My best friend Olivia invited me and this girl Whitney, her 2 best friends, to go get a manicure with her for her birthday. The only problem is that we're going on the 23rd, and it's the 14th, so i want to stop biting my nails but i don't know how-------any suggestions???????
PLZ HELP ME!!!!!!!!!$$$babiid$$$$$$
well i bite my nails and the way i stop doing it is either sitting on my hands, chewing gum, or just painting my nails by myself cause i didnt want the taste of nailpolish in my mouth so i didint bite em
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what should I do I had this friend named Matthew and latly he has not been acting like a friend he sits around and let people talk about me like I am nothing right in front of my face he try to play stuff off but I see right thru him and he talks about wanting me to be his girlfriend. he show off in front of people like that inpresses me he acts like a jerk
plz help me Christine15 I am 15 and a female
well my mom always said if a guy makes fun of you or laughs when someone says somethin about you then that guy likes you. and maybe he does like you. But you should deff. tlk to him and how you feel when he does this to you. Oh and its kinda a ca-wink-a-dink how my name is christine and im 15 lol
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my best friend new i liked this kid and she still went with him and i told her i still like him nd she like rubes it in my face so i told him... and now she i smad and thinks im stealing him.. wut should i do?
hey, if she knew you liked him first and now your stealing him back from her then she has no fucken reason for being madd at her..she started it!
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Her, I'm having a a slumber party (10 girls) What should we do? ( we aren't allowed to invite guys over, cuz we're only 13)
play truth or dare, its wicked fun. I love it lol. Uhm, talk about thing, go on the computer, listen to music, just do girl stuff
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should i leave my friend to go to a party with the guy i like or stay with my friend. me and my friend made the plans earlier than the party had come up....
GO WITH YOUR FRIEND! FRIENDS COME FIRST! ALWAYS REMEMBER THAT! But also make plans with the boy later...
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Ok, well, as of now I want to have a girl boy party for my 13th birthday. I want it to be something fun and out of the house. Not that corny spin the bottle and 7 minutes in heaven crapp. I live up north so it's gonna be cold. I'm really not interested in a swimming, ice-skating, or dancing party. Please help me! I need an idea asap! Thanks for your advice! : )
uhm, do something wicked fun, if your parents let you, have a sleepover with the boys and girls!
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okay, so my "best friend" got a boyfriend and decided she didnt wanna hang out with me anymore! and so i got new friends and she trys making me feel like shit about it, but she never asks me to hang out, never talks to me, she doesnt even care that we arent even close anymore. all she cares about is her boyfriend. and she always says how she hates everyone and shit and so then i'll say something, yet she just says oh well we never hang out! and i mean she wasnt just my best friend, she was like my sister. we spent every weekend together, & went through everything at the same time. but now its all about her boyfriend, she treats me like shit and always makes me feel like im a bad person for getting new friends?! but i dont get it, does she want me to just have no friends at all. i dont know i just think its messed up, and i want her as my best friend still, but she's so caught up on her boyfriend. and its not that i dont want them together, because i do .. but you FRIENDS COME FIRST!! but she doesnt understand that. i dunno what to do?!
hey babe, well its always hard loosing your best friend to some ridiculous boy. and your totally right, friends should come first whether or not you have a boyfriend or not. Best friends were always close until boys came into the picture! i have 2 friends that are like 2 of my best friends and they are in a fight&they are like sisters. And i am trying so hard to get them back together cause they chill every weekend just like you and your best friend used to. Its wicked hard trying to balance your boyfriend&your best friend. But babe, you have to talk to this friend, tell her how you feel but dont make it a screaming matter, screaming doesnt help babe, sit this friend down or call her on the phone, without screaming..talk to her and how uu feel about how she keeps you out of the picture when shes with her boyfriend, tell her how you think friends should come 1st. Maybe she will understand, i hope she does. As for her being, i dont know, jealous?, for you having other friends beside her, thats her fucken problem, you can have more than 1 best friend, so just tlk to her! PLEASE! I hope things work out
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my best frien dylan and I have no been the same since me and my exbf broke up. It seems as if he and I have completly drifted apart. I love him so much more then a friend, but he told me that he doesnt feel any love from me and he feels like I have abandoned him and I haven't. We got in a fight last nite and I hung up on him thenhe called me back and he hung up me, but theres much more to the story then that but its too long. I am going to call him until he picks up his cell phone bc i need to talk to him. We used to be like really close friends almost boyfriend and gurlfriend we just didnt have that lable. I miss the way we used to be. I dont want him to feel abandoned or like I dont love him bc I love him with all my heart. He is messing up his life bc he smokes pot and I kno that he is really depressed. What should I do? I will do anything to make him happy bc even though he and I are not dating he is my babii and I love him.
