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i am 13 years old and i love giveing coulm and i love doing it so much i give pepole my email adress if they ever need some one to talk to i just love helping so let me help you here or at my personal email adress -tickels wanted 13@ aol.com

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ok, there's this girl, i'm not really 'friends' with her but i act like it because she is shy and not a lot of people can stand how shy she is...anyways, at lunch yesterday her chicken sandwich wasnt cooked properly and she started telling me to bring it up for her. so i said 'no, it's yours, i'm eating my lunch, you gotta do some things on your own' was i right? because she always wants someone to do things for her....like take out her trash go to the bathroom with her...i'm sick of her being so dependent on others.

ya, you did do the right thing becuse somebody not always going to be there. she need to learn to do stuff alone. so even if she get's mad or something she'll learn later on that you really did help her a whole lot.

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this girl that says im her best friend always talks about my other friends behind their back, so i tell them because i dont think its right for her to do that. The other day she was talking about one of my friends named danielle, and so i told danielle this weekend and dnaielle said that my suppose to best friend called me a spoiled brat and a bitch and said that she doesnt hang out wtih me that much because i act stuck up .. but she is always calling me. I talked to the best friend and she siad she didnt say that, but how do i know because she always talks about everyone else to me. What should i do? i rate high!!

well try talking to her just be like i know you talk about other pepole and someone said that you talked about me is that true becuse i really want you to be honest with me

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I am a thirteen year old girl and I have a close male friend. We usually get on quite well and we are always talking and hugging. We used to be attracted to each other and he on/off still is to me but I don't feel that way about him. Everyone says we act like we're a couple and that we should get together but I honestly don't want to. We are very close but are we too close? I admit I hug him more than my other friends but I don't have any feelings for him. So is it wrong to be this close to him if we're not in a relationship?

well it is totaly normal he is a close person in your life it sounds like you don't have to have a relitionship you so just don't listen to them listen to your heart and it is good you told him from the start how you fell so ther is no mixed feelings

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Me and my friends, (L), (S), and (E) are planning to perform in a lipsync. The song (S) picked out is highly innapropriate!! We all agree except her. We still haven't told her. We don't want to hurt her so what do we do?? I rate high!!!

well try breakeing it to her slowly with every one in the group there and tell her some altrnitives and see what she say but yall should tell her what you feel before it's too late or try a vote by hands the most vote win just disscuse it and she should totaly understand

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A few months ago, I fell for my friend, we went out and it was really great and all. At first, I didn't want to go out with him because we were such great friends and I didn't want that to change. Now, since we broke up, we never talk and he always talks about me behind my back! What can I do to help change this? Pleass help me!

well dateing a friend has a chance of always starting trouble so try talking to him about the whole thing and tell him that you still want to be friends even though the love is gone and if he dosn't care he isn't worth it so just try talking about it

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Hey, I like this guy alot, but he always wants me to do stuff with him more than kissing. Im 14 and I dont really want to b/c Im a Christian and I dont like to do stuff like that ..but I like him ALOT HELP ME!

well you should never do anything you don't want to and event though you like him alot don't put your self in that possion sit and talk to him tell him how you feel about yalls relationship and let him know your boundrys and how when he ask you to do stuff you don't want to do makes you fell he should totaly understand and if he dosen't he isn't worth it

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my best friend has done "things" with a guy that i never thought she would do i mean shes only 14 and i have known her for about 8 years and she has never done anyhting like this before...i know its like none of my buisness to what she does but i just dont know what to say to her or what to think of her anymore...what do i do???

it sounds like you really care about your friend and maybe you should talk to her one on one to her and tell her how you fell and then maybe things will be clearer good luck i don't know any more

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