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i make friends with girls pretty easy but i just am not that good with making friends with guys! can you guys please tell me some tips and how to be friends with guys??? THANX! (link)
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Rule number one: be yourself.
Guys don’t like girls who put on acts, they don't like drama queens.
Guys appreciate girls with a good sense of humour and who have interests other than hair and make-up.
Music is a good subject to talk to a guy about, whether you’re into the same genres of music or different, its bound create an interesting conversation.
Guys also like originality within a girl, so if you don't agree with a statement he says e.g.: he thinks Die Hard is the best Movie ever made- and you think different, tell him by justifying yourself :)
The more you get talking, the more confidant you'll become with guys.
They’re not going to bite you, or laugh at you before you speak ((ad if they do...don’t encounter them again as clearly- they aren’t worth your time!).
I get on really well with guys because I've learnt that really, everyone is human, everyone is different and the opposite sex should not be seen as an intimidation. This is the twenty first century- we are equal now, so please don’t feel you are of a lower status when males are concerned :)
I can guarantee that the guys that you DO get talking to will have been looking for the same things that you are: companionship.
Good luck!
Take care,
-Alex
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how do you make a shy friend un-shy? lol this sounds weird but believe me this is the right thing to do (link)
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well the way to help a friend come out of their shell a bit, you need to talk to them lots..and i dont mean "hey, so how are you..im great :)*silence*...soooo"
you need to get to know them. ask them questions, (but dont plunge into personal stuff if you two arent close). ask them what they like to do, invite them out when you go out, and if you give it time, gradually their confidence will shine through. everyone has confidence, it just depends whether its hidden or not :)
theres nothing wrong with wanting your friend to be confident, however pleae remmber not to force them into anything too drastic!!
good luck, tell me how it goes if you want :)
take care
dia (alex)
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Hi.
I am having a halloween party (ages 10-11) an di really want to impress some new friends. I don't want it to turn out just like a plain-old-boring-laze-around -the-house thing. I want it to be AWSOME! But I just can't seem to find any ideas for like food, decorating, games etc;. Anyone have any ideas or really cool sights i could try??
Tanks for the help.
-YOLIV :) :) :) (link)
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hey!!! if you're american...then use the advantage of the amazing shop WALMART!!!! lol...i live in england and would kill for that shop - especially around Halloween time :D...get everything from there...as they sell EVERYTHING! hehe...if youre NOT american, apologies! ...try tescos or asda, they have cool haloween stuff too!!
right...party games. what i played (about 3 years ago when it was 13-14 years olds)we played a game where you make a bowl of jelly, and put plastic bugs and weird stuff in it. then you put the jelly in a black sack, and people have to put their hands in it and guess what it is. that freaks people out as they're not expecting something cold and slimy!!
another game we played was where you had a plate of flour with a hidden chocolate coin somewhere in it...and you have to find it...with your nose!!
also...hide and seek in the dark is awesome...but make sure all possible things that may be broken are removed from the area ypu plauy it in!!
maye watch a scary movie...olike the amytiville horror, or the village or something like that if you really wanted whilst munching on halloween themed snacks!!
make sure everyone comes in fncy dress just to add to the fun of things too!! costumes and dressing up is always a laugh!
i hope you have a great party, and i hope my advice helped you :D
take care
dia (alex)
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