If he isn't answering his cell phone and isn't talking to you, I would just go to his house and talk to him in person. That way, he has no choice but to talk to you. Tell him how you feel and be completely honest with him.
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I found out yesterday that a good friend of mine was killed at a party. Someone had slipped ecstasy in her drink and then she was brutally raped while she was passed out. I feel like this is all my fault. The reason being is because I always went to parties with her and I would always tell her "Beck, don't drink at parties". She'd always yell at me and tell me that I acted like her mother. But I knew I was right, I don't trust the drinks that people hand out at parties. The guy that raped her was my ex-boyfriend. I still feel like this was all my fault because, had I been there, he wouldn't have done anything to her because he's afraid of me. I'm sure by now you're all probably thinking "This is a load of bull" but believe it. This actually happens to people. She was my best friend. I knew I should have gone with her to that party. I'm completely miserable right now. She was my best friend. I always figured that nothing like that could ever hit so close to home. I'd always see stories like this on the news and I'd think to myself "How could they be so stupid?" Or, "That would never happen where I live." But it has. I don't know how to handle this. My ex boyfriend was arrested and my friends family is waiting to go to court but in the time being, I don't know how to handle myself. I don't even have the courage to go to her funeral tomorrow. I need help getting through this. Please help me... Thank you for those who take this seriously. I would really also like a non-sarcastic answer because this is a touchy subject for me. Thank you.
I apologize for the length.
babe, i know what your going through. My friend was raped, now she wasnt my best friend and she didnt die, but its such a scarry subject to even think about! Im soo sorry for your loss and i would do anything to get you out of that slump your in! I know its wicked hard to deal with all this, but you have to stay strong! Dont do anything to yourself cause it wont help anything! Extasy is wicked bad, i know, cause my friends do it and i see the way they are and it kills me but i also thought i was gonna do it cause idk why. But i guess this teaches you a lesson on how to be careful at parties, like if you buy a bottle of water or something and you drink some and then you go on the dance floor and then come back, BUY A NEW ONE! cause you dont know if someone put something in it or not. Im sorry for your loss though. My uncle killed himself because of drugs and that was totally not called for. BUT PLEASE DO NOT DO ANYTHING TO YOURSELF AND KEEP SAFE!! I AMMMMM SOOOOO SORRY AND IF YOU NEEDA TLK IM ME HIXIMCHRISTINE!!!
I am really sorry about your friend. That should never happen to anyone. I think you should look into the past and think about the memories you made with your friend. It will hurt you and it will probably make you cry but it is good for you. You will see how happy you were when you were with her and you will probably think to yourself, "I'll never be happy anymore." But I have news for you, you will. You think she is gone but she isn't. This may sound kind of stupid, but she is probably watching over you. She isn't gone out of your life. She is still in your heart and forever will be. Take the time to think about how any fights you may have had have made your friendship stronger. Don't worry about being alone and not having any friends because I am sure you will find a new friend. However, no one could ever take her place as your best friend. You should go to her funeral as a thank you; thanking her for always being there for you, thanking her for always making you happy, thanking her for seeing the best of you, etc. She isn't gone, she is always with you. I'm sorry again and I know you will be ok. Feel better.
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My best friend has OCD... and she reminds me of it like 24/7. Whenever she leaves the house she asks like over and over if she left sumthin on and such. I keep reminding her that OCD is just that she is detailed and stuff like that (my parents are both doctors and explained it). It's driving me NUTS! help! what do I do?
I know you friend has a disorder but try tlking to her telling her to try to not be so compulsive..just to calm down! i mean try and work it out
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Okay, 3 of my very good friends think they're fat... and they're NOT!!! we're only 13 years old and they've been going on all these diets. They hardly eat anything at lunch! I cant convince them that they're not fat! I'm really afraid they're going to go anorexic or bulemic. I dont know what to do, or what to say to them to convince them they're not fat. I've talked to them MANY times about it, but they just dont believe me. It really bugs me that they think they're fat, cuz they're not fat AT ALL! please help me!
