through something similar too. i just feel weird hanging out with her though. i dont want people to be like wow she is hanging out with a freshman from high school, you know? but i love the girl, she is like becoming one of my close friends! like i said, i can trust her and i know she wont judge me. thats hard to find. but in my mind, i always feel like people think i dont have friends and i'm a loser for hanging out with a freshman. and i mean i really want to hang out with her, she is a nice girl and so what am i to say? oh i cant hang out with you because your like four years younger than me? NO! i want to hang out with her, but i feel stupid at the same time.
any thoughts, suggestions, comments, ANYTHING!? (link)
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well i think that it is a good thing that you found a friend that is younger than you. you shouldnt be ashamed because the best friend that she is becoming is hard to find. no matter what age you will only have a few great friends in life dont lose that over an age difference
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