This kid keeps bothering me. hes my ex boyfriend. ever since i broke up with him, hes been a jerk. my best friend and i do it back when he does it.... he totaly dezerves it. Today my best friend told him something, and he told the teacher. The teacher suggested we should go to the gguidence coulcelors office. Im afraid that we could get in trouble. What should we say to persuade someone that it wasent our falt, because it wasnt?
Just don't be nervous because if you are then your going to end up getting yourself into trouble i don't think that you should have did the same thing that he did to you because thats just showing that your on the same level that he is on you want to be better then him so i would just leave him alone completly if he's being a jerk then thats him he will get he deserves in the future as for the meeting i would just tell her/him that your ex keeps bothering you and i starting things about you.
kk hope i hepled
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I had this friend freshman year. She was my best friend. We had so many laughs and good times, and we've both been through some tough times. We were great together. But she caused too much drama. Her up and down depression, her negativity, and her promiscuous ways had me fighting a roller coaster of emotions. When I tried to help her, she always closed me out. She was always ordering me around. But the worst problem were the boys. They say you should never end a friendship because of a boy, but she did. She gave me permission to date her ex but yet was still flirting with him and messing around with him while I was with him. That led him to breakup with me several times and he went back to her.
I got over it and then when I was dating someone she'd been rejected by since fourth grade, my ex decided to rub in my face that she was still dating him. I got upset that she didn't tell me and I had to find out from someone else... And school finally came, and we didn't talk for a while. I forgave her but then she just went way too far. She was always sexually all over my boyfriend at the time because she was jealous that I got the guy she's always wanted. I told her off, and we didn't talk. And now, sophomore year, we are not friends. However, sometimes I miss her.
But I remember her shit. She called me a whore that loves "niggers" and I was finally through. I reported her for harassment and told her to her face she has no right to call me a whore. I know for a fact she has slept with more guys than I can even count.
But now I feel bad. She glares, stares, and dirty looks me up and down. But still, she doesn't talk crap about me anymore. She hates me. She's so jealous of me. I don't have any need to talk to her. But now I feel pity for her because her family got evicted from their home, and she has always had a tough time with life and school.
I don't want to be her friend because I pity her, but I just feel bad for all the shitty things I think about her. She's going through so much and I know barely anyone is there for her. In my classes, nobody talks to her. She's always sitting alone while everyone is flocked around me, laughing and having a great time. Sometimes I feel like a bad person for not liking her because she needs someone to talk to that understands her like I used to. I'm not desiring to be her friend again, but I just want to help her.
i have been through the same thing with one of my friends we dont talk either but what goes around comes around i mean she had this going for herself you deserve to be friends with someone who wont talk about you behind your back and will always be by your side.
i know you feel bad for her but its not your fault its hers she started all the drama between your friendship so she lost your trust. I would maybe forgive her for the past but i wouldnt go and be best friends again because you now no what shes capable of. maybe you could just say hi and bye to her you no be her assicaite. because maybe she just needs a friend and who nos maybe she changed...
hope i helped.
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so i have a group of friends i sit with at lunch and they are the popular group. i am also friends witht this other girl, Bethanny, she is viewed as a "slut" i think at times we are 13. the girls i sit with do not like her and talk about her, they are jealous that she gets with the guys they like, but then again those girls are really pretty but the guys go for the skank. and thats what bugs them. and i am friends with the skank. i only think she is skanky sometimes. i have told my friends what she had said to me and then told them. but it wasnt too faced because she said it to me and a group of people and she didnt care if people knew. She is really nice, risky, cute, and we have both cut and i feel she understands me better. But if i become really good friends with her, which im trying to fight, i dont wanna get kicked outta my table and my friends hate me. So i dont know what to do, because we could easily be bffl and my friends are just haters. But i love them too much to go against them. I dont know what to do, can i be bffl with both?
