Guy and Girl Best Friends who stop talking cuz of another gi
Question Posted Monday June 16 2008, 9:26 pm
So a while ago I met this guy and we tried dating, but he was still in love with his ex of three years, so we decided to just be friends. Than they broke up again and he starting liking me.
One night he randomly calls me and says we need to stop talking because he is falling for me and doesn't want to. I was there for him the whole time and a week later we started talking again. He promised he would never do that to me ever again. We became best friends and were so close.
Just a few days ago he calls and says that he is going to get back with his ex and she doesn't like me, so he doesn't want to talk to me anymore. I was really upset and yelled at him for going back on his word. Now, I am feeling guilty. What should I do? And I do still care about him and like him which is making all of this so much harder.
russianspy1234 answered Tuesday June 17 2008, 10:56 am: you stop feeling guilty, its him thats in the wrong here. do you really want to be friends with someone thats gonna ditch you because of a girlfriend? would you stop talking to him if you got a boyfriend that didnt like him? when they end up breaking up, make him work to be your friend again, if you want to allow it at all. if he has to work at it, he wont take it for granted. [ russianspy1234's advice column | Ask russianspy1234 A Question ]
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