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Okay so I have realized that whenever my friends and I have a fight, and its my fault, the reason is because I am jealous.
My tendancy to be jealous has ruined my relationship with my ex-bestfriend. And I can see it happening again.
You are probably saying, "well just stop being jealous." or "just be happy for her." but its not like that. its not that easy.
when i make really close friend, i only make one at a time. and lets name her... Sani. okay so sani and i became closer this year. at first i thought she was a a funny, chill, innocentish girl. and sheis... butnow she always talks about boys... and now shes getting closer to other people? and its making me so jealous. and now this really hot upperclass man likes her.
what do i do? i cant talk to her because that would make it soo awkward! (link)
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Why would you be jealous in the first place. soooo ? your friend is getting to know more people and having more friends.... is that such a crime? First of all don't compare yourself to her . Maybe this really hot guy likes her but maybe someday she'll think a guy is hot but he'll like you not her. Just try and be happy for her and don't be jealous. Think of all the stuff you have that make your life awesome.best of wishes.xoxoxo
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So a while ago I met this guy and we tried dating, but he was still in love with his ex of three years, so we decided to just be friends. Than they broke up again and he starting liking me.
One night he randomly calls me and says we need to stop talking because he is falling for me and doesn't want to. I was there for him the whole time and a week later we started talking again. He promised he would never do that to me ever again. We became best friends and were so close.
Just a few days ago he calls and says that he is going to get back with his ex and she doesn't like me, so he doesn't want to talk to me anymore. I was really upset and yelled at him for going back on his word. Now, I am feeling guilty. What should I do? And I do still care about him and like him which is making all of this so much harder. (link)
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Well you should really stop feeling guilty cause your not doing anything wrong. He's the one that is treating you like a tissue just using you when he feels sad and then when he feels better he just trows you away. I really think your worth more than that. Good Luck
xoxoxoxoxxo
princessita
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me and my best friend have been friends for a while we do everything together but here lately she has been telling me that my boyfriend was making out with his ex girlfriend and that he was cheating on me and when i ask him about it and my other friends they tell me that they havnt ever seen him kiss another girl and that he would never cheat on me but because of what my best friend it caused me and my boyfriend to break up so i dont know what to do any more. (link)
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You should believe who you think is telling you the truth.Who do youu trust more? Think about who has ever lied to you. And im not saying that your bff is right but maybe you've been spending to much time with your boyfriend and she's getting jelous.Or maybe your boyfriend is right because like you say that all of the other people say they have'nt seen him with anyone so how come the only one is your friend. doesn't that sound weire dto you. Hope I helped and that you make the right decision. I think tha tif you really love your boyfriend and you trust him thendon't be afraid to take a risk. If he was dating someone else I think you would know by now.
xoxoxox
princessita
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Okay so I have 2 bffs, Kenzie and Bri. Bri and I have been friends since 4th grade, Im in 6th now. All of us are. Kenzie & I just met this year.. but anyway
well we all had this major fight for a really stupid reason and it really effected our relationship, even after words. Kenzie and Bri were never mad at eachother, so their relationship didnt suffer, just the one with me. They were all ganging up on me and stuff, and it was really annoying.
Well now they ALWAYS have plans together, and I feel left out.. It is really upsetting me and Ive tried telling them how I felt, but they just say "Well maybe you should make plans FIRST" But that is hard to do, considering they always have plans. And then on the bus they use MY phone to call and make plans for themselves, not even asking if I want to be part of it. It is really upsetting me. Ill ask "Hey can I spend the night tonight?" And shell say "No I want Bri to" and It just makes me want to cry. Today Im going to Alex's (youve heard about him, lol) birthday party with Kenzie. Its fine when kenzie and I are by ourselves, and its the same way with Bri and I. Bri always says we used to be like this *crosses her fingers* But now we are like this *sticks thumb and pinky finger out, all others down* and it makes me sad. They take it as a joke or get mad at me when I try to talk to them, and I dont want parents involved.
Thanx in Advance!
ALSO. Bri gets mad at me for stupid things like rolling my eyes. I dont know if that helps *laughs*, but w/e
P.s. I know this is off topic, but what should I give Alex for his birthday considering I have no money, at ALL.
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I think you should try to talk it out. Make them listen and tell them how you feel. Tell them it makes you feel left out and it really hurts your feelings. You should probably also try apologizing even though it may not be your fault. If that doesn't work you should probably not be friends anymore.I mean I think it's better not to have friend at all then have bad friend. They really don't deserve you.Plus I think it's very childish and just plain mean what their doin two you. Hope I helped. Let me know how it goes!!!!!!!
xoxoxoxo
princessita
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so i have this friend, and i like him, and we talk so much.
But ya know he is popular and alot of girls like him! I get a little mad and annoyed when he talks to them, like when they call him and stuff. And i do tell him . One time this girl who was like in love with him , and now is again always called him. BUT SHE IS SO FAKE! and he liked her but never admitted it to me..
It bugs me alot how they do this! But i dont want to be controlling.
Im not sure if im jelous or what, but whats going on here?
xoxo Jessicaa[F, 14] (link)
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Of course your jelous. Maybe you have feelings for him. Why don't you tell him how you feel. Let me know how it turns out. Maybe he likes you to but since you don't show any feelings of more than a friend he doesn't approach you so go with the flow and do what feels right to you. Good Luck
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ok this guy used to be my best friend then we fell in love and then it fell apart. i grew up with him. but im just love sick but then i find myself flirting with my other guy friends, and he notices it to. but i just dont know how to talk to him anymore. we hated eachother now were fine. he gives me high fives when we pass. but we cant talk exept the stupid hi. i just am lost i cant talk to my best friend! any advice i dont know whats wrong with us. (link)
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Talk to him like you used to talk to him before. Ask him how he's been or his favorite sports or anything.
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I was unpset at school today. and my best friend wanted to know what was wrong with me. I told her not to worry about it. But she saw that I was really upset. She told me that she would get really mad at me if i didn't tell her what was wrong. I told her that I don't think that her and her boyfriend make a good couple and that i think that she deserves a LOT better. Well she got mad at me and said that i like to start drama for fun. Of course I don't like starting drama. If I would have thought drama was fun I would have told her right off the bat. So what should I do?
Should I be her friend or what? (link)
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Of couse you should still be her friend. I think that you should explain the reasons why you don't want her with her boyfriend. Now if you don;t have any reasons you should probably just respect her decison. I hope everything works out. Please let me know and don't hesitate to write back.
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