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Q: my friend is so annoying and is always bossing me around. Also he thinks he's better than me, but i think we are equal. what should i do?
all men are created equal, remember this. tell your friend that you don't enjoy being bossed around. also that he should quit boasting about himself. make him see where you're coming from. if he tells you to do something- say no. take a stand. you're an individual, make sure he see's that.

Q: my fucking mom treats me like im still 7. my siter is 9 and every friday and saturday night they go out to eat. im fucking 14 years old so why the hell do they think i want to spend my friday and saturday nights EVERY weekend at a gay restaurant with my parents and my mom and sister dont get along so i end up having to listen to them fight.

im at the age where i can go out with my friends and i can stay home alone, i dont need to go everywhere with my parents. i scream at them and tell them how much i hate being with them and they never let me go anywhere with my friends. i dont have any fun

once again on a friday night my parents a sister are going out to eat, and they said i HAVE to go. but i went LAST week and the week before that and the week before that. its a fucking friday night i want my friend to come over but NOOOOO my mom has to be gay and say "o ur going out to eat you cant stay home alone with your friend"

how can they expect me to go everywhere with them????


i need major advice. i cant deal with this shit and watch all of my other friends have fun without me
Take this for granted. Seriously, I would give anything for my parents to do that with me. @least you have parents who care enough every week or so to go out with you 2 and eat. My mom, she doesnt. Ever since my dad died. Be greatful for what you have and who you have. I know you may want to be going out. take the time to tell her that, not yell at her because it wont get you anywhere. it'll just make her think that you're not mature enough because you seem to want to get your way through arguing. good luck.

Q: what age/grade will your friends start to act more mature, and start being more than just someone to laugh with. you know, when will it be easier to find that one true friend, cause i'm pretty young, and i dont think anyone is that mature enough that they are the kind of friend that will give you a shoulder to lean on when your sad, or you can call anytime just 2 talk, you know that kind of stuff. does anyone know what age>
13/14.. and sometimes even younger like 12 oe 11.. my friends were always there for me at that age too.. =)

Q: ok, so recently, something happened and my friend is acting really mean about it! like, in the stalls of one of the bathrooms, someone made a "bitch list" and like me and a few of my friends are on it. not the point; my friend said that one of her other friends crossed out her name for her, and she was like rubbing it my face! she's like "yea ______ crossed off my name but (points to me) you and ______ are still on it!" and smiles and i was like "Jee thanks, bitch!" ugh. and she is always tlaking about this show that i totally hate! well i don't hate it but like it's so stupid! every night when it's on, she's like _______ is on tonight! watch it!" ughh can u please help me because she is one of my close friends and she is always asking me if i am mad at her and now i am!
Okay, if you dont like the show, just tell her. I mean not everyone is going to like the same shows, people different point of views on things, and if she cant accept that you dont like the show, than what kind of friend is she? I mean its just a show. and about the stall, there are plenty of reasons why you didnt cross it out, (its vandelism) and you maybe didnt have a pen or marker at the time? what ever the reason is or if there isnt a reason at all, just talk it out fully with her.I mean what next, is she going to hold you responsible for making the list? seriously, she cant control if you cross out the name or not, just let nature take its course, this will blow over in a little while.

Q: Okay...I have alot of friends. But, there is this boy that i have been friends with since like forever. But whenever he has a gf we dont talk at all. it's like we dont even know each other. If i talk to him, or call him his gf will think i'm stocking him or i like him. Someone help me....What should I do? If someone could help that would be great. Thanx
Just call him it aint like she's gunna think your stalking him.. i have a boyfriend.. and if some girl called him that was friends wit him for a madd long time i wouldnt think you were stalking him! lol

Q: I think I have sort of created some sort of irreversible obsession over my best friend. I'ts not that I cant live with out her. It just that I refuse to do the simplest thing without her consent or at least knowledge. In some sort of twisted way, I cant think without her.... Shes sort of that one thing that completes me in almost all aspects of my life. I'ts scares me day by day because i feel that such a good thing is always lost... Im paranoid about losing one of the only things that makes my life, worthwhile.... Praying for her everynight doesnt seem enough and even when I'm sleeping next to her...I sleep with the deep penetrating thought that She wont be there when i wake up.... My question to you is this.. Is this a friendship or some sort of ill obsession?????

Please help me?????

19...Female
wow.. um your obsessed..get help immediatly.
x0o*
mE

Q: well i have some of my friends going to my advice column and asking questions, which is pretty cool, BUT.. some of the questions are involving me and idk how to answer them! help! idk what to do?!
just tell them to stop.. or just dont answer them OR lol you could make a new account and just dont tell them about it!

