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♥our names are ansley and rachel
♥ we have been best friends since 2ond grade
♥ we both cheer for our school
♥ we are both 13
♥ we are very understanding people
♥ we think zac efon is very hott
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♥ we love the beach
♥ we love the movies
♥ we absolutely love summer
♥ we love to hang with friends
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about last week me, my cousin,my best friend, and my boyfriend all went to the mall and the movies together. i never knew until my cousin told me that he liked my best friend. and i talked to my best friend about it at the time and everything she told me was basically i like your cousin and i will go out with him. well my cousin never got enough courage to ask her out . he was going to this weekend but things happened and no one could leave the house. he has wanted to call her and do it but he doesnt want to do it on the phone.

my best friend;
she has beening talking to a guy that she has meet online for about 2 yars now. he has came down here once and seen her he shock her hand and left. i thought that was the most stupidest thing he could have done. after that day she stopped talking to him (he lives about 3 hours away from where we live) well just recently she started talking t him again. and now ever time she calls she goes i love bryan i love bryan and it bothers the hell out of me.

the problem;
my cousin likes her a lot and she doesnt care anymore all she wants is bryan. it hurts knowing ur cuz has fell so hard over a girl an the girl doesnt like him back. and my boyfriend knew it was bothering me and had a talk to my friend with me on the phone to now she wont talk to me or nothing. i dont know what to do. she wont get over the guy that will probably never see again. can someone help me out please. (link)
rachel :- ohkay so this whole thing with this bryan guy is probobably not going to work if they have to drive for three hours just to see each other. she will probobly get over it after a while. also i would try to get your cousin to hang out with you and your best friend more so that she can see what a nifty person he is. your friend will eventually get over this whole being mad thing and talk to you again, so just wait it out. hope this helps you!

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Hi THERE! OK WEll i HAVE THESE TW0 FRiENDS! && i THiNK 0F THEM AS MY BESTEST FRiENDS iN THE W0RlD. BUT M0ST 0F THE TiME iN SCH0Ol THEY lEAVE ME 0UT 0R JUST BUDDY UP W. EACH 0THER! && S0METiMES THEY TAlK AB0UT ME ..AND NEVER TEll ME WHAT THEY SAY! && WHENEVER B0TH 0F THEM ARE iN A FiGHT THEY B0TH TRY T0 JUST TAlK T0 ME. && WHENEVER 0NE 0F THEM iS SiCK THEN THE 0THER PERSON Will ACTUAllY TAlK T0 ME. N0W S0METiMES THEY Will B0TH BE NiCE ..i GUESS iT DEPENDS 0N THEiR M0OD. WHAT D0 Y0U THiNK i SH0UlD D0 AB0UT THiS? SH0UlD i TAlK T0 THEM AB0UT iT 0R JUST BE liKE "SCREW YAll ..TRUE FRiENDS AREN'T liKE THiS."


P.S.YAll TW0 ARE THE PE0PlE i AM TAlKiNG AB0UT [ANSlEY && RACHEl] (link)
kelsey we arent trying to ignore you, but a lot of times in school you have to do a partner project and there are three of us, and rachel and i made a plan in second grade that if we were in the same class we would be eachothers partners no matter what! and we are really sorry, if we start to leave you out again just say HEY GUYS YOUR LEAVING ME OUT!! ohkay? we really do love you though girl! just tell us when we are ignoring you ... but i really didnt know you felt that way ....


I want to tell my friend something..It's a problem I've been having and it's kind of serious. I've never told this friend anything this serious before though. How do I know if she'll accept me and keep it a secret? (link)
ansley says - well first of all you have to ask yourself if you think she could keep the secret. has she kept your secrets before? if she is a true friend she will accept anything about you and keep it a secret. you could try telling her somoething a little serious, but not TOO serious and see if she blabs. hope that helped!!


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oaky...Well I will start out like this, well there's this boy and he lives with me four days out of the week,and it kind of seems like he takes over a lot of things like usally i am the one that stands by the cart being able to talk to my mom and then when he comes I am the one standing in the back and he is the one that is getting all the attention and its not fair.... it seems like he takes over everything like my sister and my dad. because like my sister is way nicer to him and my dad is always doing stuff with him... And he makes me cry every night because everytime i need to talk to my parents he's there buddin into the conversation and i can't barely talk to anyone about the way i feel because he's always around and I dont want to tell my friends and family about him in front of his face well all i am asking for is some good advice so even if its bad but you tried I will give you a five

Luv Brittany PLEASE PLEASE answer because I need halp : ( (link)
ansley says: if i were you keep trying to talk to your parents when he is around, and if they dont listen talk to them when he isnt around, even if he just went to the bathroom or something like that! just let it out and someone in your family should listen ... i dont know if that will help but i sure hope so! good luck!!


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i get along with this guy n iv liked him for a fook of a long tym.. he knows i like him i guess and im always thinking about him, then i think im pathetic for liking him, but we've done stuff, and when we hang out its great fun, but i dont think he is interested, but iv learnt from making assumptions. And i think id rather not talk to him because i hate the thought of him not tlkn to me, i would love to talk to him about it, do i talk to him about it and put my self in that silly situation of if any thing could hav happened it wouldnt any more (link)
ansley says:: if you really like this boy then the only thing you can do is talk to him about it because he is the only one that knows how he feels about the situation, you may feel a little silly but its better than not knowing at all.

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This might be long so sorry! Ok, I have a boyfrend lets call him Mark. Mark and me have been going out for about 7 or 8 months. Recently, all of my friends have been calling him gay and bisexual and they are telling me to break up with him because he is "Mr. Flirtacious". I love Mark sooo much and my friends just dont understand, and they kept bothering me about him so i told them that i broke up with him but i really didnt. Then i told one of my friends that i really didnt break up with him and she is REALLY mad at me!!! We arent really "friends" anymore and i dont know what to do. I know lying is wrong...but should i chose my friends or the guy? thanx for any help i rate high!!! (link)
ohkay so i have been in a situation kind of like this. if your friends dont trust you or agree with you or are behind you 100%, then they arent true friends ... if they really cared about you, they wouldnt be getting all mad at you for a dumb reason! and everyone tells little white lies, and you were just telling one to get your "friends" off your back! plus its your business, not theres. i would choose the guy cause he cares about you, unlike the way your "friends" are acting

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