theres this girl thats kind of popular and she always wants to steal my best friend. the problem is, i can tell my bf is more interested in the other girl. also, its really hard to just be friends with someone else, because no one is quite like my bf and i dont like them as much. oh yea, and the person trying to steal my best friend doesnt like me.. so its kind of hard to become the three amigos. i usually rate a 5!!!:)
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? Advice4teens answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 4:55 pm: Maybe this girl isn't trying to steal your best friend, but maybe trying to befriend her also. If this is the case, and you feel your friend isn't hanging out with you as often, invite her over to your house so you guys can hang out. The more you hang out, the stonger your relationship will be. If that popular girl really IS trying to steal your friend, talk to your friend. Say something like "I noticed since you've been hanging out with [POPULAR GIRL'S NAME] you really haven't been hanging out with me. Wanna go see a movie saturday?"
If you find she is still ignoring you, talk to her again and say "I really tried to talk to you. I'm here if you ever wanna hang out"
If she doesn't want to hang out with you anymore, that is not really like a "best friend" and maybe you can settle being just her friend.
If she's not ignoring you at all, just spending a little less time with you, try to share your friend! There's probably plenty of her to go around! If she's your "best friend" she'll stay your best friend even if she's getting another friend.
lilxxcrystalxxbv answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 12:07 pm: jus tell that girl thats trying to steal ur best friends to back off. and tell ur friend that she just wants to be her friend to get you mad. dang! that girl needs to find her own friends!
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xChainMeUp13x answered Wednesday August 18 2004, 12:32 am: u can still be bests frends just get used to her havin different frends too its easier that way my best frend is like that too shes got frends who r all popular nd preppy nd everythin nd then ive got frends who arent as popular nd everythin but we're still bffs
hope i helped!
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o0psychicwish0o answered Tuesday August 17 2004, 8:29 pm: Well just plann more stuff to do with your bestfriend! Try to be firends witht the otehr girl be nice to her. If that doesnt work ignore her! Plann more stuff to do with your bff and invite her over and all. [ o0psychicwish0o's advice column | Ask o0psychicwish0o A Question ]
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