Ask me anything, I understand, cus I've been through a lot..guys especially..,moving parents,friends,anything & everything in between,I HAD hotkins lymphoma,if anyone is currently going through something like that, I understand and would love to help, you might not think I understand but I prolly will.. just ask me & I'll give you the best answer I can..
The best advice anyone ever gave me was take this moment & run...
*The fisrt time u fall in love, it changes ur life forever, and no matter how hard u try, the feeling never goes away* - The notebook
*Never kiss by the garden gate*,
(*love is blind but the neighbors ain't*)
When it hurts to look behind you & you're afraid to look ahead, look beside you & your friends will be there
Kass & Holly.. Love you guys
Thanks for bein there, we got each others backs, just in case one of us gets jumped againby some drunken sluts. lol
Me & my girls are like Paris & Nicole.. (without the sex tapes)
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the prettiest people do the ungliest things
from roads to riches to diamond rings...
We buy our way out of jail, but we can't buy freedom
We'll buy a lot of clothes when we don't really need em
Things we buy to cover up what's inside
Cause they make us hate ourself and love they wealth...
were all self-concious im just the first to admit it
[all falls down-kanye west]
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I have this friend whos 16, we're not really close, but we do talk & she told me she wants to get pregnant & she's been trying for a while...Its not because she loves her boyfriend or anything, its just because she wants a baby.. I know she won't be able to take care of it..does anyone have any suggestions on what I could do to show her how much work it would be and try to save her from ruining her life? (link)
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Well, she should watch somebody whos in labor, then she would understand, my friend'd cousin just recently had a baby & shes 19 & she watched her have it & she said it was so painful she would never have kids
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*Hey!Well, I always use the word suckwad.No one else does.Then one day i was reading my best friends advice column and i noticed that she had used it.it really pees me off and i am MAD...not really..this is you best friend Kass! I (link)
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*I know you're not serious, cus we all know who made up that word.. = ) he he j/k lol..*
Bff,
~x-*Aleshia*-x~
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My bestfriends is in love with my boyfriend She writes him notes and everythin she tells him to break up with my and everythin i mean i've knew the girl for ever and she tells me she hates haim but i know she likes him what should i do i want to still be her friend but i don't want her to get in with my persnal life i mean this guy and i have been goin out for 4 months..Please Help me before i kill my beat friend (link)
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Oh thats a suckwad of a friend, I understand, one of my besat friends did the same thing to me & we haven't talked since. You should find some way to prove it to her that you know what she is trying to do, then if she still doesn't admit it, then you have no choice but not to talk to her for a while, just give her the silent treatment, if she doesn't come around after a week or so, then this friend has got to go... if she can't be honest with you by then then she never will.Unfortunatly thats the only thing you CAN do. I hope everything works out okay, and if you have any more problems, please leave me a messege in my inbox...
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okay today has been 3 weeks since my best friend and i havent talked for..my best guy friend and he happens to be my crush thinks my worst enemy is hott..and wants to date her but thinks he has no chance n i think he deserves better and plus im moving..my life literally stinks and im going through major depression anyone wanna help (link)
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I think you should try to talk to each of them and straighten it out before you leave. I know it must be hard, but you should atleast try, so it won't be so hard when you leave. So first, we'll start off on what to say to your best friend. You should say something like "It's been three weeks since we haven't talked and I don't like it at all. We're suppose to be best friends. I mean I want to work this out, I don't want us to be mad at each other, we need to work this out, we're best friends after all and we have to be forever. And I can't move knowing we're still not talking, do you think we could work this out...?" Say something like that to her. And then for your best guy friend/crush, say something like "You're one of my best guy friends. But, I want to tell you something. But, you know I'm moving and I just thought this would be the right time to say it, even though there would probably be no chance, but I just can't hold it in any longer. But, I like you more than a friend. And I also just want to look out for you, and I'm not just saying this because I like you, but that girl you think is hot, isn't the right girl for you, you could do so much better than that, I just don't want her to get hurt, that would be the last thing I would want..." Say something like that. Just tell them how you feel and that you don't want to move with her not talking to you and him going out with the wrong person. I hope this helps and good luck hun. Just stay positive and keep smiling. Life will get better, trust me hun. Tell me how it goes. If you still need help, just post a message in my inbox
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Aliesha, I really need help I think im in love with my best friend we talk all the time and i think shes beautiful what should I do? try to go with her or just stay friends (link)
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I don't know what to tell you, personally I don'y believe in lesbianism...
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