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okay this is really weird.. im 13/f and i juss found out one of my best guy friends is gay! he doesnt know me and my friend know.. but now me and my friend cant look at him the same.. were not aggaint gay people but i mean when we see him talking to another guy its kinda freaky cuz what if he is flirting with him.. i dont know he has had a girl friend and me and my friend thought he was gay because he hung out with all girls but we didnt want to believe it.. and we want to be friends with him still but this is all happening so fast and we dont know what to do!! can you please help us and help us find a way to not think of him as gay and think of his as we used to.. we will rate 5's
sincerley
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First of all how do you know hes gay? and just think of it as a plus that hes gay . now you and him and your other girl friend can all sit around and talk about guys and he can help you explain why a guys being a jerk or soemthing cause he is one so he understands them better.and if you dont want to do that .then just confront him about his "gayness" maybe he isnt actually gay. i mean there are tons of rumors in middle school way to much drama for anyone to live with.and he probably isnt sure if he wants to be gay yet i mean he is only 13 or 14. maybe he just thinks he will have better luck with guys then girls. so maybe if you can get him a girlfriend he will change.it just all depends on so many factors.and when you do see him talking to another guy just remember its like you tlaking to a guy or guys talking to girls theres nothing wrong with it.
Okay, my ex best friend Lana betrayed me. How? Well, she went and slept with this boy that I had a MAJOR crush on! And not once, but twice! I can't believe she would ever do that to me. And to make it worst, she told me she might be pregnant!! So you could imagine how much I hated her at this point. Anyway, to get her back, I told the boy (Clad) that she WAS pregnant, and that he was the father. So she was really pissed at me. But can you blame me? Now she's saying that what I did was 10 times worse then what she did to me. But I dont think so. What's your opinion? (Thanx for helping me out)
I think what she did was extremely worse.i mean all you did was tell the guy who probably is the father that he is the father of her kid.How is that mean? Its better to let him know then keep it from him.He would find out sooner or later anyways. and if she didnt want to have his kid she shouldnt have slept with him.Plus she new you really liked him which is even worse.ITs not as if she was just like oh hes cute i guess ill go sleep with him..But its not really my opinion that counts cause it wont affect thats already been done.Im sry about her doing that to you though and i hope things work out for the better.
ok i realy like this guy and i thought he liked me for a little bit but then a couple days ago his friends told me that he said " i wasnt that hot" and that he used me pretty much jsut to "do stuff" and now i dont think im going to talk to him before i see him again and im just wondering what i should say to him about him .. im not mad i just want to know what the hell is going on and why!!
ok well if i was you id be pretty pissed. and i would probably confront him about it .If you dont want to confront him you could always stop "doing stuff" with him .cause if he is talking about you behind your back but is all sweet to you when your around him hes not that great of a guy. Cause that means he is just using you. You deserve a guy who doesnt say shit behind your back , and who doesnt tell his friends one thing and you another.Guys dont understand that girls get all emotional about stuff like this and that girls actually think about whats happening in there "relationship".I think you should leave his sry ass.And dont let him know that he hurt you.
One of my best friends used to have this "thing" with this guy. They seemed perfect for each other. But he stopped talking to her and pretty much dumped her, even though they weren't dating. She still has really strong feelings for him and I was there for her throughout the entire time. Now, I'm beginning to like this guy, and well he likes me too. My friend suspects something is up and I don't know what to do because I don't want to hurt her in any way. But I think I really like this guy, and he really seems into me too, but I know my friend would be devastated if I started dating him. Like I said I don't know what to do. She's one of my best friends and I don't want to lose her as a friend. Do I tell her that I like him or not? What do I do about this guy? Do I pursue a relationship or what? I really need some advice! Please help!
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OK since she really liked him and it seemed llike he liked her too and then just "dumped" her i would say dont do anything with him.It seems like he's just a player.Having a friend is so much better than just have a boyfriend for a couple of months or so.You can still talk to the guy but dont go out with him.He could do the same thing to you as he did your friend and then you wouldnt have aboyfriend or that friend anymore.Seems like the risk of losing her is to great to take.There are tons of guys find two that are good friends and maybe you and your friend could double date .