Sometime in situation like this you might be influenced by the bad perosn in this case the girl who is considered a "slut" you dont want to be like her you should be friends with your lunch table in my option because what if one day you and your new bffl get into an arguement then stop talking your not going to have any other friends to back you up. Maybe you can comprimise and try to be friends with both but that could cause tension between both you and your lunch table friend and your other friend is it really worth it. I would still be friend with the other girl though because maybe she does the things that she does for a reason maybe she needs someone to be there for her there could be a real reason behind why she does what she does. be her friend but dont become to close yet first find out what shes really about
kk hope i helped
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ok so i think my best friend has an eating disorder . . .she never eats or drinks because she thinks she is fat.which she isnt . . she wont listen to me when i tell her she needs help. . . she says that she will do watever it takes to loose weight even if it means having to be in the hospital. . . please give me advice
aw I'm sorry to hear this :( my best friend was the same way and she ended up in the hosptial i think that you should tell her the things that can happen to her and tell her how much it hurts you to see her this way because she's not only hurting herself but the people around her just help her out and be by her side she needs a friend right now and maybe you should get her some help if it really gets serious i think that yu should jus show her how much you love her this is a sticky situaion and I've been in it before so just show her love and make sure you tell her how it hurts you to see this happen to her.
kk hope this helped . and hope everything works out for the best ill pray for you and your best friend (:
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I have a friend who i've grew up with in a church we still go to. well my b'day was a few weeks ago and the day b4 i broke up with my boyfriend (bf) and about two weeks b4 my friend (lets call him john) broke up with his girlfriend (gf). well for the past month and a 1/2 i havent been to church(i know shame on me, but it's been alot going on), so one last sunday john calls me & fusses at me because i keep saying i'll go but i don't
so john and i wound up talkin all day. during our conversation he told me about the alabama vs. florida football game and how his family is into college football and they have these party's like every saturday, and he invites me and i agreed to go. he also tells me he likes me. (yes i like him) (fast foward) so its saturday and like around 6:00 he sends his sister to come and get me because he had to run and get the food for the "party".
when she comes and get me my mom is ok with me going because she knows i grew up with him & his family in our church. when i get there his whole family is there and i feel almost out of place because i don't see him. so his sister leads me to him and then asks do i wanna go out side, so we go out side. so we walk aroud and then ended up in his back yard talking for like an hour. then he had to run to the store so i rode with him.
when we got back we sat in his truck (for the record i'm 17 he's 16 but he'll be 17 in feb.)so i grab a CD and just poped it in and the only thing that was playing on the CD was slow music. instead of turning we listened to it and kept talking(you may already know where i'm going with this) so john asks me "have you ever wanted to do something but your not sure wat the reaction or after affect will be" i said "yeah i kind feel like that right now" then i aske wat is it you wanna do?" (long story short) he kissed me, even though i liked & wanted to, i pulled away.
well, i tried not to look at him but whin i did "I" kissed him. next thing i knew we were at his cousin's house around the corner having sex... (fast FWD) when we went back to his house everyting was normal except the fact we were trying to hide what just happened. when i left his house we talked that night and we both made the same coment "wow, i can't believe wat happened, we've known each other for so long and... i would've never guessed" so sunday (this past sunday) i go to church, because i made a promise to go, and i'm sitting in the church alone and he walks in and it felt weird to be THERE, NEXT TO HIM... usuall we are trying to keep eachother up but this past sunday we could bearly keep our eyes open. (and if your wondering yes we are "suppose to be" going our/ talking)
so later last night (sunday night) we are on he phone and he says " it felt weird sitting next to you" and i was speachless because i felt the same way. well the thing is every day he texts me even in school and i realized today his signature says "!(SINGLE)!" but i don't know if its "still ther because of his past relationship, or if he only consider us as friends.
i'm sorry my story is so long, but o need answers because i don't know what to do. i feel like if i ask him then our "relatonship" or "friendship" (which ever one we have) will be completely tarnished. so what do i do? please help me, i ned answers, i'm so lost.
