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You answered my question about my friend who can be a bitch. And knowing why she can be a bitch is really helpfull and it kind of makes sense. But i want her to be happy. What can i do to help her "open up" about her feelings? (link)
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Hey!! It depends, you have to atleast talk to her alone, and gain an even better friendship. Ask her what's wrong everyone once and a while. Tell her how you feel, and how she has been acting!! tell me how it goes!
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I have this friend who is really cool. Most of the time we get along. But sometimes she's the biggest bitch and really rude. I cant stand when she's like that. What can I say to her so she will be nice all the time?? btw..female....15 (link)
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HEY!! Well it's good to know you have cool friends. Maybe when she's the biggest bitch, maybe something is bothering her. She could keep things to herself, ya know. And when stuff like that gets bottled, it comes out at the wrong time, and to the wrong person!! You can't make someone be nice, it depends on who they are.
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okay i have a friend that always say we should hang out or chill or something n then she'll tell me to call her so wen i do she doesnt answer and tehn wehen i leave her a message she doesn't return it. So when Im like hey wassup u get my message she will be like yeah i was busyy n den change the subject but still tell me that were best friends for ever and stuff wtf!? does that mean then?? (link)
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Hey Cutie!! Well it seems to me, your friend might be getting annoyed or whatever, or maybe she really did have something to do. There's al ot of possiable things. But if you try to ask her what is happening. BFF=Best friends forever, if that's what you asking. It still can mean your friends today!! :-)
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THis Grl is like obsessed with me and my frend she invites us over CONSTANTLY i am so sik of her house... all her food is moldy and grosse... im not saying im mean to her im just not very nice to her and she still loves us... together we kinda make fun of her a lot... i mean i love her but i hate HOW she invites me over EVERYNITE (no joke) 4 a sleepover i always make up excuses but im running out of them... PLEASE HELP! (link)
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Well, tell her that you don't want to spend the night at her house. Don't use excuses, tell her the truth, that you just don't want to spend the night. I mean i get homesick sometimes. I miss sleeping in my own bed...Good LUck!
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ok do u think its bad like if u go with ur best guy friend 2 tha movies like kuz hes datin a a grl and she alwayz brings a friend so wuld it be wrong if he invited me and went i mean she knos were bffz and all but i jsut think she might get mad but im not 4 sure like if it wuld look bad or wutnot...?? (link)
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It could look bad, and everything. Does your friend think you like him or something? If she brings FREINDS, than he has a right to bring a FRIEND, because ya know, it is only a FREIND. good luck baby!
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My friends really likes this guy but i also kind of like him too. I am not sure what to do can ya'll plz help me. (link)
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Well, yea, that's easy. Tell your friend how you feel. If i was in this position, i'd tell the guy, and see what he says. And I wouldn't want to hurt my friends, so I'd go look for other guys. Maybe that's what you should do. I dont like hurting my friends, or maybe you both can go look for other guys! Good LuCk!
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Ok so one of my best frends and this guy were best frends all last year... i was frends weith him but niot BEST this summer me and him have gotten really close and i consider him my best frend thats a guy and he now considers me his best frend thats a grl my best frend and him r Still REALLY close btu she always gets mad at us 4 being close because it seems like she doesnt wanna loose him.... wat do i do? (link)
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It's fine to have a guy best friend, boy's listen, even if you think their not! hehehe! Maybe she likes him as more than a friend, you should ask her that. I'm pretty sure you and your friend can work things out. Just talk to eachother and see what happens, maybe she is jealouse that you this boy are really good friends. But try to be friends with everyone, that way no one has a problem! :-)
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I have been BEST frends with 3 grls since 6th grade and we have always had so much fun together... wen i started to go to dances i met a lot of new grls and there was one who i have bcome incredibly close with i love her to death and we do a lot of stuff together my other frends think i love her more than i love them which is totalky not true i would do anything 4 these 3 frends i love them more than you can even imagine we have been through so much and they see me through ANYTHING and i love them 4 that... i also have a lot of other frends and my schedlue gets REALLY hectic and i cant fit everyone in i find myself douing 5 things a day with 3 different grioups a day and im scared if i jjust say no they wont like me anymore.... wat do u do? please give me good advice!!! (link)
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Well, it's good that you have made lots of other friends. Well I'd be friends with everyone. Lol that's just how I am! You just need to make sure that school comes first, and try to hang out all together. Well if they are true friends, they would still like you and understand that you have things you need to do.
