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i love helping out ppl in any way i can.. i love the feeling i get when knowing I had helped someone in some way...i love seeing ppl happy and being able to be some cause of their happiness would mean alot to me than words can tell...

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So one of my friends cuts. hes been cutting for a while, and hes been on and off with cousellors and stuff. Hes always talking to me about his cutting but never about how hes handling it or how he wants to stop. So tonight I kinda flipped out, im trying to help him by giving him suggestions on what he can do to try and figure out his problem. You see hes so stubborn that hes always trying to find something wrong. He started calling me little miss perfect, saying stuff how im always trying to fix peoples problems. So I got ticked. I told him if you dont want help dont ask for it, because everyone seems to ask for help and when I give them it they turn and treat me like crap.

So now apparently hes going to the hospital. Im assuming because he cut himself bad after our coversation. The convo didnt end well, infact it didnt really end at all, i just signed out. Should I feel bad? Does it seem like I made a poor choice in how I responded to him? I know that hes sensitive but why should I always "baby" him or cover up whats really going on when he needs to hear the truth. I've tried the nice way, the funny way, the boring ways, and tonight i've tried the mean way. Regardless, im always listening to him whine and complain about how he wants to stop but he never takes it uppon himself to really find ways to stop. Im just so frustrated with it.

Feel Guilty or not guilty?
I think not guilty but I just need to see it from someone elses side.

no, your not the guilty person in this.. you tried your best to help him out... and obviously when he started calling you "little miss perfect" it would have got on your nerves.. because you tried hard to help him out.. i would have felt the same.. he's probably suffering from a mental disorder and he needs serious help from a psychology doctor...he trusts you alot that probably why he opened up to you.. he needs help!!!so i guess his parents should take some serious alternatives to combat this as this could lead to suicide..

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ok. so i have this boyfriend and hes a major stunner.he rides dirtbikes and stunts on motorcycles.he seems to have everything he needs and when i ask what he wants he claims nothing.he is turning 17 and i wanna give him something that he will love and cherish and want forever.i wanna get him something memorable

red this article in the link below.. it will be helpful


http://gift-ideas.iloveindia.com/closetoheart/boyfriends-gifts.html

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does anyone know a site with friendship poems poems like im sorry for hurting you friend or somthing like that and i need some secret admirer poems please anything is apreciated thanks

Poems from a secret admirer


http://www.best-love-poems.com/poems.php?id=761633
http://www.poemsforfree.com/frost.html
http://www.4degreez.com/poetry/3384/950436469.html



http://www.links2love.com/poetry_submitted.htm



Poems to say your sorry
(go through these websites)

http://www.familyfriendpoems.com/friend/im-sorry-poems.asp
http://www.poemhunter.com/poems/sorry/



Hope this helped!!!!!
GOOD LUCK! AND HAPPY NEW YEAR 2008!!

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