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hey everyone, i'm kaleigh.i've been through alot, so feel free to ask me
anything, i'll probably be able to relate.
im not a shit talker and ill tell you straight out what i think, im no afraid of what people think of me, i'd acctually like to know, so inbox me and let me know.
feel free to inbox me or ask me a question.
ill try my best to help yah out.
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ok so theres this guy that always makes fun of me like for what kind of car i drive and just stuff like that and lots of people think hes annoying aswell as me and my friend mitchell is a good friend and he thinks of comebacks really quick but by the time i think of a good comeback the conversations over and if i said it it would be really akward
so how do i start to stick up for myself instead of my friends doing it for me
thanks
haha i'm the same way, i'm bad at thinking of comebacks too. :p
but yah, it's always good to have a friend there to back you up when you need it.
but, what i would do if i were in ure situation i'd just eb straight forward with him.
tell him that he's getting on ure nerves and your sick of his comebacks, and maybe if you don't do this then the next time he says something to you about you then be like, tell it to someone who cares.
and eventually if he realizes its not bothering you.. he'll stop.
but then again, if that doesn't work compliment him on something, maybe something he's wearing or what he;s driving, it will confuse the hell out of him and might just turn his head around about you.
I have bought a new coat, i dont no wether to wear it to school or not on monday or wait until after xmas because my friends will go out and get it one very simalar which is very annoying as its really nice and different! I shouldnt have to not wear it on monday just because my friends will copy it as they usually do but I dont know what other way there is? Sounds very lame but its also exstremly annoying when your friends copy you, also when people compliment them on how lovely they look when you got if first grr?
i think you should say something to her about not doing it, or just don't tell her where you got it. and if she keeps copying you then just try shopping at a diffrent store, but first thing you should do is tell her to stop copying you and that its annoying.
My friend Michelle told me lies in high school in our senior year in 2004. I had lunch by myself and Michelle had a short day at school every day because she had work and she can leave the grounds in the middle of school around noon. When she left I had lunch and sometimes she didn’t have work. So I was hoping she will hang out with me at lunch. But then I never see her come visit me. Last time she came up to me at lunch time and she told me “I can’t stay to long because my mom wants me home” I ask “why?” she said that her mom doesn’t want her to stay at school if she can go home at noon every day. That was the most worst lie I ever heard. My past friends lie to me and I just couldn’t take it anymore. I only had her and Josh at school because my other two friends were at a different high school. Josh came by once in a while to hang with me at my lunch he ditch class for me! I cry so hard that day when I found out she’s been lying to me everyone in class
ask me if I was ok I couldn’t stop crying I had to go to counseling. It was a trouble year. I Ask Mandy why she lies to me and she said she has a hard time trusting people because they lie to her too in the past.
Now we are good friends and hang out all the time but deep down I feel like I can’t rust her anymore. How can I trust her again?
I think Em231 is right, a real friend wouldnt lie to you, but it's up to you weather you give her another chance or not. but, if you do decide to give her another chance and she lies to you again don't give her another chance.
people can change,
but the past never does.
hope i helped. :]
As, from the beginning i know he wanted to be bf/gf but i just didnt have that chemistry for him so he said im just treating you as my sister and a freind also. He calls me everyday and lately i had some problems at work and he would
show his concern and yesterday he said ''i've been thinking about you the whole day.'' ''I'm wondering how were things at work and what did your manager say regards to your problem?''
There was some guy i dont know who added to my msn and i asked him do you know that guy who added me? He said, no i don't i won't give out your email address to anyone without ur permission but you should be careful dont let him hack your account just block him if you dont know him. Why don't you just give me his email so i can tell him to stop hacking you. He said can you delete him? I said no,I think your going over board here i might know him. I'll find out first if I don't then I'll delete him. So, I asked him do you really meant to be my brother? I told him straight from the heart that when you said you're willing to be my brother I was pleased and felt thankful to have someone that treats me like a real sister. I always wanted my own biological brother to treat me like his sister although he would beat up a kid to protect me when i was being picked on from others at school and deep down knowing he loves me but he never nice to me. Anyway, ''I'm sorry to say that I wasn't sure why you came in my life.''One thing for sure I know God let us to be friends cuz i pray for whatever the outcome would be plan by God's hand and it seems like God has given another brother to me.'' He said ''You have clearly put where we stand but since then it was hard for me to put it all down but to see you as my sister and a friend
i was a little unhappy at first but its all ok now. I i think you already know or i have shown out to you already.'' ''i had the like feeling from the beginning that is why i kept you as a friend because i didn't want to lose you as a friend and to be my sister.'' ''i had put all feeling down and just put the mean that you are my sister don't misunderstand.'''' Of course i want to be your real brother and replace your brother that does not treat you good i would not do that to my sister i would be there for you anytime you need me but rather you accept me to be your real brother.'' So, after that we changed the topic and he said Its almost x-mas and he would buy me a gift to show just to show a friendly guster as friends. I said, then I must return you a gift too but he stated clearly no i know it makes you feel bad but I have my reason i need to do this I need to show you my apprecitaion that God has given me a good sister. Anyway, he continue to ask for the hangout like from the start of our conversaion. You want to meet tomorrow? I was tired and not in a mood and he was kind of pushing me for a hangout and said ''no i just want to help you to open more up like the first day i met you were really shy.'' ''I would feel happy if I see you talk more.'' ''We should talk on the phone everyday.'' Well, somehow i kind of prospone our hangout and said there would be more time to get together later on when i quit my job and I know he woulnd't hang up the phone until I say so and he respect my way.
it sounds like he still has feelings for you, but he doesnt mention them because he knows you don't have them for him, well. at least it doesnt sound it. and i think he truely loves you like a sister but maybe a little more and it's just going to take some time to get all of the "more than a sister feelings gone. but, if you still have feelings for him tell him before he slips away. but, if you don't. then just keep going as you are.
Apparently my so called best friend is jealous of me. She sent an email to my boyfriend saying that we spend too much time together and she never gets to hang out with him anymore. I dont understand this cause she has been trying to get me to break up with him for a while now. I hate that everyone is trying to break us up. I really want to die. No one wants me happy. I think Im just going to tell him we need a break once again. Idk. I thought she cared about me but I guess she just wanted him. I love her to death and I dont even know what to say anymore. I cant trust anyone.!!!!!
i think you should get both of them at the same time and talk to them so that way no one will lie: and if they do theres going to be someone else who has a diffrent true story
good luck&hope i helped :)
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so, my ex best friend, who was my friend of like 3 years, all of a sudden moved. i mean, me and him stopped being friends, because i messed up. i mean he liked me, i didn't like him, and yeah you get it. but anywayss, so now, all of a sudden he just moved. like i mean, my friends all live right by him, and there was never a for sale sign infront of there house. and i mean, usually your house takes like a little while to sell. [espically his, because his is like a piece of junk.] so anyways, it was like june 29th or something, and i saw something on his away saying packing getting ready to move. and like he moved yesterday. and so, i just, don't know what to do. i mean, i planned on telling him i missed our friendship, one of these days. but now, i can't . and i dont know, what should i do?
well first off i dont think he should have stopped being ure friend cuz you didnt like him? if thats even what happened but if not pretend i never said anything :)
but well i still think you should tell him you miss(not missed!) your friendship: and that your sorry that the relationship wasnt going to happen but you think you guys should still be friends: and sooner the better: just come out and talk to him tell him all the qualities you liked in your friendship or even in him: but dont mention qualities like eyes and stuff that cuz you dont want to lead him on unless you like him :)
hope i helped&best of luck! :)