Bring them infront of a mirror, say "what do you see" then they will answer..if they say i see a fat cow or somethinn..tell em what you see and tell them they arent fat and then maybe they'll say "hey, im not, im not fat" ..hey thats just my perspective..thats how i would do it
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i wrote b4 about how my friend gets really frustrating and annoying, and every1 told me that i shoulldn't be friends with her, but its not that simple. one, anybody who just outright says ur so annoying she doesn't take seriously and just thinks they're joking, even after they tell her they aren't, and two, if i just go up to her and be like: i dont think we should be friends, we dont get along, etc etc, that would be really mean, and i have most of my classes @ skool with her, sitting right next to her, and i wouldnt be able to do it anyway.is there some other option?
dropping friends is never really that easy. Once i had to, and i was just like "We cant be friends anymore, you annoy the heck outta me" i mean i wasnt trying to be a bitch but then she kept trying to tlk to me so i just ignored her and went my seperate ways. I mean yeah its hard when you have alot of classes with her but just try and keep it all together and just drop her without being a bitch..cause it would hurt her! So just try your best and if it doesnt go as smoothly as planned..then just think, you tried!
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I'm 16/f, and I have 3 friends who always do stuff withought me. I feel like i'm never included in anything they do. And I always feel like they're talking about me at theyre little get togethers. I'm always sitting at home while they're out having fun and they don't even bother to call me. I also think they're parents hate me as well, which sucks even more. My question is, what should I do when they DO call me and what should I tell them?
okay, it sucks having friends like that and being treated like that! i can relate..ive beeen treated like that all my life. But if they do call you should say "Dont call me anymore, if you want my friendship back then you have to come to me and fucken tell me to my face! All of you not including me when we are supposed to be friends pisses the fuck outta me, im so glad i had friends who wanted to be my friend" And i bet they'll say something..this could lead to great possibilities! But babe just keep your head up and try making more better friends that actually keep you included! i mean you dont need friends that fucken treat you like shit! THE ONLY PEOPLE YOU NEED IN YOUR LIFE ARE THE PEOPLE WHO NEED YOU IN THERES!!
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My bestfriend decided she didnt like me anymore because i have a boyfriend that i have been hanging out with more than her, although she had been hanging out with my sister before that what do i do to get her friendship back??
hey babe, i can relate cause im goin through the same thing only its the other way around. You just have to be strong! I mean, call this friend and talk to her..sit her down and talk to her face to face. I mean she probably still thinks of you as a best friend, shes just mad at you cause she probably feels out of the picture. Keep her in the picture..call her, ask her to hang out with you and your boyfriend or just make a time for her and make time for your boyfriend. Boys come and go but your girls will always be there for you! Tell your boyfriend that you wiLl chill with him sometimes but your best friend comes first..i mean your boyfriend and your best friend probably mean the same to you but you have to compromise. Chill with you boy one day and chill with you girl the other..or you can chill all three together..and maybe your sister can come! I mean all of you sound like tight close friends, do what makes you happy! Your friend will understand and im sure you boy will too. Tell your sister that you wanna all hang out together. it will work out great but whatever happens just keep your head up and know that im here if you wanna talk! Just talk to this friend and say sorry for keepin her outta the picture and just make her see it from your point of you and just see how you would feel if she did this to you! i cant tell you what to do, you dont have to make a decision between them but you do have to make a decision
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i like one of my friends and wanna be more
and i dont know what to do can u please healp
oh yeha weve known each other for about 2 years
signed
i want him
hey babe, okay what you do is talk to him! Tell him how you feel and have confidence! When you guys chill by yourselves..tell him then, dont tell him when your around other people cause then he wont listen. Be like can we talk, i have to tell you how i feel, i love being friends with you but i would love to be more. I really like you and i wanna be with you. Tell him this and maybe you'll get a response, just be open and confident and if he asks you out say yes! but if he just wants to be friends..understand cause being friends with him is more precious than being nothing with him
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ok so i have this friend, brittany, and we just became friends like over the summer. we were really really good friends and we did a lot stuff together until one month ago. she started blowin me off at skool and not invitin me to her house but other ppl. so i got mad and she did too so we were mad for a while until i decided that our friendship is too good for us to be mad at each other. so i apologized. and i told her that i was only mad cuz i felt left out and stuff like that. well when i told her that she got mad at me!! but then a week later i just said srry and nothin else. so now she doesnt talk to me as much and she still invites friends over but not me. oo yea and i cant just not b friends with her cuz she is on my soccer team and her dads tha coach(i no im screwed) so please help me fix this!!!! 13/f
hey babe, my names christine. omg i totally can relate to your situation, cause im going through the same thing with my best friend. But babe, you just have to stay strong, i mean you have other friends right? maybe if she sees how good of a friend you are and realizes you have been there for her soo much, then maybe she will come back. just give her time hun, and sit her down and talk, call her. I bet she'll understand. Just be strong and cheer up! and if you need me IM me on my sn Hiximchristine..
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