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First off, im a girl and i have a friend who is a guy. we always hang out and we made out once but that waz all. im afraid that we will make out again n he wants to go further then making out. how do i stop in at this point without getting him upset or looking like im afraid because im not. iv had sex with 2 guys before. i dont like him enough to have sex with him but i enjoy making out with him. Please help because i dont want to look like im scared n i wanna stay friends with him. i am 17 by the way n he is 18. (link)
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as a friend he should understand and not get offensive if you dont want to have sex with him. if you dont want to have sex with him, you shouldnt have to and no one, not even him can make you, if he doesnt understand then he's out of order.
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I have liked this guy for a really long time and i really want to go out with him. He really likes me too. The problem is neither one of us is brave enough to ask the other one out. So do you think i should make the first move or wait for him. I hear him talking about me all the time. What should i do? (link)
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i think you should definetly go for it because he could be thinking the same way as you and you both could be waiting ages. talk to him. it'll be worth it.
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When 2 of your friends are fighting and your in the middle stuck and dont know what side to choose on what do you do? Like one person would want me to sit with them and the other one would be like lets all move away from her and i dont know what to do i mean i am friends with all of them but they make it seem like it is wrong to hang out with that person just b/c that person is different and people already make fun of her behind her back and everything. I am stuck in the middle so what do i do ? (link)
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tell them both that your stuck in the middle, and you like being friends with both of them, if they want to see you happy as their friend they should using you as a go between and let you do your own thing, nobody owns you and the sooner they relise that, the better. talk to them tell them how you feel,you'll soon relise who your real friends are.
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I have a friend, well I guess you would call her a friend, who one minute she'll be all buddy buddy with me and the next minute she'll get mad at me or give me dirty looks or even start cussing me out for no reason at all. I know what your gonna say, she's not really a friend but that's not my question my question is how do I get her off my back withouttryin to kill me or something.
-sick of it (link)
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tell her what you said here (wiyhout the killin bit). ask her what her problem is, tell her if she want to keep you as a friend (with her good side) she needs to sort herself out. it will be her loss if she cant.
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O.K...i knew my friend liked this guy at our school & he had wanted me to go down on him & i was like no i cant do that..then 1 day i was walkin home & he had asked me again...i was thinkin & i asked him did he think my friend wouldnt mad & he said they werent talkin..(mad) & i was like well O.K.so after i got home i felt bad & told my friend..she said she was very disappointed & that our friendhip was frozen! So she got all mad & i was like whatever.see i had also did 1 of her other friends guy too. but ive done him before & them goin out didnt change nothin.(he said)They simply told me i did somethin they wouldnt do! So whats the big damn deal!!..what should i do??? (link)
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put your friends b4 a guy, put yourself in their shoes and look at it from their point of view...
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Okay, I like this boy named Joe. We went out for a day but then we broke up because he claimed he didnt know me enough. I still like him but he doesnt like me anymore, well he is saying that atleast. and i sorta believe it because i called him, he knew it was me, and he hung up... ON PURPOSE! how can i get his attention and maybe go out with him again? (link)
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mayby he's just a bit shy and doesnt no how to be around you, or sadly he may not like you in that way which isnt the end of the world, there will be someone else. tex him just to be sure, tell him how you feel and ask him to tell you truthfully how he feels about you.
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Hi my friend katie is a little over weight... but the thing is i dont think she realizes it and its not a big deal that she has a few extra pounds but its the clothes she wears. She wears really tiny mini skirts and tight shirts that do not flatter her at all. Everyone makes fun of her behind her back for it and she doesn't realize it how can i confront her about this without hurting her feelings, she is a really sensitive girl and she cares about what she looks like more than anything.. very superficial so i don't want to hurt her feelings, I think that it would hurt her ore if she heard what people said about her.. please help (link)
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go shopping together and pick out things that would suit her, as friend always listen to their friend opinions on things like fashion, ask her how she feels when she goes out and if she is fine and feels confident enough then let her be, as the people who say things about her will look silly when they no how much confidence she has in herself.
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if guys like u how would u know, or can tell? and well they try to make u jealous by hanging around with other girls.
if someone likes u wat are they going to act like with u and how would u know!! (link)
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guys that like to play games are just wasting time,they do it to show off, someone who realy likes you will let you know by showing simple sign like shyness, compiments towards you ect and before you know it it will become obvious.
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