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I am a thirteen year old girl, and he is a fourteen year old guy and we are both in the eighth grade (almost Freshmen)
So, my best friend and I got in a fight for the twentieth time this month it seems, but he claims it is always ME. that starts it. We are project partners for a 30 minute documentary that is due next week, and I have done ALL the work. he has gone off ice skating while I filmed, and so many other times has he blown me off. He also left me for the ENTIRE science project, which I did an A+ job on and he got credit. I calmly asked him to help in the project more, thinking that he would be cool about the situation but no. He literally YELLS at me in the hallway, and making me embarrassed in front of everyone in the hallway.
I simply asked him a question for him to help more, and he hasn't talked to me since calling me dramatic to other people. all of his friends are against me, which is practically the whole eighth grade. Should I apologize, or should I just be brave and stay like this for the last eight days of school? (link)
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i think you and your bestfriend should just sit down and talk about the situation. Just ask him to help you because him not helping you is really unfair. but if he doesn't help you then you should talk to the teacher about him and tell her about him not helping you. I think that should solve the problem.
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I've never had a real best friend untill now, I've been best friends with my friend Tiffany for about 3 years and we're like sister's. For some reason I get jeloues and depressed because she hangs out with other people and doesn't invite me. But when I do that she gets mad that I ditched her or whatever.
I had a group a friends a few years ago, and they pushed me away because of what I was going threw, Now I guess I feel like she's going to do that to me. It's always in the back of my mind whenever she hangs out with other people. I can't help it either. I shut down sometimes because I get so sad about it, scared almost. What should I do? I told her how I felt already and she said she understands but she doesn't know what to do about it. There isn't much she can do though, I mean this is my fault right? (link)
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No, emtional problems are not your fault peope don't decide to go through these things someitmes it's jsut thrown at them, talk to a counselor or some one because usually cases like these get worse.
(justagirl15)
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My friend is feeling scared and she's really upset and crying. She wont talk to me. What can I do to comfort her ? What should I say to her ? (link)
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Wait unitl she finishes the crying part and ask her whats wrong,this is a really touchy subject but if you know your friend really well make her fell bad a bout not talking to you by saying stuff like "Friends are suppose to tell each othr every thing" and if you don't think that will work then maybe it's too hurtful to talk about.
(justagirl15)
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My best friend is going through a hard time with her family. Her mom is a homosexual, her father is going through a divorce with a bitch who was always mean to her. She is very protective of me and our other friend. She said that she " will enjoy every scream and every drop of blood someone spills that she causes after they try to hurt us. I've been really worried about her,and I insisted that we take her to a couseler since she won't let me help. She began cutting herself saying she "aches to see blood." She got mad at me for "thinking there was something wrong with her" but I'm just worried. She starts to go toward someone to hit them then stops. She always tries to help everyone else saying she comes last. She won't let me help, and she hates attention so why is she doing this? Whats wrong? Please help- Worried friend (link)
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Ok,tell her mom and dad, I don't really care what they are going through but they need to help their child get through this because what they are going through is afecting her too, and if that does not help then telll some one else tell the school counselor or a teacher, or you r parents:)concerned
(justagirl15)
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Okay I have friends, but no one close. I don't have any girlfriends that I can call whenever I need to talk and advice. I have family , but we all know that's... different. I just need someone... how do I go about making a new friend.... help! (link)
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I know how you feel I dont have any friends either and trust me I am not ugly, and I am very nice but no one wants to be my friend,i am the new gurl though. If no one wants to talk to you talk to them, and ask for numbers smile at peolpe keep asking me questions, we can be each others friends:)
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I had this friend freshman year. She was my best friend. We had so many laughs and good times, and we've both been through some tough times. We were great together. But she caused too much drama. Her up and down depression, her negativity, and her promiscuous ways had me fighting a roller coaster of emotions. When I tried to help her, she always closed me out. She was always ordering me around. But the worst problem were the boys. They say you should never end a friendship because of a boy, but she did. She gave me permission to date her ex but yet was still flirting with him and messing around with him while I was with him. That led him to breakup with me several times and he went back to her.
