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i might be moving to texas, half way across the country. i am really scared because i dont want to leave behind the life i have now and enter a new one. on the other hand there are some good things, but does anyone have any advice on this? if i do move, how can i make it more bearable? does anyone live in texas?

I live in Texas :D Entering a new life is great. Just jump in and make new friends, youll be fine

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i have some friends who wont really talk me any more and i guess since i dont have money like her she dont like me . she when i call her she never talk to me. what do i do about her? we have been firneds since the 8th grade.

Okay, If someone wont talk to you because you dont have money, then they arent even worth your time... But, are you shure thats why they she isnt talking to you? Just ask her why she doesnt talk to you as much anymore instead of just assuming. I have friends that I dont talk to as much anymore, mainly because I am busy, or I dont see them as much as I used to. Just talk to her, ask her whats going on. Thats the only way to figure out what to do about it.

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I was dating this guy, and I was really starting to like him. We had "relations" and it became intense for a minute. But my best freind saw him in the mall, and every since then some how he got he number and they have been talking on the phone since. I stopped liking this guy because I felt he didn't respect me or my best friends friendship. Come to find out my best friend want to have "relations" with him and is talking to him on the phone. She really isn't telling me everything. We told each other that a man could not come in betwwen us, but I think in this situation it is diffrent. I mean I stop liking this guy because of her, and now she wants him. Is she being a friend or a freak?

freak...... no real friend would do that

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Ok I havent talked to my friends in awhile because I moved away. One day for the hell of it I imed my friend and said call me. She answered her IM back so we started talking. I figured we left on good terms but shes telling me secrets about other people does this seem really weird to you. She invited me to her birthday. Should I go or does it seem Like a carrie senario?

Well, Its good that you are talking to an old friend again. I cannot tell you if its weird or not.Was she a good & trustworthy friend? Did she usally tell you secrets about other people? If so, its probably normal, If not, she might just be telling you because you moved, and you probably wouldnt tell anyone. If you trust her, and feel like you should than I think that you should go to her Birthday, it might mean alot to her. Whats a carrie senario?

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What are some fun things to do at age 17??

Go bowling with a bunch of your friends, party, hang out at someones house with lots of other people. Pretty much everything is fun to me as long as I'm not sitting at home :)

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A lot of people judge people by their looks and not by their personality. i used to do that too. i realized you arnt going to become a better person and your not going to meet people by judging other people by their looks. It makes me want to cry how i am experecing this. I realized i have been doing that too. i told some people about this person awhile back whom i liked. he wasn't the greatest looking person and the people i told knew that. when i told them, they all looked at me in discuss. that night i reconsidered liking him because of what he looked like and how dorky he was. Now i could have become really good friends with that cretin guy, but because of people and myself judging him, i am not friends with him. Everyone will not notice this, but every look you give a person, if its bad it will bring him/her down. just think about it. How would ypu fee; about it, people making fun of the way you look, or the cold looks you get every day when you walk down the halls. you see every popular boy and girl with someone, having un. Then you see yourslef looking at them wishing you were them. Christina Auhulara has inspired me to write this paragraph, Her song "Beautiful" is a great song. I hope some day you will listen to this song and think the same this i do.

:) I think the same way :) I will be friends with everyone, I dont care what they look like. Nerdy people need friends too right? Christina's song IS great.

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Since you didnt finsh in the pubic i am sending this to myself so I can reply.....

1) bush supports abortion for rape victims only...killing a child 4 any other reason is wrong and is nobodys right.

2)Hes doing ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING BUT relaxing. dumbass.

3)gay marriages go against what this country stands on.

4)you get paid for adoptions and the child gets to live. youre stupid. its not leaving it behind. it giving it a loving family that a new form of adoption lets you choose. Im adopted and i have NEVER ONCE felt that way or wondered that. im thankful that i am blessed with a great family that loves me. even thought they arent biologically my parents they love n support me n im thankful that my real mother gave me up cuz she wasnt able to be responsible for me.

5) sadamm deserves to die. the end.

Ok, Look... You are such a freaking hard headed hypocritcial immature child. If you cannot answer in a civilized way then I think you should just go ahead and punch yourself in the face before someone else does it, because you really deserve to get the living crap beat out of you.
Abortion is not wrong. IN NO WAY. Keep your opinion to yourself. Also, in your first letter, you could have atleast used spell check, and proper puncuation. We go to school for around 18 years to learn, get an education, and If you cannot figure out the difference between your and Your'e then obviously you are a hard headed dumbass. End of story. Get a life. Go back to school.
Just because he is the president does not mean that he shouldnt praticipate in the war. If he cares about our country he should stand up for it instead of having other people do it.
This country does not depend on wether or not gay marriages are allowed. This country is supposed to be about your freedom of speech, your freedom, and independence. This includes GAY people and marriages. Gay people are excatly like you and me. They are people, not objects.
So, you would give your kid up for adoption just to collect money? What does money have to do with this? I, for one, am not stupid. I am edjucated, it seems that however, you are not. Adoption is kind of like abortion if you think about it, either way, youre giving your kid up. If you dont want a kid, then dont have sex.
Yes, Sadamm deserves to die, along with other ignorant people in this world. SOoooooo yeah. Now, this is the end. Go one, rate me with a one again. Ouch that hurts.

