well i think im fun and i have lots of bestfriends.
i like to hang out and as long as i know u thats good
i was born in seattle and i moved there when i was 9 and now i live in TX i think i like TX better...i miss my old friends but i think it was a good move!
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There is this girl who is sooo annoying at my school she thinks im her friend and she smells soo much. I hate her. She is soo annoying. I wanna get rid of her fo real and i dont want to hurt her feelings either what should i do?
Signed by: troubeled girl! (link)
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ok well i thnk that you should like tell her that you think that she is annoying, because there is no way taht you can't hurt her feelings when you want to tell her that you think that she's kind of annoying. So you should tell her. sorry this isnt taht good of advice but it was the best i could do...hope i helped
signed you kno who i am! lol
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I have lost so many important and special people in my life that now I don't know who to trust anymore. I am getting really close to someone (everyone I get close to is an adult) and I am afraid of getting hurt by her like everyone else I get close to. I have told her this and she says that shes not like the other people, but how do I know. This is a person that I wish were my mother because she is just so incredible and my mom doesnt care about me. What do I do? (link)
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as i told another person what i did was i went and told my friend a secret which was a lie. And then i would go around asking her friends if she said anything about me and if she did then i would like not tell her anything. So i hope this helps with you!
lildesidevil143
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Ok i have this guy friend.I like him as a friend and in 6th grade i went out with him but now he knows who i like and he would say bad stuff about me to them so they wont like me because he wants to go out with me.In class he will just stare at me and it gets annoying.I want to be friends with him but he wants to be more Can u help?
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ummm...tell him how you feel about him doing that. Then if he likes you then hopefully he'll stop to make you feel better.
lildesidevil143
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My friend and i are both in theater arts, and she got the role i wanted, and i tried not to be jealous of her, but i am. i know she's really good, and deserves the part, but i get mad at her whenever she brings it up, because shes almost bragging. I just really wanted the part, and now she thinks im mad at her, and i guess i kinda am. wat can i do? (link)
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You need to tell her straight up that whenever she talks about it it makes you feel bad because you wanted that part so you need to tell her or ask her to try to stop talking about it
lildesidevil143
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im going up to New York for christmas and new years eve. Me and my friend want to do something awesome for new years eve because its the first year that were able to actually hang out with friends on new years eve, but then thing is we dont know what we want to do.. or what to do lol. what my question is, is does anyone have any ideas on what i can do for new years eve? thanks (link)
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you can invite some of your friends and throw a party or sleepover at eachothers houses...hope i helped
lildesidevil143
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Okay. My friend told me something not to tell anyone. I accidentally told someone though, like it slipped out. She won't talk to me and she told me to tell the person I was kidding and I was just wondering, so I did and now shes like "you're crazy, you're insane" crap like that and it's really annoying but I don't know how to deal with it, because we were really good friends, and I would think she would have been more mature about something like that. Anyway, my question is what should i do about it, there is no way she is gonna let me have my say and tell her what happened and she won't even talk to me. How should I handle this? (link)
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You need to confront her and tell her that you never meant to tell anybody and that it slipped out. Tell her that your VERY sorry and you hate it that she's mad at you. Then if she's like ok but she still doesn't tell you anything understand that she needs some time before she can tell you anything, then work your way up to being her best friend again
hope this helps!
lildesidevil143
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Ok, I was friends with this girl from 7th grade to 9th grade,but then crap happened and we weren't friends anymore. Then earlier this year that girl was talking crap about my friend behind her back. And I was like get over it, your not her friend so why do you have to talk about her. And like she gives me dirty looks in the hall, what do you think I should do about her?? (link)
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i think that you should ignore her and if that doesn't help then go up to her and ask her what her problem and why does she hate you
hope this helped
lildesidevil143
p.s i think i know who this is!
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Therez this girl that i know and we used to be friends but then some crap happend and like we arent n e more but now she wont leave me alone and she alwayz tries to talk to me and like i sorta feel bad for her cuz she really doesnt have n e other friends but then like she buggz the hell outta me and i dont like her and we never really talk...shes just kinda there. And then like sometimez she makes up like weird excuses to talk to me online, like shell randomly IM me and say some crap and i just dont kno what to do to get rid of her and how to get her to leave me the hell alone. PLZZZ help its getting on my last nerve! (link)
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you should stand up to her and tell her that she is annoying you...maybe she'll leave you a lone.
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Ok. I was friends with someone for 3 years. Then last year during our Freshman year alot of crap happened between her, and one of my friends. After that, someone told her I said stuff behind her back. And I didn't. But she believed that person over me, so now we aren't friends. But I guess that's not really a question, but I wanted to tell you, and see if you had anything to say about it. (link)
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well, not to be rude but ok if she believed someone over you then maybe that person was better friends with her than you.
aliya
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Hi I am christian, and I have a friend who is jewish. I want to get her a "holiday" present, but I am not sure what to call it, or if she would think it was rude. I am also not sure when i should give it to her. I don't know when haunaka is. What do you think? (link)
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I think that if you really wanna give them a present then you should give it for New Year's. Just say its a New year's present. thats how i do it
hope this helps
aliya
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Well!My friend a while ago started cutting herself, but then she stopped. Today I hit her arm and she said ouch. I knew right away what she did because she gave me this look. Then she laughed about it. I honestly don’t think that it is funny. She is one of my best friends and I don’t need her going off and hurting herself. When she laughs about it, it makes me feel like she doesn’t want me to care or anything. She showed me her arm and it looks pretty bad and shes like ooo its not that bad. I don’t want to tell an adult but she has been pretty depressed latly and I don’t kno anymore if I should continue helping her about it or just give her her own space. (link)
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what you should do is u should tell her to get some help. And if you are her best friend then you should tell a parent because she shouldn't cut herself. Ive lost a friend because of that. Also tell her that w/e she is going thru can't be so bad that she wants to die.Tell her that god never promised to make things easy but he did promise that he will never give u something so big that u cannont handle. To make her stop from hurting herself and others you should get her a punching bag or something to ease her anger.
Hope this helps
Aliya
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ok me and my best friend have been friends for like a year. she transferred to our skool 2months into the school year during our freshman year. well when she first moved here she still dated her this guy from her old town which is only like 20miles away...maybe less. well they broke up and no its been like 9months since they broke up and lately she has been sayin that i should go out with him. from what she has told me about him he sounds like the kind of guy i would date and i think we could be good together but she is my best friend and i dont kno whether i should date him or not. i mean there is the best friend rule..no dating ur best friends ex...idk i have brought it up to her and how im afraid if i date him it will hurt out friendship but she insists that it would be fine bc she wasnt in love with him and she thinks he and i would be good for eachother and stuff. i just dont kno wut to do....plz i need sum serious advice on this one... ~!~xoxo~!~nichole~!~xoxo~!~ (link)
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well, I think that you should go ahead and date him. But make sure it's completely ok with ur friend. And maybe she just wants you to date him so she knows how he's doing.And take it this way that maybe she's helping you get a good bf!
hope this helps!
aliya
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