okay well im sorry about your situation and the way you feel. maybe you guys felt like it was werid to sit next to each other in church because you knew what happend before (sex) maybe you both felt some type of guilty do you like him? i think that you should open up to him and tell him how you feel because if you dont it will only make things worst dont make it ovious though jus like work your way around the situation i think that the whole single thing might have been from his past relationship i mean if you guys talk everyday like you said then there must oviously be something there.. if he's who you think he is then if you guys talk about what happend and how you feel then i dnt think that your friendship/ relationship with end i well i hope the best for you i hope i helped (:
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Okay. I may just start writing you on here since i get on like all the time. But Sorry for not mentioning my age. I just turned 19 this month. So I believe im older then you but hey, any advice is well appreciated, no matter the age. But Im bi-racial and i some how have SOOOO many problems..lol. But The first is with my friends. I just cant seem to break from them! Sounds crazzi right?.. But trust me I have a perfectly good explantion for it. I just feel like Ive out grown my friends...Idk. Its like im no longer interested in their stories or the way they live their lives. I knw that the way they live their lives have nothing to do with me but i cant help but to think their out to get me!...Yea it sounds crazzi but its true. Nothing good have come to me with having friends like them....Ugh,\. I just dont know what to do when their txting me and calling and all. Would you consider me to be wishy washy ans a bad friend..?? What Iam I suppose to do?!. I just simply Want New Friends..
Well in my opioin if you think that your friends are doing the wrong thing then you should make them become your assisates you know someone who you could jus say hi and by to don't let them take over your live and allow them to take you over because you are better then that. If you feel that you need new friends then go out and make some new friends it may be hard at first bt i thinky uo can do it. and when they call you and text you all the time just tell them that your busy doing something else i mean if it gets to the point where they keep texting you and calling you constatly maybe you should cahnge your number. And if you still wanted to be their friends then maybe yu should talk to them about the sistauation you know like say i dont like when you do this i think you guys are acting immiature and if they dnt like what you have to say then maybe you guys really should be frienda a relationship is about honesty and trust and no your nt wishy washy you want whats best fro your self well i hope i help hope i hear back from you (:
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Hey Iris, My Name is monique and im the one that was seeking "A Steady Advice Partner"...and I have good news, you are the one that i have choosen!!! woot woot! lol..but no seriously, i got some reply's to my search and i was pissed. Lots of people were given me attitude for wanting to just have one particular person that i wrote to but hey, who cares right. I just dont wanna have to wait for someone to read my question and maybe answer it. And besides I looked at your column and read some very good advice that you have given. You seem to knw what your talking about and I would love to get your veiw on somethings if you dont mind. Oh and I knw that this isnt a question but i didnt knw how to inbox you.....?? So if you have an email,facebook,or any other direct way that i can write you that would be fine. Thanx Hun!
haha yay ! woot woot ! how old are yuu and yaa i have a msn its irisbaby@live.com or i have a yahoo iris_16_princess@yahoo.com and yaa i have a facebook and right who care people are lame haha bt thanks for choosing me i LOVE giving people advice so i would really love to hear back from you either through this email facebook whatever it doesnt matter so ya in the email or whatever just tell me who you are kk (:
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Okay I have decided That i want a STEADY advice buddy which means that i want to have one specific person (that actually LOVE giving advice) That i can write to wheneva i need advice. Im senseing that some of the advicee that is giving to me is not serious. I wont someone that will actually think the advice that they are about to give to me and not go off their own disappointments. Example: If I ask someone what should i do about my boyfriend I dont want the response to be...(FORGET HIM!!! HE'S NOT WORTH IT) Just because that person have had some problems in their relationship. I wont a person that I can send direct msgs to. I also want someone that wont take FOREVER to respond bacc because I really do need help on some situations. So please, if you feel as if you can be a great advice buddy then please respond. Thanks
me me me =] ! i LOVE giving advice and i am on this site every single day check out my page i love love love giving advice lol i havent been through alot bt i see alot that goes on in the world so i'll b able to help yu =D soo if you think i sound intresting then hit me up p.s im 17/f
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