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Hm okay so I have this slight problem. I'm m/15 and I have a really good friend that thinks that I like her. When in actuality I don't. I suspect two of my other friends(one of them her best friend) have been telling her I do. At first I didn't really do anything about it because I didn't think much of it. I think if it continues it will probably hurt our friendship. She is under the impression that i like her and she has been flirting non-stop with me so I think she might like me... I don't want to hurt her feelings so what should I do? I know I have to talk to her but how...?
Help would be greatly appreciated.

Ookay.Well me being a girl I might help you a little.What you cannot do is just tell her flat out because that'll break her heart.Because from what you've described, she probably does like you.

What I would do is just sit down and talk with her friends first, and ask if they've been saying anything about you liking her.And if they say that haven't said anything, then go to your friend and let her know, nicely, that you don't like her in that way.

She might just say ok, or she might break down, depends on the girl.I hope you sort it out though :]

Hope this helped.

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just like any ...friends... or a romantic one..

I'm considering one.. and I need opinions..

what do YOU think of online relationships?

Online relationships..
Well I wouldn't say they're good, but they're not ALWAYS bad. Usually online relationship's turn out dangerous whether it's someone getting raped, or even killed.

Because most people aren't who they say they are. But if you've met this person, or have spoken to them on the phone, then it probably isn't that bad.

Yet, that's just my opinion. The people below have different feelings as well. It's really up to you if your considering an online relationship. Just be careful!

Hope this helped :]

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My best friend talks to this guy online from a town near ours (she met him after she started talking to him online). In short, he's horrible for her.
Why? Well, he does drugs, for one (he has pictures of him doing drugs on his MySpace, too). Not only that, he's told my friend that doing drugs isn't harmful (she knows it IS harmful) and that she should try them. He says that he uses drugs to deal with his mother's death. He's also older, so that makes me question his intentions.
She tells me that she won't go out with him, but since another guy she talked to got a girlfriend, I think she's changed her mind. He sends her cute texts and everything, and I think that's making her blind to all of his faults.

In a nutshell, I care about my friend and I KNOW she deserves better. What should I do?
Thanks in advance to all who read this and answer.

Hmm well me and you are in the EXACT same position.. and what I'm trying to do [even though I'm not certain it's helping] is that I'm trying to talk to the guy.. and find things that she's against.. like if she doesn't like a person doing drugs, you can like find evidence that he IS doing them to show her your right so she don't get hurt. You know?
Sorry If this didn't help much.
I'm trying to go through the same thing as well.

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I have a very strange question to ask..but please bear with me.

Let's say a guy has a girlfriend that's really ugly. And I know I'm prettier than her. When he shares her pictures and puts her pictures up and is so proud of them...does he realize that she's ugly? or is he so glad that he has a girlfriend that he doesn't care WHAT she looks like, as long as she "belongs" to him. And in this case, he thinks she's the most beautiful girl in the world?

Because it's getting annoying. This guy makes fun of my pictures, when I know I'm SO much prettier. But when he puts up her ugly pictures, he praises them. What am I supposed to say? It annoys me that he makes fun of me, when his girlfriend is disgustingly ugly.

I know it's shallow. =/

Okay um what kind of answer are you looking for? It's his girlfriend..he's going to love and cherish her,and think everything about her is beautiful.You really shouldn't judge him and her like that..you should just leave him alone if he bugs you.I mean why still talk to him?
I don't know but this is kind of stupid to talk about..
:/

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15/f. So, I was friends with this guy who lived in another state last summer. We talked online a lot and he talked to my two best friends also. We kind of stopped talking during the school year and then I was kind of a bitch to him because he was kind of a bitch to one of my other friends. Then, around April, my best friend (who was still talking to him) told me that he really disliked me. Then, in anger, I deleted him from my Facebook friends AND Myspace friends. Then, I started missing him, and in around June, I Facebook-poked him and he poked me back. And that was it. Should I message him? What if he wants nothing to do with me? I really wanna sort this out and be friends with him, but I'm afraid that he'll want nothing to do with me.

Well yeah you should message him ^_^
He would probably be happy to hear from you again..and he probably misses you too! Just do it and see what happens.
Hope I helped

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Ok.
so my friend just informed me that
she likes this one guy who is 16 and
shes 14 and she wants to ask him out.
but i happen to know for sure
that he likes someone else.

should i just help her through it
or tell her that he likes someone else
and see what happens from there??

Mm I think you should just tell her that he has someone else in mind because it would hurt her more to be turned down,you know?
Hope I helped ;]

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