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Okay, so I'm going into 8th grade after Summer this year, and I want to make new friends. Problem is -- I have one particular friend that makes it hard. Really hard.
Like she'll get really mad whenever she hears I've gotten together or made other plans with other friends (even if it's my cousins!) and insist or invite herself to come with.
But she's friends with this other girl that I'm also friends with, and we were all supposedly close through 7th grade. I've been friends with the girl that makes it hard to make friends (Let's call her A) since halfway through kindergarten!
The thing is, that A thinks we're still BFFs, and no matter how many times I try to tell her, I get the same result. She's like "No I don't!", we get into the occassional fight, then get back together. But this time I don't wanna get back together. I never really did. It's not that she's a bad person or anything... it's just that I can't be friends without her holding me back. I know I must sound really unloyal but I want a new group of friends, and fast! In time for 8th grade.
Luckily -- There's a possibility we won't be going to the same highschool. I'm willing to wait and all, because once I get there it'll be GREAT, but I just don't know what to do. What if we do end up going to the same highschool? Odds are we wouldn't have many classes together anyway.
Evidently I just need new friends, you don't know my past with her... and it's come to light that I really need to tell her. I can't just expect her to know why -- but how do I tell her?
How do I tell her the friendship should be cut off?
How can I branch out for friends in 8th grade?
(I go to a Private School so it's pretty small and not a lot of people, mostly just the same people that think I'm weird I think)
I want 8th grade to be perfect, I really do. So how can I make it that way?
--Many thanks! (link)
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well i can't anser your cutting friendship off part
but in order to make friends you can go to camps this year go to movies or the mall and just socialize
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my mum doesn't trust any of my friend she doesn't let me go or have any sleep overs!
i have been crying a river now because it's my best m8's birthday and she is having a sleepover and i am invited but my mum woun't let me go.
what shall i do?
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try comprimizing(sp) with your mom..tell her you'll do this if she let's you go..
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I met this girl keesha on my track team. We got hella close, went 2 a concert wit her, her parents helpd wit my big ol party, stuff like that. Well I had been talkn on & off 2 this guy 4 about 3 years. It didn't really go any where bcuz he kinda [this is RUDE] isn't on my level, but he's sweet! So I made a mistake &told keesha about him like how I KiNDA like him but not really. So 1day keesha tells me that they're GOiN OUT! (N I look way better than this bytch. We like 2 different species! :-D) Tell me iS iT WRONG 0F ME 2 CUT THEM BOTH OFF? (Me n dude were kinda friends too) I wasn't mad @ keesh @ 1st, but later I realized she didn't give a shyt about us 2 jus go wit my dude! (link)
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well i know this is'nt wat you wanted to here but you had your chance for 3 years and you did'nt do anything..
**well maybe the dude did'nt know you liked him
**maybe keesha is being a bioch and just wanted to take your guy..
**but the wrong thing to do is to cut them both...just be like okayy w/e..and say your over the guy..and go look for new ones..
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Well wen i was 10 i was raped and all of my friends know well one of my friends told me that she wants 2 get raped(she's a virgin)just so she doesn't have 2 be the only virgin in our cliqué and so she stays on her myspace talking 2 perves im scared 4 her she says on monday she is going 2 meet somebody and im scared she is going 2 get raped and that the person is going 2 kill her so i need advice fast before i might not ever see her again (link)
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umm...okay she's kinda weird..who wants to get raped??...it's not rape if your willing to do it...umm..just tell her wat your doing is stupid..and the rite person will come someday..just cause she's still a virgin does'nt mean it's a bad thing..i'm a virgin...just sit down and talk to her and tell her it's really stupid...and the rite guy will come one day..
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Well lately, my bast friend j and my other best friend b have been like ganging up on me...like b will say...oh im j's best friend now she likes me better... and its always about j! She will say she hates me and not even say that she was kidding! My friend b has also been losing wieght...and im happy for her but she talks about it all the time...it doesnt help when j says oh what is your size, whe'll compare! They try to make themselves feel better about themselves! And j has been my best friend since the 1st grade! Plz help!
God Bless,
breezy (link)
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sounds like their both being bioches...i say forget them and go find new friends..
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I am throwing a suprise party for mah friendz Anna N' Nicole. The problem is that Nicole is best friendz with a grl named Krista and Anna hates Krista. Should i invite Krista or not? Help Please (link)
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you should...who cares if anna does'nt like krista...it's nicoles best friend...and if nicoles best friends is'nt there with her she may feel bad...
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my bff is totally boy crazy! she has a new crush every month. And all we ever do on the phone is talk about it i tell her the truth but she doesn't care i still care about her though becuse she's nice just boy crazy!!!!!!!! (link)
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just sit down and talk to her and be like okay i care about you and your love life but you talk about it too muchi get tired of hearing it all the time...can you stop talking about it??
or if that does'nt work you can always act like your annoyed with it then hopefully she'll get the idea
or so the same thing she does....soon it'll get on her nerves and if she says somin about it be like well you do the same....i'm just trying to show you what you always do...
hope i've helped
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is there a way to call someone and just get their voicebail and it wont ring, so they dont know someones calling? (link)
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yea...if you call through your own voicemail and it sohuld guide you from there
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I have this friend and we've been friends for two years already...but there's this rumor about her that she's completely awesome and I don't want her to think that i actually believe it. Should I just tell her that i love her so much and that we'll be best friends forever! Please help! I've already started cutting my wrists... (link)
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omg...does she like go to williams b/c i like totally heard about that..you shud tell her just incase..so she won't be hurt when she finds out on her own...
OMg...your cutting your wrists!!!...might as well commit suicide!!
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My best friend likes my boyfriend. They went out before I hooked up with him. We've been going out for two months now. The other day my best friend admitted she still likes him and is going to try to get him back. My boyfriend gets really jealous when I'm around other guys. My best friend knows that and also knows that I really can't not flirt when I'm with a cute quy, even if I'm not interested. Another one of my friends told me my best friend was going to use that against me to cause me and my bf to break up so she can go back out with him. What do I do? I love them to death but this isn't right. Please help!!! (link)
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well first of all..this girl isn't your friend....she's just probably using you to get back with him......i say don't talk to her...or be all flirty around your boyfriend and stuff...like make-out in front of her or hug him or somin....
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