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Hey, I'm Charlotte and I'm 14 years old. Go ahead & ask me anything, anytime. If you don't like the advice, don't use it. I'm not telling you what to do. If you see a question that's already answered, don't ask it again. I love getting rated & good feedback, but please don't give me bad feedback, I won't appreciate it.
Yeah, that's about it.. so ask me anytime!
♥ Charlotte
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ok so ive liked this kid named Randy ever since the 7thgrade and he never knew it b.c he was a grade higher then me now iam a 9th grader and he's in my french class. we grew a big friend ship like OMG u have no i dea how great the friendship was. yeh so then my friends told him that i liked him and then we became even more closer. but now i have a bf and he's everything i ever wanted but ever since he found out about my bf we've been fighting lateley. and i think i still may like Randy. so give my advice he's killing me.
okay..
so you really need to decide on who you like, your current boyfriend, or Randy. because, if you still like Randy more than your boyfriend, you might want to ease out of your relationship, because it will just hurt your boyfriend more in the end if you end it without notice.
but, you could always find out if Randy likes you as well, which it seems he does considering he got closer to you when he knew you liked him. So, if Randy likes you.. the final decision is up to you....
Randy... or your boyfriend?
i hope i helped!
You're a loser. Please stop.
ok. first of all. you must be the loser. if you have enough time to go to people's advice columns and tell them they're losers... how much time do ya have on your hands buddy?!? plus... i don't force people to ask me questions. they can ask if they want... only if they want. it's not like i go up to people and say "ask me for advice" so... find a new hobby other than telling people they're losers.
~char~
Me and one of my closest friends seem to get into fights about little things. And sometimes it seems like we shouldn't be friends. How can i stop this? What's ur advice?
sorry that this is repeated but i think this is the same person:
If you still want to be friends, talk to her. I can relate it sort of because one of my friends was drifting... but we are friends again now. I just tried to sit with her at lunch, go the same places she goes, and become friends with her friends. Try doing some of these things. If it doesn't work, then she might not want to be your friend anymore. Ask her to do stuff on the weekends and if she says she can't, ask her if she really wants to be your friend still. If she says no, then don't hang out with her anymore... real friends will try to stay together forever...
Fill me in on what happens
~charlotte~
okay. so i want to ask you for advice. but what should i ask you about? plz help me!
ok. well, what do you have problems with? if this is a girl... do you have boy problems, personal problems, family problems, or health problems that you don't want your friends or family to know about? if you ask me them, i won't know who you are and it will be completely confidential.
Fill me in on what happens!
~charlotte~
Me and one of my VERY close friends always usually end up fighting over little things that don't matter. But it bugs me alot. One time we got so bad it seemed like being friends just wasn't a good idea. What's your advice?
If you still want to be friends, talk to her. I can relate it sort of because one of my friends was drifting... but we are friends again now. I just tried to sit with her at lunch, go the same places she goes, and become friends with her friends. Try doing some of these things. If it doesn't work, then she might not want to be your friend anymore. Ask her to do stuff on the weekends and if she says she can't, ask her if she really wants to be your friend still. If she says no, then don't hang out with her anymore... real friends will try to stay together forever...
Fill me in on what happens
~charlotte~