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Ok heres the problem.. my friend got her peroid in 5th grade.. so she gets it normally now.. but when she was supposed to get it this month she didnt.. She never had sex.. what could be the problem? (link)
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Don't worry about it, you can miss a period once in a while.
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Okay like how do I not be shy to ask someone a simple question if they are (name..) who i think they are. Im so shy because he's my brother girlfriends brother and he said im pretty and my friends know and im shy. (link)
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Um. Lol I have no clue, because I'm shy to, until someone askes me my name and the 411. I'm shy to, so really, you just have to go for it. Lol I'm sitting here telling you what to do, but i don't do it myself! But hey, there's nothing wrong with being shy. I'm shy to!
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A new girl at our skool is 17, engaged, and has a baby. Shes still a freshman cause she was expelled from her old skool her freshman year. Everyone makes fun of her cause she has a kid and is a 17 year old freshman. She doesnt let it bother her, but it bothers me. Shes a good friend of mine now, and I want to be able to stop some of the stuff. Is there any good ways to make ppl just shut up about it?
thanks! (link)
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Well you can't stop people from saying things, they are going to say it, if they want to. Well I can understand that it bothers you, stuff like that would bother me to! But theres nothing to you can do, people are going to say things.
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My friend and i were pretty close and then we got into this big fight. We made up a week later. Could we still be as close as we used to be??
xox cara (link)
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Hey Cara!! Yea you can still be as close as you all use to be! As long as you all made up, and are relaly happy!
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is it realli wrong to date your best friends ex boyfriend? cause this kid likes me..and i realli like him..but i have a feeling my best friend will get mad if i go out with him. cause she gets jealous even if i chill with him! please help soon cause i'm gonna chill with him tonite! i rate high! (link)
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Hey, it's not wrong inless your best friend is over him. Just tell her how you feel, and hopefully she will understand.
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i have seen my friends boyfriend with other girls kissing on them and i told my friend right away but she doesnt believe me, she said that i am jealous ... also she is supposed to have sex with him and i dont want her getting hurt .. is there anyway i could get her to believe me? (link)
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If she doesn't want to belive you, it's maybe because she knows the truth will hurt. You could maybe have her tag along where ever you go, and see if he's doing it then?
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thanks for that i will try..
know that you told me that would be happening i think i am going to try to spilt up the time i spend to my friends...i really do think rachel is a follower because every friend i make she has to make and then it seems like she steals them from me i may be wrong. THANKS FOR ALL YOUR HELP!!! i may have more questions about my relationship with these friends and maybe my others.i have some problems but they arent bad..dont think of me as a bad friend
now that i found this website i am going to come here often.thanks again (link)
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Hey Cara!! I'm glad I can help you!! I don't think bad of anyone, lol. Thanks, where did you find mine though? Who's profile? Lol. Come back again, I'd love to help you out!!
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Hey!! I have a comments for the advice you gave me and a new question.
The comment- Thanks for the advice. I have tried to tell my newer friend(becky) that i feel we are falling apart and that if you all could spend time together and maybe i could work on the dance with you guys(we do ballet) and she said if you are getting mad about something so silly about that that is just werid. So i dont know what to so now?
The Question- This questions involes "becky" too. During the summer and part of last year i have become really close to this girl named (alana(who happens to be older than me and becky)) and once becky saw i was hanging out with her she began to always hang around and when i am talking to alana and becky always interupts. this summer i have been hanging out with new friends and every time i go to talk to alana since i dont talk to her much since some of her frineds are there there is becky standing there talking to her or sitting there and wont move she would sit there for like the whole break. What can i do about this!
