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Infos first:
We're both boys
We're both 16
We've been friends since day 1
Now my bestfriend just got his girlfriend and I was happy at first. But normally, as we all expect, I was left out. When we went out, he always talked and texted on the phone and everything he told me was about his girl. I was pretty annoyed, but I was also very jealous. We've always been great friends, but when she came, that was kinda lost. Now here's the funny part
After two months, another girl showed up and my bestfriend kinda liked her. Now he told me all about her this time, how she was nice and such, and that she was his new bestfriend. Now I thought the same way you did. I was shocked and I ran away like a chicken XD Then I told his girlfriend, who is now my close friend, about the girl and how she replaced me. His girlfriend was not happy, she got mad and everything.
Now I told my bestfriend that I cant take it anymore, and that I wanted to leave him because I only get ignored and underappreciated. He explained to me that the girl didnt replace me. By saying "new", it means that there are two of us. Now here's the weird part.
After that day, he became sooo affectionate. Every morning, he asked me if I've eaten breakfast, then greeted me with good mornings. He also says he loves me (which is normal for us) everytime he says good bye. Is he pretending for the sake of our friendship? I mean, he just acted this way all of a sudden.
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He might have realized the friendship he had with you is special and he doesn't want to lose that with you. When he heard you were upset, he may have wanted to find a way to keep you, to show you that he cares. It may just require time for him to do this just so you get in your head that he really cares about you and wants to keep the friendship going.
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i always hang out by my self now or with my friend marley because my friends abby, lily, laura, kiley, emma jane, Eve, breanna and sohpie all like to hang around boys or popular groups and i dont like to me and marley are pretty popular to but we dont want to hang around those groups or boys what do we do?????? (link)
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Just continue to do with what you're doing. If they want to spend time with you, they will leave that other group every once in a while. Don't push them, its their choice. If they are your true friends, they will miss you and want to hang out with you
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To make a long story very short, I was in a relationship with this guy and we broke up about a month ago. The breakup was bad, because he broke up with me for another girl that he unintentionally got pregnant. He apologized later and I have since forgiven him. We started to become friends again, and it was good. A week or two goes by and he starts talking to me about liking this other girl. That would be fine in most circumstances, but he also said he still had feelings for me. That confused me for a while, but then I figured out how much of a liar he was in the relationship. The next week I told him that I still loved him and how I felt about his lying behavior. I told him because I couldn't get the thoughts out of my head and it was driving me crazy. After we talked about it, now he acts like we aren't friends. He says "we're cool" and there are no grudges or anything, but he won't hang out with me outside of the events I have to see him at. Those events are weekly, by the way, and now I'm left feeling like I have to pretend everything is fine in front of all of our mutual friends. Its not fine, and if those people knew what he did they may not want to be his friends. I know this sounds really messed up, but I still want to be his friend in spite of all the things we've been through. My real question is how do I go about rebuilding this friendship if I can? Should I apologize for telling him how I felt, and making him feel weird? I mean whatever I do, I know this guy will lie to my face, because I've caught him so many other times. However I don't want to loose a great friend I used to have, I've already lost him as a lover, I can't stand to loose him as a friend too. Is it hopeless, or is it fixable? (link)
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This is a very tricky situation that needs to be thought about and nobody can choose for you what exactly to do because they aren't you. You have to decide for yourself. What i can tell you is it sounds like either way there will be plus and minuses. If you stay friends with him, it may be awkward and not feel right and you may never trust him because you have know him to lie, but you will still have him as a friend. If you stop being friends with him, there will be no more drama. That might be hard to choose, but sometimes the hardest is the best choice. A lot of people may not like change, its new, there has to be adjustments, people like routines. So, if you are no longer friends, you have to adjust you have to move on and that can be difficult given the history you have, but it may be the best for the long run. Drama will be gone
Tell me what you think!
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So basically I'm a girl who has a crush on her female friend. My friend has another best friend who she prefers more than me- but whether it's a crush or love, I defiantly like her more than a friend. But I've never been attracted to someone of the same gender before... I'm totally okay with being gay, but I'm just not sure if I am- and I'm not bi because (as I've said) this is the first time, and I know that she's not gay but is supporting of gay people, so do I tell her how I feel? Or continue to be the third wheel as I feel really sad, I don't know... Please no hate, I'm very young (13) and please serious answers... Thanks, Lea Wills xxx (link)
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This is a very important question that cannot just be answered at once. You are thirteen which means you are still figuring out who you are and who you're going to be and what road you want to travel down, so things can be a little confusing, but what i can say is nobody else can tell you how to feel or if you are ready to tell your friend how you feel, you have to decide for yourself. You do not know if she is gay or not, she is still young herself, so she is probably still trying to figure out who she is too. If you feel like you can't hide your feelings with her any longer, then tell her. If you would rather keep it a secret and you can live with only being friends with her, then keep it to yourself. This is your choice and nobody else's. Just know that whatever you decide is the right choice, it is still right. Let me know your thoughts.
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