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So my best friends Mandy and Pheobea are mad at me because I have a friend named larissa that used to be my best friend but they hate her and I used to be mad at her after she told me she didnt want to be my best friend any more, and Mandy and Pheobea still didn't like her and I had a sleep over with Larissa and Mandy and Pheobea got mad at me because i did and they also got mad at me because they think I said bad things about them to Larissa but I didnt and they didnt believe me. Now they absolutedly hate me. What should I do?
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HI Megan
Look you have to do what you have to do. i mean your friends should except that you are trying to be postive and be friends with someone else besides them. even if they dont like this girl they shouldnt start doggin you because youare tryin to build your relationship back up. if they were really your friends they would understand and let you be. maybe the reason they are like this is because they are jealous jealuos of what you might ask jealous because you guys were once best friends you and larissa and maybe they feel frighten that you might start hanging out with her and forget all about them. so they could just be pushin you away or finding excuses not to be your friend which i know sounds dumb but i could truely be the reason i know from my own experiences. and about the fake thing that could very well be there reason and if they dont believe you after so long of being your friend maye you need to check to make sure they are really your friend and what you might want to start by doing is talking and by talking i mean them and you and even larissa expressing all you feeling and emotions that are bottled up inside and then you all could become friends maybe and everything would be perfect. i hoped this helped
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ME And one Of My bestest Freinds Ever Are Drifting because shes been talking about me to one of my toher freind, and not stuf that was true, LIES that shes saying about Me And My Boyfriend , i was pretty upset when i found out because were supose 2 be the TWOOO BESTEST Freinds since 6th grade til now which is four years. and it really sucks because now i cant even tell her things because she runs her mouth behind my back , and even said she doesnt tel me anything anymore and doesnt want to [she said that to my other freidna bout me] which hurts, so what friendship is in that if i cant trust her, i cant tearn to her to talk to and she wont talk to me?? even tho i was there for her when she REALLYY needed it, now shes not here for me. what do i do? i havent asked her about what she said yet, because ive been not even trying to talk to her because it pisses me off thinking of it (link)
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If your friend runs her mouth alot about u and tells lie leave her alone she isnt your real friend she doesnt care about you some friends pretend to be your friend be cause they want something you have or stop being your friend because there jealous most likey jealous shes made that you have someone and if she does have someone he not as great as your boyfriend and she also wants to make herself look godd by belittling you but dont play into that No!!!!!!! just stay away from her and tell hey if you going to talk abo me and tell lies i dont need you and get on with wour life you dont need negativety and if she cant give you support and a friend hand then tell her to step off and go find someone tat be good nice nd true to that wont tell lies and or spread rumors but you know dont throw away the friendship but take a brake from the friendship till you get trust in her again until thenm you should be associates and find someone else you can confide in until thta time comes when you feel she can be trusted again and good luck
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wellllllllll..... i moved here last year, and everybody hated me, they didnt want a new kid, the girl who is now my best friend was the only one who gave me a chance, but the problem is, she is really popular and her friends hate me, and she has had to choose who to stay whith when she is with me because they just bug her about it, i feel reallly bad, What do i do (link)
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well stick by her because if she wasnt going to be your friend she wouldnt have talked to you in the first place. she must not care that her friends dont like you. and if they dont except you who cares. as long as she likes you it doesnt matter. and if you feel like she may stop being your friend because of her other friends then try doing some of the things they like to do. but your best friend likes you because you are differnt have some thing to offer that they dont have and is a great person all around.and she stops being your friend because of them then she wasnt really your friend and ask her to stand up to them and tell them to leave you alone you are the same as them and should be treated equal. good luck
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Ugh, my huge winter dance is in a few weeks (about 3) and I asked this kid i dont know too well but i mean i talk to him everyday jus sayin Hi or somethin. well, I asked him at 10:57 and then he didnt answer. then at 11:23 i asked if he was there nd he didnt answer (this is all online) then an hour later i saw he went away and then came back. so i IMed him nd asked if he saw what i said. here was the convo when he came back
him: yeah but im leavin soon im readin some stuff on a few sites then goin upstairs what ya need ?
me: did you see what i asked you earlier?
him: yes
me: and .. lol
him: .... ill get bac to u
he's probably goin to make me wait a really long time and i really need to find a date fast because tickets go on sale until wednesday. then they are unavaliable. i dont want him to keep me waiting to the point that i wont find a date. what do i do? do i tell him i dont want to go with him any more( thats weird). do i wait it out? what do i do?!?
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Gurl you are to beautiful to wait on any guy and you say you dont know him very well. Find someone that you know and you really like an are comfortable with dont miss out because he wants to play games. but if he tells you tommorrow then yes go with him otherwise dont let him mess up a day that sopposed to be happy and joyus. and if you dont go with anyone just remeber you dont need a man to make you feel good you should be able to stand on your own to feet and have a good time with yourself and maybe find someone at the dance. Just make sure when you go to the dance you be happy with date or without you have fun!!!!!!!!good luck
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I have a friend that lives in my appartment complex. She's always phoning me and asks if she can borrow one of my DVD's. I always say yes because I own lots and she's pretty good about returning.
Well I just got two movies from my dad, Willy Wonka and The Fog. She asked me already if she could borrow them and I told as soon as I finished watching them.
She just phoned me about a half hour ago and asked if she could borrow one of my movies. I told her sure. When she came over I told her she could watch anything except for those two movies that I hadnt watched yet. Then she got mad and said" well then I guess I won't be borrowing anything because those are the ones I wanted to watch". Then she left!!
I felt angry, like she's just using me to watch my movies. If she was a true friend wouldnt she have at least stayed for a visit to chat?
Am I overreacting or was that down right rude? (link)
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That was down right rude she is a fake friend. Because if she was a true friend she would waited for you to finish with the movies. BUt if you like her that much you should try watching them with her like friend should be friendly. Or just stop talking to her chances are shes going to find someone else or call you up tommorow and ask you the same question besides you dont want a friend who is going to use you for the things youn got because a true friend is going to stick by you no matter what. wether you have or dont have. and she is just using you for what you have. and you want a friend who is going to stick by you through thick or thin. best of luck. but if this continues dont allow her to be your friend. because you could just end up getting hurt because as soon as you stop or were to stop getting dvds shell stop being your friend and if you let her continue shell ask for more and more and then shell continue to get madder and madder when you dont give her what she wants. Also who knows she could be talking about you and just pretending. my advice is to set some bounderies (limits) and if she does go along cut her loose just keep the peace with a friendly hi and bye. good luck
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