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if you ask a ?... can ppl tell its you? if your signed in?

Nope

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I've got the hots for a guy named (lets just call him Bob) Bob. He seems like the perfect guy when we talk online, but when we meet in person he acts really shy. I'm pretty sure he likes me too, and we're both 15 if that helps. Why do u think he acts so different online than in person, and do u think he's worth my time?

hes just shy! And yes hes worth your time. Give him time to warm-up to you.

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My friend just told me that her and my boyfriend have been dating, and she said that she didnt want to tell me because she didnt want to ruin our friendship. Do I ditch the guy and her, or just the guy and keep my friend

Def. Ditch the guy. Hes not worth your time. For your friend, Its pretty obvious that she was never a good friend. You really need to talk with her about this, find out why she did it. If you think that you will be able to forgive her AND trust her in the future, then keep her around. But it will be hard to trust her again in the future.

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how can i help my best friend through a really tough breakup?

Just be there for them at all times

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my friend is upsessed with my cousin and im like really upsessed with her families friends son. and she gos to his bcuz her cousins best friends with him and he goes ova hers, wen i go to my cousins i always ask if she wants to come, she always brags a bout like noing him and the whole house thing,and i never brag about my cuz..sooo

SiGnEd--WUT SHOULD I DO IT BOTHERS ME??

Just let your friend know that shes starting to bother you.

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Hi see well I have this Boyfriend who cares for me tomuch!!! I mean love him and all but he gets to protective!!!! what should i do , I dont want to be mean to him either what should I do????????????

Talk to him, tell him that he just needs to lighten up a little. He should understand! Good Luck!

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Hey see I knew this boyfor about 8 years now and he went away when we was10 years old then he finally shows up yesturday and expects us to re be friends...... and I hardly even reconize him.!
so what should I do?? PLZ HELP

Catch up with him. If you still like the way he is , then yall should become friends again :)

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my friend amber is really making me mad! all she does is yell at me and says i lie to her what do i do??

signed,

im sick of it!

Tell her your sick of it. Maybe yall need to take a break for awhile because obviously yall need one.

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IM USUALLY NOT ALLOWED TO SPEND THE NITE AT PEOPLE'S HOUSE BUT I ALWAYS ASK NE WAYZ AND THREE NITES AGO I ASKED MY PARENTS AND THEY SAID YES SO I SPENDED TEH NITE AT MY FRIENDS HOSUE LETS SAY HER IS aNNA* I'VE KNOWN ANNA FOR 5 YEARS AND I'VE ONLY KNOWN MY NEW FRIEND FOR 1. SO SHE GOT REALLY MAD AT ME FOR NOT SPENDING THE NIGHT AT HER HOSUE AND YES TO ANNA'S HOUSE BUT I GUESS MY PARENTS HAVE TO KNOW THE OTHER PEOPLES PARENTS TO LET SPEND THE NITE.I WILL RATE A 5 TO ANYONE WHO ANSWER THIS QUESTION!!!!

Just explain to your other friends that your moms not comfortable to let you stay over with someone when she doesnt know the parents.

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hi Im also 17, But i dont have alot of money. I was wondering what kind of things could i do for my birthday party.

You could have lots of friends over and just have a movie night, or a dance party @ your house.

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This girl Deanna R. always give me an attitude, but today i got really fed up. she started givin me an attitude because i had a qupte in my profile that she didnt like. So she starts threatining me to take it off. so i did. cuz i kno if u get her pisst off she'll throw a hissy fit and get a whole bunch of her friends to try to make my life shit. and i hate it. what should i do. i try as much as i can to avoid her, and ignore her rude comments but it really bugs me.

-nicole g

Uhhh kick her ass, like majorly..If your not the violence type of person then put your quote back on your profile, tell her to go to hell, and block her. Oh my god I cant stand people like her. Dont let her run your life.

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I have a new bf and al he talks about is Wars , scares and other sicking stuff, but i really dont like him that much, how do I tell him that I am going to break up with him??? PLZ HELP JENIPHER

Just tell him that you dont think that yall are gonna work out.

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me and my brother are always arguing and i hate it. he always calls me names and im older wot can i do

Just ignore him. Or ask him to stop.

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