Q: ok...i knew this girl since kindergarten(now were in 9th grade) but we both went to the same school in like k-4th grade and we were best friends but then she and her family moved to another school. and in the start of 7th grade i moved schools and i found out that the one i transfured to is where she goes, i was so happy :)....and then we started to hang out and stuff and then ppl who were my friends that i made when i moved here started to be mean to me like spreading rumors and stuff and just calling me names. and then she didnt like that so we decided not to hang out like that in school. so we stopped and now i IMed her to see if she wants to hang out or do nehting with me cuz its summer you know and were not in school...but she flipped...this is what she said..."no cuz ur a bitch and tlak behind my back at the swimming place my friend jen told me u and denise for so fuck u:-)" and that makes me mad and i have never talked about her behind her back or nething and i havent been to any swimming place so idk what that is about...but i really dont know what to do or say to her now :/...can sum1 please please please help me i will rate you!!!!
just tell her.and if she dont believe you. your doomed i tell ya doomed. no for real tell her the truth

Q: theres this girl thats kind of popular and she always wants to steal my best friend. the problem is, i can tell my bf is more interested in the other girl. also, its really hard to just be friends with someone else, because no one is quite like my bf and i dont like them as much. oh yea, and the person trying to steal my best friend doesnt like me.. so its kind of hard to become the three amigos. i usually rate a 5!!!:)
jus tell that girl thats trying to steal ur best friends to back off. and tell ur friend that she just wants to be her friend to get you mad. dang! that girl needs to find her own friends!
xox
crystal

Q: ok I love my friends so much but I get tired of sum like Jake Yves Chantal I don't they're cool but most of them they get on my nerves I'm going to high school and I know alot of pplz there but I don't want to ditch Chantal and Jake the closest ones I have what sh0ould I do?....I need new friend other then sum
well dont just be afraid to go ahead and make new friends i mean once you make new friends those people that you are gettin tired of will get the hint!!

Q: what should i do with my friend she just sits there and does nuthin all day she just sits there not even watches tv wat do i do
tell her to get up and do something.. thats kinda boring if you think of it tell her to get exersize!

Q: My best friend is obsessed with my ex boyfriend, and he dont like her like that, I really want her to move on, i tryed getting her to talk to this guy i know who wants a g/f but she wont! how do i get her to move on?
ummmm??? you cant really make her move on but you can have the person she likes well have him look like a negative image...(which she prob wont believe you if she likes him) or you can have him tell her that he dosent like her like that and that she should just move on cause a girl that special ( be sarcastic if you have to) shouldnt be waiting around for a guy like him and that there are plenty otha fish in the sea!
.. and if she still dont get tha point well you have no luck.... lol!! hope i helped ..KK??
xoxox Crystal

Q: hey i had already told my friend that i like him and he had liked me but he lost interest in me becuase i am insecure and he said theres a 50 50 chance of him liking me in the future i really like him and i want him to really like me agian and i was wondering what i can do for him to like me again i have been secure lately and i feel theres some other reason why he dont like me but he aint telling me it
hi...
ok...
yea i agree...
with...
the one b4 me...
lol well i dont really i think u obsessed sorry but sis's are supposed to say stuff like that oo yea rate me a 5 okay?...
lol
xoxox
crystal

Q: i just found out that one of my best friends has been telling people that i was pregnant and had a miscarriage before, it really hurt when i found out, especially when i found out that this was why my boyfriend broke up with me, i want to tell her how i feel but i have no clue what to say, any ides on what i should do?
say: you dont deserve me for a friend because i am to good for you and ur lies.
hope i helped it was kinda rude though but if she said that bout me or one of my bestfriends did that what i would proabably say!!
xoxox crystal!

Q: Ok my bf duznt like my bestest friend and neither duz his friend and it iz hard cuz my friend talks shyt bout my bf then i oviously stick up for him then when my bf talks shyt bout my best friend i stick up for her and im sick of bbein stuck in the middle it aint a nice position to be in i mean im not gunna like not be friends wid her juss bcuz my bf duznt like her and im DEFINATLEY not gunna liek break up wid my bf cuz my best friend dont like him it juss really sux and all my friend duz iz complain bout me alwaiiz talkin bout himn shyt but wat duz she excpect im flippin IN LOVE wid him and i can NEVER get him off my mind!!!! so how can i get them to not like talk bout each otha n try n get along n shyt like dat??????? sry so long
just be like listen...... i know you 2 dont like each other but stop putting me in the middle.. its not the easiest place to be so if you two dont mind not talking to me about one another.. because i love him and she's my best friend. so if you 2 cant handle that, well i dont know what im gunna do then. lol i dont know!

Q: i love all my friends dont get me wrong but i really like one of my friends and he knows i like him but he has a girl freind and i think he likes me but i really dont know what to do??
well, if he likes you he will dump the other person and get over her and ask out you...or maybe he is leading you on.. well i dont know lol
xoxox
crystal

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