My name is Heather im 14 going into high school. I play basketball and volleyball, and just enjoy partying and gettin out with my friends. Im really good on advice, like everyone comes to me. Things that are serious that i've done is helped a kid get out of wanting to kill himself. I'm realy nice and i just love to help anyone and everyone, ill try my best to help you out.
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i moved to a new school about a year ago and you would think by now i would already be used to it but im not. at my other school we were all one big group with guys and girls we were all popular and i felt comfortable there and here its not like that. i have like a small group of friends like 5 people and were all girls the popular group is just like i was at my other school. its not that i want to hang out with them just because there popular but its more because thats just the kind of people i like as friends but now i dont know how i can get in there after a year (link)
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If they cant accept you for who you are, they arent worth it. But just be yourself, im pretty sure if you fit in with the popular girls at the other school you must be gorgeous with a great personality, they'll eventually accept you. Try doin activities that those girls might do, its always the best way. Hope I helped =)
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Well, my situation is as followed.
I have two best friends. One of which I dated, and we broke up. Now my other best friend whom is a girl, always thought my boyfriend was hot and lusted after him.
I trusted both of them completely, and not even a month after we broke up they had sex. Well, If one of them would of told me - it would of been nice but I found out thru HER ex boyfriend, and only because there was a pregnancy scare.
I feel betrayed because she promised she would never do anything with him, and I am still in love with him and she knew that when she did what she did.
He's away at basic in the army, and I had to deal with her. Her response was, "It's in the past, I cant do anything about it now." and her explanation for the event happening was that He started it, and she said (I quote) "I'm a ho, It's in my blood. Someone wants to hit this, I let them!"
I don't know how to deal with this situation. I didnt deck her like I wanted to, but I stayed over at her house and chilled that day because I wasn't sure how to react. Now she calls and I don't want to anwser her phone calls...how do I deal with this?
She seems to feel no remorse for it.. wants to be friends still..
But I know I can't just go on without having my say in it or else I will always feel bitter.
Yes it's in the past but the consequences are NOW.
I need help right away!
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That was really low, youshould let her know exactly how you feel and you dont think yo ucan be friends anymore because that hurt you! Tell her she should have thought about you and her actions for once, instead of being a ho and not controlling herself.
But if not, put it in the past.. and maybe you two can be friends again
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I feel like I am not needed. Like I don't have a purpose on this Earth. I feel like if I was gone, no one would notice. And I honestly believe that no one would. I would be gone for weeks before any of my "friends" noticed I was gone. And my family, they would all move on extremely quickly. I am always forgotten, left on the sidelines, doing nothing, locked up in my room, wishing that someone loved me....
How do I get pass this? (link)
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Aww, listen up you are needed and im pretty sure people would be devistated if you were to be gone. If you want someone to talk to im here, brautiganh212 is my screen name please talkto me sometime! Just keep your head up and dont do anything stupid, if its really that bad maybe you have some sickness, and im not lying i have friends like that. But im garanteeing you you have tons of friends and family that care for you! And if you're really locked up in your room thats crazy?
best of luck, please talk to me sometime if you want too! =)
-Heather
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My best friend is everything to me, but sometimes we make plans and she ends up ditchin me. And she always says that SHE'LL BE THERE, and then I ask her if she if going and she says "no", and when I ask "why" she says "I made plans before" and that absolutly ticks me off. And I get sooooo mad at her that I end up calling her a name or something. I always think that she talks about me because we kinda fight when we're not together. What do I do? Not be her friend? or... tell her to screw herself? or just ignore it and keep being her "friend"? (link)
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Well for one ask her why she is ditching you in a nice way. Be like im sorry but whats up? why are you blowing me off it hurts me. Be the bigger person and dont be mean even if she is... if shes not matture enough to tell you the truth of handle it correctly then just start hanging out with other people.. a best friend is someone who should always be there and not cause so much drama or make you feel like shit.
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Okay, so i don't have any friends. frankly alot of people don't like me because of all the drama that went on last year in 8th grade. Now i am really scared to be going into freshman, when almost everybody hates me when i only have about 4 girl friends.. and would've i`m not in any classes with them? well thats not my problem.. my problem is.. the people that don't like me are going to harass me and get everybody to gain up on me.. i`m now a religious christian && not many people know that, except for the people that went to church camp with me. i don't know what i am going to do. what should i say to people who are trying to fight with me.. should i like apologize to them.. so that they don't cause drama for me in 9th? i really just wanna stay out and be like unknown.. but thats not going to happen.. what do i do :[[ please please help. (link)
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Well sweetie I know how that feels. High school is a fresh start! Change the things you used to do that caused the drama. I dont know exactly what you did, but im pretty sure you can change it. Girls are bitches, you learn that in middle school. Apologizing would be the best thing, and if they arent mature enough to except it then forget them! 4 friends is great, and you should get to be friends with a lot of guys. there is soo much less drama with them and they are fun to hang out with.
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