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Hi, this is Kate and Kayla.
This column is here to help you with your boy,girl, and anything else problems. Get advice from teens like you that have been there. We are pretty good at giving advice! Hope we helped!
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even if it's a sad smile
cuz wats even sadder
than a sad smile is
not smilin at all :)

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I'm twisted cuz one side of me is tellin me to move on on the other side I wanna break down and cry!


Crushes only crush you,
Falling only hurts you,
Hearts will only break you,
If there is no love to save you.


Many people will walk in
and out of your life,
but only true friends will leave
footprints in your heart.

Love is strong yet delicate.
It can be broken.
To truly love is to understand this.
To be in love is to respect this.

There's always that one person who will always have your heart.

advice

ok well my friend is at my house and he likes this girl well that I just found out and he was talking to her on MSN and then I said something then all of the sudden he said of sry that was my dumb bro and wouldn't even say he was here with his best friend(girl) so I'm super pissed at him and omg iunno what to do I feel like he'll stop being my friend just that is a bad sign for everything plz help...

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Boys are sometimes retarded like that. Don't mind him. If he is embarassed by you, he is not worth being mad at. Just know you are a better person than he is. Tell him how you feel.
~oxkatekaylaxo

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My friends birthday is tomarrow and i have no idea what to get her! shes not into makeup or anything like that...shes more of a tomboy....i have no idea what to get for her...shes 15....we dont really hang out alot so i wouldnt know stuff that she likes!! could somebody please help me? thanks

Maybe you could get her a gift card to a mall, store or even money, so that way she can buy whatever she likes.

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gey well my good friend monica likes my ex boyfriend jeremy well jeremmy likes her and i dont want them to go out b/c the thought about my best friend and my ex it hurts okay she has alwaysed liked him and hel iked her to but i am with this guy and i cant get jeremy out of my head we have been broke up for a week now. so anyways how can i not let it bother me see he wants a girlfriend so he can get his mind off me and i am all he thinks about and i told him if you go out with monica it will harder for you to get over me b/c she is my best friend well one of them. see what i really need help on is should i let them go out and if i do will i stop our friendship b/c she knows that i still have feelings for him and she knows it kills me but do you think i can get through it? i mean i know i have a boyfriend and everything but he is 4 yrs older than me and i am 16 and jeremy is 16 monica is 16 so i want him back but if monica goes out with him do i need to break off our friendship? i am so confused plz help

Well, you are in a pretty tough situation! If Monica knows you still have something for Jeremy, than she shouldn't go out with him. You should tell Monica how you feel and if she doesn't care for what you say and goes out with Jeremy, she is not a true friend! Just try talking to her.
~oxkatekaylaxo

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Well, my B-day is exactly one month from now(may 21st) and i was wondering if anyone had any ideas of kinds of (inexpensive) guy-girl parties. I was thinkin of a kind of message thing with the clus where you have to find them and then they lead you somewhere, but i dunno. I live right next door to a school where there is a soccer/baseball/hardtop. Anysuggestions? I rate HIGH! Thanks!

Haha kate, Did you realize you asked our advice column? but i think it goes to other people!! Anyway I love the clues idea, i think everyone will have fun!!!See you later
~oxkateKAYLAxo

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I go to a drama school every week, once a week, and I have lots of friends there, both boys and girls. Some of my best friends are a boy called *Sam* and a girl called *Lisa*. When it was Lisa's birthday, we all went to the cinema. Sam came too. When Sam left later, we all agreed that it was obvious he fancied Lisa. I was a little disapointed as I used like Sam, and I suppose I still like him a little. The next week, somebody brought in a box of chocolates for Lisa and she let us all dip in. When I reached over, she gave me a look that told me to 'get lost'. But that next second, Sam reached over and took about 3 chocolates. When I asked could I have one, Lisa said no. Then a few weeks later at the performance, backstage we had a real argument in which she said I liked another boy at drama. I denied it as I don't like him. I told Lisa that 'you could talk - you think the world revolves around Sam!' and she went and told everyone to get them on her side. I can say something the exact as what she says, but I'm the one who gets in trouble for it!! I know two wrongs don't make a right, but you know how it goes. We are friends again now, but I'm not sure if we were as good with each other as we were. 14/f.

Well, your friend is very possesive when it comes to guys. If she and Sam like each other, don't hold them back. Find someone who likes you too, and then you two could double date! You are probably not as good of friends as before, but try to build a stronger relationship with her. It was wrong of her to ask others to take sides(i would have picked yours) but teens can be cruel. Tell me what happens!
~oxkatekaylaxo

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ok, here's the story: i liked this guy (let's call him Bob) and my friend likes (or liked) this other guy (let's call him Bill). well, we told each other during spring break about who we liked. and we promised not to tell. and neither of us did.
But now i don't like Bob and i think she still likes Bill, because it's really obvious (she flirts with him and stuff), but now that i say i don't like Bob, she acts like she doens't like Bill and if i tell her it's really obvious, she threatens to say that i still like Bob to one of the school's blabbermouths.
i know she still likes Bill and i'm getting sick of agreeing that she doesn't like him.
(by the way, we're only in junior high)

This is VERY typical of a junior high friendship. She doesn't want to feel "left out".
This friend sounds like she definately does still like Bill, even if you don't like Bob. Tell her that she shouldn't threaten you because that is not what a BFF should do. If she is persistent about telling you she doesn't like Bill, then just learn to ignore it. It is her fault for not admiting to it.
~oxkatekaylaxo

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Okay, so one of my friends is having a B-Day party on Friday. She's inviting a bunch of people. She claims that she is my BFF, and she loves me as a friend so much. The problem is that whenever i go to her parties, she ignores me and hangs around with her other friends, and NEVER talks to me. Should i go ?

tell your friend how you feel. She shouldn't dump you for her other friends. If she still ignores you or doesn't accept what you are feeling, then ask yourself, is she a true friend?
~oxkatekaylaxo

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