I got over it and then when I was dating someone she'd been rejected by since fourth grade, my ex decided to rub in my face that she was still dating him. I got upset that she didn't tell me and I had to find out from someone else... And school finally came, and we didn't talk for a while. I forgave her but then she just went way too far. She was always sexually all over my boyfriend at the time because she was jealous that I got the guy she's always wanted. I told her off, and we didn't talk. And now, sophomore year, we are not friends. However, sometimes I miss her.
But I remember her shit. She called me a whore that loves "niggers" and I was finally through. I reported her for harassment and told her to her face she has no right to call me a whore. I know for a fact she has slept with more guys than I can even count.
But now I feel bad. She glares, stares, and dirty looks me up and down. But still, she doesn't talk crap about me anymore. She hates me. She's so jealous of me. I don't have any need to talk to her. But now I feel pity for her because her family got evicted from their home, and she has always had a tough time with life and school.
I don't want to be her friend because I pity her, but I just feel bad for all the shitty things I think about her. She's going through so much and I know barely anyone is there for her. In my classes, nobody talks to her. She's always sitting alone while everyone is flocked around me, laughing and having a great time. Sometimes I feel like a bad person for not liking her because she needs someone to talk to that understands her like I used to. I'm not desiring to be her friend again, but I just want to help her. (link)
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Find her a new friend that listens to her the way that you did.
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Approximately one month ago, I finally decided I was ready to tell the world my biggest secret: I was pansexual. I liked both sexes, and everything in between, from transgenders, to transvestites, to...well, everything! My boyfriend was supportive from the get-go, and my close friends comforted me and were always there to talk. After the first few days, I was in heaven. I was finally on the way to becoming free of being confined in the closet.
...that didn't last long.
You see, my boyfriend (to summarize) had a lot of family issues, and is currently living with his close friend. I'll call this friend Z. For easy purposes. Z is not only my boyfriend's closest friend; he is also my best friend K's boyfriend. We are all kinda connected as such. The family he is currently staying with is a steadfast, old-school Christian family. And honestly, I had no problem with that; I'm a Christian myself, and I enjoyed going to their church meetings and helping out. They seemed very open and accepting, and I felt like I wasn't being judged for who I was when I was there...
At first.
I was sitting in one of the youth group meetings they held every Wednesday, just a week or so after revealing myself to my closer friends, when the worship leader (who is Z's mother) began an oddly vicious speech which included the following:
"Trust me, I know. I had a gay best friend. And I knew from the moment he told me, he was going straight to Hell."
I admit, my reaction was a bit unnecessary, but I had to do it anyway. I slammed my chair back, stood up, and walked out of the church.
The next day, Z was relatively silent on the matter, and my boyfriend and friends were there to help me vent my frustration. However, a few days later, an annoying string of facebook comments from him sparked an anger in me I didn't know I could hold. He began criticizing me and insulting my faith, saying that I was going to burn in Hell along with all the other gays. His church friends began to join in, and eventually, so did his father, who slung so many harsh things my way, my mother was ready to slug him.
My boyfriend can't move out, even if he wanted to. His family situation is completely toxic. So now, I am constantly forced into situations where me and Z are in close quarters. We haven't spoken since the incident.
I do not know what to do. My mind tells me to confront him; my heart tells me that he's not worth it, and I had better move on and try to live with him. All I know is that if this continues, there's gonna be a point where I blow up, either at him or at myself, and it's not too far off. I have been so confident in my faith and religion lately, and I feel great about where my life is going. To have him try to take that away from me...I'm not even sure he deserves my anger at all. (link)
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They were absolutely wrong in telling you that you were going to hell. Because only God can choose that. Who are they to tell you were you are going. Z is entirely in the wrong and no he does not deserve your anger, if he were really a good friend then he wouldn't haze turned on you that way. continue not to talk to him. Well I wont say that because God says forgive and forget so yes talk to him apologize for your behavior but only because you are the bigger person, i mean as long as you too are constantly in close quarters.The so called christian are hypocrites because you rnot suppose to udge people because God doesn't judge us no matter how many wins we commit a day, he still forgives us and if that isn't possible for the other people then they need to change thier religion because they are not true christians.
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