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(I'm 16 and a girl) Okay three years okay I dated this guy for almost a year. Well ever since we dated and broke up my friend Jon will say stuff about my exboyfriend to make me mad. Jon would say stuff about him atleast 2 times a week last year. Does anyone have an Idea of why he is doing this? (link)
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maybe jon is just trying to look out for you and he hates seeing you hurt. maybe jon was a little jealous of your boyfriend. maybe you should just sit down and talk to him.
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Okay what should I do if I'm losing my best friend? (link)
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well i dont know exactly whats going on..but maybe you should sit down with your friend and talk; that usually helps me a lot. and make sure to look at both sides of the story, because she might be acting a certain way for a reason you dont know yet. i dont know what more to tell you because i dont know whats going on, but if you add more or just ask me on my advice colum, i'll try to help as much as i can!
hope i help
i'd love to talk to you
xoxo
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Okay, I've been best friends with this girl since last year and we've been so tight! And now I think my other best friend is jealous and is trying to take her away from me! What should I do? (link)
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well you need to sit down with both friends and tell them how you're feeling. you shouldnt ever feel like you're stuck in the the middle of tug-a-war in a friendship. and maybe your other best friend just feels like she's not being included and she feels left out! maybe you can work things out with both of them, i really hope so.
hope i help
xoxo
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I have a friend who cant keep her mouth shut! She tells everything I say and I always try to remember tp tell her stuff but sometimes i am just itcing to tell someone. I really wanna be her friend but then again I dont NEED her! any suggestions? 5 points for anyone who helps! xoxo (link)
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um hello! real friends DONT tell secrets!! i would definitely sit her down and tell her that you wont tell her your secrets if she keeps spilling. maybe she's just a natural gossiper. who knows? but i would try finding a quieter more trustworthy friend to spill to
hope i help
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Okay, there's this girl who is supposed to be my friend. Well, let's say she doesn't act like it. She calls me "idiot", "fool", and a bunch of other names. She's also (according to the guy I used to like) asked the guy I liked out, and I trust the guy I liked because I've known him for a while. She knew that I liked him. She also tries to make me look stupid and bad, because we're on the same sports team, and she'll throw the ball in a weird way and I can't catch it, then she'll say "What an idiot!" or something like that. I'm sick of it. Should I just stop being friends with her, and if so, how?
Thank you so much in advance. I'm sorry it's so long. (link)
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she doesnt sound like a really good friend. friends should be encouraging and definitely not call you names. and if she is trying to take away the guy she KNOWS you like..she's not anywhere near friend material. if you still want your 'friendship' to have a chance..sit her down and talk to her and work everything out.
hope i help
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Okay, so there's this guy that's been my really good friend for a long time. Last October, I got a crush on him. Then in December, he had a girlfriend, but he told me that he'd liked me since October too, and a week later, he broke up with his girlfriend. But he didn't ask me out until a month later, because he 'didn't want people to think he liked me when he liked his other girlfriend'. So we were 'sort of' going out for about a month, but we never actually went on a date. He asked me out to a carnival, but then he ditched me. Then...worst of all...the school dance. He danced with me once, and then went back to his ex girlfriend and was dancing with HER for the rest of the time. I talked to him and he told me he didn't like me anymore, but we decided to stay friends anyways.
Now, about 3 months later...I think I still like him, but I'm not sure. We're still very good friends. I want him to be happy with whatever girl he goes out with, but I'm jealous at the same time. My heart jumps when I had to kiss him on the cheek for this school performance..and when I fell asleep on his shoulder in the movie theater (with other friends there)...and I feel crap when I see the girl he likes sleeping on his other shoulder, or sitting super close to him. What should I do? How do I get over him? Please help! (link)
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wow you are EXACTLY like me! even the dates are the same!! i liked a guy since october then he went out with someone else, dumped her in december, waited till january to go out with me, then danced with his ex through half of our dance! and now he is happily going out with his ex again and i have finally gotten over him! ill tell you a few things. first of all, you won't get over him until you meet a guy who really makes you feel as good as he did ((at first)). and if your guy goes out with other girls, of course you'll be jealous. i mean, you still like him, so you have every right to be jealous. just don't do anything which would make his new girl think you still like him, cuz that can lead into a big issue. i would just let it be known that ur single and looking, but make an effort to stay his friend. because girlfriends come and go, but real friends ((any gender)) stay forever. i know it'll be really hard, but there is a guy out there who is everything this guy is and more.
i hope i helped. if you wanna talk sometime, im at augustagurrl@yahoo.com
xoxo
torie
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HOW do i become more outgoing?! I want to get more friends and be funny,instead of a shy good girl!! can anyone help? thnx! (link)
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hey being shy rocks! i mean if you want to be more outgoing..just open up and talk alot. but sometimes people want to be around quieter people. and oh ya, real friends will like you for however you are..quiet, shy, loud etc. you dont necessarily get friends for being outgoing, and sometimes you even lose friends. i would just stick with being yourself.
sorri if it doesnt help
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