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I have this friend and we have been friends since we were 4 years old. We are now both 13. Well, last year was our first year at middle school. We both met a lot of new people and I made some new friends and she made some new friends. Well last year, we dicided that we didn't want to be best friends anymore and to just be friends. We still were talking, hanging out and spending the night at each others houses so it was kinda like we were still best friends. Well this year in 8th grade we kinda faded away. We never talk and if we do its like, 1 little sentance. Well at the end of this summer (summer 2006), my mom, dad and I took her on a little trip for 3 days. I could invite anyone I wanted and I chose her because I thought we were still friends and thought it would be fun. Well, like I said earlier, we just started 8th grade this year and she now treats me like crap. She never talks to me, always ignores me and thinks she is all that and only she and her *new* best friend are the only important ones. HELP!!! I really don't know what to do. I've tried talking to her and she just makes rude coments. What I also forgot to say was that she gets mad over the STUPIDEST things. I really am not sure what to do. Should I just ignore her or be mean back? Thanks everyone!
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its like me and my friend ive known her for 12 years wich means since i was 4 but like you and your friend we grew apart but we still talk and she can tell sumthings wrong and she says dont worry ur still like my bro.but anyway on to ur question.
ignore your friend like she does to you just go by her dont say a thing it will soon get her to feeling bad or get on her nerves but thats good after she starts talkin a little just sit her down and talk...
srry if that was crappy advice i could really think of anything to say
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theres this girl I like and shes one of my best friends.I want to ask her out but alot of other guys like her.Im not sure what I should do about it. (link)
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go for it the worse thing that could happen is she could say no. if she does say no then say ok i hope you still want to be my friend
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My friend keeps flirting with my boyfriend and that's why he keeps dumping me. She's in Special Education. She's not really a friend but I associate her because she's in my group of friends. (link)
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tell her to stop or to put your bluff on her beat her up
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Ive always had a small group of friends that all got along. Well in the past 3 days it all fell apart. One friend got mad at me for something totally retarded, and then all of a sudden the other friend had a problem with me too. Now come to find out they've been talking behind my back about it. Im not saying they're totally at fault for whats going on because I know I am partly responsible for it, but I dont see why they couldnt come to me and say whatever it is they had to say instead of ganging up on me and then talking behind my back. I just dont know what to do. Ive tried talking to them about it and that didnt make anything better they just acted as if I was full of it and ignored what I said. So should I just give up on 2 people who were my bestfriends and get over it, or keep trying no matter how bad things already are? Please help. And if anyone wouldn't mind it would be easier to give off the whole situation over aim to give a better view point. Thanks again everyone. (link)
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if i had friends like them i would be the one that is mad so let them cool down a few weeks then they will forget all about it
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I have this friend that died and I thought it was partly my fault and then her mom came to my house and told me that it was her other friend's fault. Lets just call her Mary Jane. Now Kylie(Dead Friend) had been hanging around with Mary Jane a lot and nobody knew about it. I used to feel sorry for Kylie and her family, and sometimes myself. But now I'm mad at her. It's starting to scare me bercause, how can I be SO angry and a 13 year old girl who died in a car crash?
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sometimes u get so sad until u get real angry
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okay. my bestest friend EVER is having a birthday soon. i want to write a poem and have it framed. the poem has to say how good a friend she is. can anyone help me out??? PLEASE!!! (link)
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you've been with me for times of good but some were bad but with a friend like you i really glad
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I have a problem with cutting myself and I've always been to afraid to tell one of my best friends for fear that she might think i was some kind of freak! I just need an idea on what would be a good way to start off a conversation and then breaking the news to her! I would appreciate it! OH and ill rate u goood!!!!!
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just tell her straight out if she's a real friend she'll understand
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What do you do if your friend always gets mad at you for the littlest thing, but everytime she does something mean to you and you get mad she always expects me to forgive her right away...but i can get her mad and she never forgives me whenever i say i'm sorry.I always have to beg for forgiveness and then were close friends again, but I'm tired of begging what do i do? (link)
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tell her firmily to stop treating you that way
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Well theres this guy who i was friends with then we started dating. Me and him were the best of friends and when him and my friend were dating i was always there for him to talk to him and all that, now that we had broken up we really dont talk anymore, i love him alot but only as a friend and he loved me too as a friend until we broke up, when we were friends i cpuld talk to him about anything and he was always there for me but the whole dating each other didnt work and i am afraid i have lost a really really good friend, i have asked him if we could go back to how things were just being friends and helping each other but he just tells me no and he dont wanna talk about it. what should i do i want him back as my friend if nothing more? (link)
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that's what happened to me and my girlfriend. oh you sound just like her and what she said her name was lacy broadway
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my best friend..
i went out with my boy friend for 9 months and now my best friend wants to go out with him and she talks about him 24/7 its not even funny should i not be friends with her please help and answer my question fast!!! (link)
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let someone else go out with him for a change like you said you went out with him for nine mnths
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Well me and my ex boyfriend Kevin just broke up yesterday....well today someone called me and was like you dont know me but i am one of phylicias friends and do you care if her and Kevin go out so i sed no...nut i really do care alot...Phylicia is like my BEST friend in the world and i still like kevin but i dont know? What should i do? (link)
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ask her if she will wait a will to go out with him were you can get your fellins staight about him
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Ok theres this grl that i dnt like at all we have gotten into soo many fights and she makes me feel like shit when we get into fights..((there over the stupidiest things too))No body really likes her caz of her bitchy attitude..:x i have alot of confidence so im sticking up fer myself i dnt need herr Sh*t! But she wants to be friends with me and again..should i become friends iwth her again or stand my groound? And if i stand my ground then how do i tell her to bak off and not call me ne more because if i dnt do it nice she will spread shit about me!! :`( Help me plss!!
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you still can be friends just show her hows boss or their might be a cause for her anger like someone could hav hurt her or her fellings a long time ago and she's probally takin it out on anybody so just go up to to her and say is there a reason that your so meant to ppl.
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My friend Cecely smell`z reallyy bad ---ยป realllyyyyyyyy bad - and i want to tell her to take a shower so badly.. but i feel if i tell her .. she will get mad. please help! PLEASE (link)
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listen to me if she stinks that bad just tell it to her face that she smell and tell her that taking a bath is called good hygene
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I have this friend that only asks if she can come over or if i can come over if one of my other friends isnt home or has somebody else over. It really makes me feel like a rebound girl. I told my friend about it but she said that she doesnt do that. What do you think I should do about this? (link)
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JUST KNOCK ONher door and put your foot down and tell her straight out i am not a rebound girl so don't treat me like one if you want us to stay friends
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ok my best(guy) friend just told me he liked me. i was gonna tell him that i kinda liked someone else but then he sed that. ive always kinda liked him tho. and now he wants to not go out but he wants to just hong out and know that we both like eachother. thats fine with me but im not sure if i like him. tomorrow we are going to the library and he wants to know if i like him or not. i told him that i would think about it and tell him tomorrow. im not sure wut to do cuz yea i kinda like him but i kinda like someone else to. and that someone else is his bestfriend. i dont want to say that i like him cuz i dont think that would be fair. but i dont want to say that i dont like him cuz thats not the truth. please help
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just go out with the one you know that likes you and if u find out you don't really like him go out with his best friend.
p.s here's the advice you should really follow. to thy own self be true
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