I might be young but i know a lot for my age...all of my friends turn to me for help. i give the best advice for heart related problems but i can try to help you in anything if u ask me too.
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ok, well i dont want to make this too long so here it goes
my sis 14/f and this 1 kid down the street(eddie)13/m and i are all best friends. but me and my sis are starting to think he likes my sis, he called her his WIT (wife in training)and we thought it was a joke but were now rethinking it. She likes him but she doesnt want to, but then does want to. weve been best friends 4 a long time and she doesnt want to ruin that, i need advice, should she ask him out, or should she leave it alone???plz help (link)
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well if your sister likes him then why not...if he says no then it might be awkward for a little bit but if your that close as you say then the guy should have no problem with it...if your sister doesnt liek him that much then she shoudnt...i would if i liked the guy because since you guys are such close then the relationship might last because you know each other very well
hope i helped...friendship may blume to love
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Okay, I've been best friends with my friend Missi since for about 3 years or more. About 5 months ago I met Cheryl (who had just moved to my school) We have become bestfriends too. Well we are all 3 bestfriends. Well before Cheryl ever came along, me and this guy Greg had dated for a lil over a month, and we had broke up just weeks before I met Cheryl. Well then Cheryl and Greg meet and she thinks hes hott, and he thinks she is too, okay so they end up likein each other. She is my friend so I choose to let myself forget about my feeling for him, because I know the reason I broke up with him to begin with is because he was mean and immature. So I let her have him, well when Cheryl moved from Navarre to Milton she left her boyfriend of 10 months, and they were still talking, and while she was going out with Greg, she cheated on him with her boyfriend Josh in Navarre. I never said anything until about a month or so after her and Greg broke up that she had done that to him. Well now hes finally realizing that Cheryl really loves Josh and hes just someone to lean on when Josh cant be around. Well we get back together (me and Greg). Well me,Cheryl, and Missi, all work at the skating rink together..Missi is off this Saturday night while me and Cheryl are working. Greg is there and his cousin Kenny shows up,who is like 19, well for some dumb reason Missi wants to get her freak on with him, So after Cheryl gets off work Kenny is goin over to Cheryls to do Missi. And of course Greg is goin over there to, I dont trust Greg around Cheryl but I trust Cheryl. Well the next day I find out, that Greg fingered Cheryl and tried to screw her 3 times (Missi told me) after I begged her to tell me what went on, because I knew something was up because Greg was talking to Cheryl on the phone. I am so hurt that Cheryl would touch him, and she knew he was with me, and Im even more hurt that Missi let Cheryl and Greg do it to me. Well the day I find out about this, which is the day after it all happened, I get a phone call that night, and its Missi, Im like where are you at and she goes "Oh me, Cheryl, Kenny, and Greg are over at the mall, and Greg wants to talk to you" of course Greg dumps me. And furious I call Missi's grandparents and tell them where she is really at and who shes really with. She gets grounded out the butt. And now she wants to be my friend again and has wrote me the letter saying how she is sorry, and made a scrap book thingy of us. Should I take Missi back as a friend ? And as far as Cheryl goes she has tried to apologize too.. Should I forgive either one of them. I mean once was horrible, why'd they do it a second time if they knew it would hurt me?
I know this was long, but I need some opinions. (link)
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i would take missi back because she wasnt the one that did anything with greg...she could have stopped them but maybe she was busy...as for cheryl...wow thats not agreat friend to have is it..it matters how close you were befor ethe fight...if it wasnt very gig friendship with some flaws in it then it might be good not to be very close friends but if you were very close then you should be friends because shes your friend you were like 2 peas in a pod...it may be dificult because of greg but if you guys are close a guy wont set you guys apart...oh and i thought i should mention this..if greg and cherly brake up like i think they will dont go back with greg...i woudnt i mean he cheated on you for your best friend...if you ask me he doesnt diserve you or cherly...
hope i helped...remember guys are not worth friends but yet bad friends are not worth to have
you have to figure out witch of these is cherly
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umm my friend who isnt really now used to abuse me and my other friends.. when i finally got the guts to tell her to stop she gets mad... she hits u so hard and it makes you feel like you want to die. shes hurt a lot of my other friends to and she even hurts guyys=.. well so anyways she hit me really hard on the head and i didnt say anything so then she says i dont think she felt that and kills me with two more slaps... so i went home crying and of course my parents fournd out. my mom accualy went over and talked to them. she doesnt even care and now i think she is going to tell everyone else a whole different story even though i have witnesses. also she is friends with most of my other friends too even though im better friends with them then she is. i am just scared that no one will believe me or she might accually hurt me again. im so scared i dont even no wat to do now... HELP!!! (link)
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shes not your friend...talk to your friends and see who they like more and make them pick between you and her..if they pick you then ur set and just ignore that girl ...if they pick her make new friends forget about them...there not your true friends if they abuse you
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Im 15/f
Ive posted a question about my ex"friend" recently. (she was a "friend" at the time) She was judging all of my friends and always tagged along and was boring and couldnt continue a conversation. well, on wednesday at lunch time one of my friends gave me a note so i was walking and reading it, and then i hear footsteps next to me and someone dragging their feet, it was that "friend" and she was following me around again without talking..when she came up she didnt even say hi. *shrugs*.
Anyways yesterday we had the same class together and she now has made a new friend in that class (whos racist against me and is trash to be honest) So when she had someone else she pretened like i wasnt there and didnt try to talk to me (which is a good thing) so at lunchtime when she usually follows me around she now hangs out with her trashy racist new friend. After school like at night time she IMed me and said "can you do me a favor" so i made up an excuse and said i was busy.
Today i totally ignored her cause i have other people to hang out with because i always talk to random people cause im not shy. She on the other hand had noone so she hung out with a shy quiet girl that she always judged and said bad stuff about. I sit next to that girl in the class we have after lunch so she told me that my ex "friend" was talking about how she doesnt want to be my friend anymore. (which is SUCH a good thing, finally she got the point)
Anyways sorry this was wrong but i need advice on what to do from now on cause she and her racist friend are in my group in one of our classes. (link)
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hmm..its gonna be a mess for a while...what you can do is ask the teacher to assign you to another group...if the teacher wont do that then your stuck..you have to work with them and just ignore them if they say something not concerning the project...if they say mean things to you...you have friends to back you up...keep on remembering that your happy she is leaving you alone after the project...rememeber stay strong through the project with your friends at your side...
hope i helped
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Ok im 14 and i have this friend. We have been friends sence before kindergarden. Now im in 8th Grade and we talk and hang out but we are friends with totally different groups of people. All the people she's hanging out with are real popular and preppy and totally not her. I normmal dont like thoses type of people. They are nice but probably would not care for me. She is now started to act like them and i dont really like it. I want to tell her and seee what she would say or if she would change, but i dont want her to get mad at me. I dont kno what to do please help!! (link)
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well everyone goes through a change and we have to respect that... i dont think u should start a argument about it but i dont want you to lose a friend...so you need to break it down lightly like just mentioning it...dont turn it into something big but when you notice the change at that time you can say.."__name___ ur acting strange." she would say what do you mean?"your not yourself are you trying to be something your not?" She might make a face or something. Do not push it but once in a while mention it. REmind her of your old times remind her of how close you guys were. Maybe get some of your old friends that you guys shared and go someplace so she remembers that she was loved for being herself and she does not need to pretend to be something she isnt for friends. remind her she has friends.
hope i helped
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