BTW!- you give great advice..you are really helpful
xox cara, 13 almost 14
what hs are you going to..and..i kno kara..i meet her @ahc (link)
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Hey Cara!!! I'm going to Richard Montgomery for the next 4 years. Tehehe GO ROCKETS~! Thanks for the compliment about the advice! Well it's good that you did make some new friends. Maybe Alana is kinda upset that you made new friends. She maybe feels , how you felt when becky and your new friend were close. What you all need to do, is just have each person say what they are feeling. Ask Alana why she is just sitting there!! There seems to be jelously going around in your group of freinds!
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Hi Kim! I have these 2 friends. i knew one b4 the other but the other one and i were really close for a while. know those two people have made friends with each other (which sometimes i have no problem with) but the one i have known for longer is trying to steal the other one away from me and is really mean to me while the other one is around. I like both of them but is there any way to make us all friends?girl-13/14 (link)
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Hey!!! Well if one of your friends doesn't like you, theres not much you can do, but you can always talk to her, and tell them what's happening, and why you all are falling apart! Your friend that you knew longer, maybe just using you? I'm not sure though, inless there was something that you did to her, to make her be mean to you. But what i have a question is, is the girl that you didn't know longer being mean to you to? Maybe she is just a follower and not a leader. I would just comfront your older friend, and tell her that you feel she is always being mean to you, and she should stop. x0x!! Tell me what happens!
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hey kim! whats up lil women you. man me and the rhs ppl are gonna miss u next year u were always the one that would be there n never in anyones way how you would alaway go to geek table 101 lol. u adna ustin were adorable. so how are u looking forward to skool? i mean from what i kno about the ppl at rm your gonna be the lil one lol but i mean your ognna get picked up alot by the big boys, well i hope you do, lol everyone just olves seeing your butt over their shoulder. are u finally over the fact of being picked up ? ? also what do you do if you get lost in high skool ?!?!?? (link)
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Hey cutie!! Well I will try to find sometime to come and visit, I mean im still in the area, it's still my home school. Lol the boys table, I don't even know how they got that name. Thanks, everyone said we were cute, people we didn't know and people we wern't that close with. Yes I am looking forward to RM, just a little bit, but I do have somefears! Yup, there arn't many short people at RM. But that's okay, I'll just get some neck excersice from looking up to everyone all the time. I might get picked up by the big boys. I use to be scared, but that's only in the pool, because I don't like getting my face wet, the clorne makes my skin itch. Um, i don't get the butt part, but that's okay. I think you mean just seeing my lil legs over someone. Yup, i don't care if people pick me up, only in the water I get kinda scared. Well if you get lost in Rockville, or where you go, just ask a teacher, I'm sure they wont mind. I mean I would, acutally I wouldn't i'd just get lost! :-)
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ok, well i have this friend that thinks she is so great and does alot of stuff with guys if you know what i mean. me and alot of other people know that guys only likle her for her butt and boobs but she wont listen and she wont stop doing stuff with guys for no good reason. what should i do?? (link)
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Yea I know what you mean, there's people like that still today everywhere you go. Maybe your friend likes the attention from the guys, because the girls she is friends with don't give her enough attention, or she feels left out. But tell her that in high school she might just get named, and what I mean by that is whore, slut, skank, ho, and the other words that are not neccessary! If she doesn't want to listen there's nothing you can do, but try to tell her over and over, and be serious about it. I would tell her how you truely feel, i listen to my friends when they feel something is wrong, or maybe she doesn't want to the know the truth, because the truth isn't always a happy booster. But tell me what happens next! Thankx!!
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i have a real big problem.. my best friend cuts herself.. she doesnt seem to think that theres anything wrong with it. but there deff. is. and the reason she does it is bcuz the kid she likes isnt going out with her but he likes her. and i keep talking to her telling her that she needs to stop bcuz shes gona end up killing herself one day. and she keeps saying i know i know im gona stop. but she never does. and she told me not to tell her mom or any guidence counclers or anyone. how i can help her stop hurting herslef without telling anyone about it?? (link)
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Okay first of all, you need to tell someone. But she's wasteing time on osme guy she likes, when some other guy could like her. Just tell someone, most guidence counclers don't mention names.!
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