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my name is actually LAE and...i'm not a good advicer but enough to be understanding,
i'm not always around but enough to depend on,
i'm not so sweet but enough to be so thoughtful,
i'm not your bestfriend but enough to be your true friend...
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Two of my supposed friends my friends have definitely been talking about me behind my back. How should I confront them?
i have experienced that already. it's just an instinct inside me that made me open to them the matter. and they remained silent but after that they stopped doing it. so i suggest to try talking to them in a perfect time, and perfect place, and perfect manner. be ready with tissue paper...
i think my best friend likes my boyfriend. they are friends but she calls him all the time talks about him comstantly and flirts with him when im not around .. what do i do .. ive confronted her before and she denied it, but my other friends have noticed too.
it's time to talk to your bf. make him tell the truth. bring your friends that also noticed the new relationship of the two. also be with your bestfriend in the talk. it'll sure be prevailed what's the truth among them.
So I have this friend and we used to be really close over the summer, but we just started high school officially and now she keeps ditching me. I don't get it. We make plans and we say we are gonna hang out but then the day of she makes up this dumb excuse so she can go hang out with someone else, usually my ex-bestfriend. It's getting pretty annoying, what should I do?
O yeah, she's not very good with talking about stuff so there's not much to say to her.
talk to your ex-best friend about your present bestfriend. ask her if she's inviting your present bestf to go out on the day of your own hangout. ask her if what's wrong with her. ask her if she's mad at you. then appoint a hang-out in a unique place that she will sure go with you. and little by little ask questions about the problem..
ok so me and this one girl have known each other for about 5 or 6 years.. we became best friends like..3 years ago, last year we were really close. but this year i feel like she doesnt care anymore.. yeah theres the ocassional hang out && movie.. but thats pretty much it.. last year we would do something every weekend...
so my question is.. does she still care? or is it just me being paranoid?
a friend is someone that trusts and someone that can be trusted. ask her first about the problem or open a private conversation between you. listen first to her. in your part, be firm and everything will be alright.
Theres this girl at my school and shes so FAKE. like everyone knows it but they all like her still. all her friends talk stuff about her but when theyre with her shes the best thing in the world. she steals all these guys from me. she thinks shes the best thing ever. she flirts with anyone that moves. and everyone falls for it, especially the guys. this is how shes fake: she like says things, and then later, denys them. like one night all her friends where mad at her so she asked to come to the hangout with me and my friends. we felt bad for her, so we said okay. there, she told us how we friends where boring and she liked hanging out with us. she also said that our small group should stay that way-small. so next weekend the next thing we know, everyones tlking about going to the hangout, all invited by her. all her friends, and some not even friends. so we said okay, we're still going. so we got there, and her and her friends completley excluded us from theyre group, sitting at a different table, and shutting us out, so we just left. after i told her why we where upset. she just apologized and did it again. so now she took over. theres other times, but thats just one example.
i just want to know how to overcome this, i dont want to fight with her, i just want to know how to deal with it.
please help. thanks alot:)
there are girls that are really like that, too fake. the best way to do, for me, is talk to her privately, although this is a common stuff but try. or appoint an open forum with those concerned- the victims of her fakeness (the guys all around, you and you're friends, and even hers). talk about the problem and make sure no one will make a fight. if she refuse to do any of these, don't get annoyed or mad of her instead, if you two pass by each other, smile or greet a single hi to her. it doesn't matter if she will just ignore it. at least, you've done your part...