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The Names Nesmira. I turned 15 on Dec. 13th (: Yay me, but kinda sucks becuase i still didnt get my Permit. GAY? yes i no. Anyway I have blonde hair and blue eyes. (: I am 100% Bosnian [muslim] and veryy proud of that. you wanna hate knock yourselves out, dont bother me. =p Well im currently a Sophmore at Bayless Sr. High [class of `10 baby] (: It may be a pretty small school and not the riches but hey its amazing (:. My all time favorite sport is Basketball i loooveee it. i also enjoy playin volleyball and soccer, but it sucks becuase i cant play soccer anymore. :( and i hate it. Well im orginally from Srebrenica, Bosnia but i currenly live in Saint Louis (: i love my family & friends, they are amazing. [mina, ajsa, amela t, azra, edina , vildana] i dont know what i would do without these girls. esp the boznian mobn [mina.amela t. & azra] ♥ life would most definetly suck without them. Well ya i love all my other friends, you know who yu are. (: well um i dont care what you thnk of me or what i do, its just your opinion. i love to have fun, laugh and make others laugh. i`M very nice unless you piss me off then i can be the biggest biotch. ever. that just how it goes.




LIKES: chocolate, traveling, shoes & clothes , movies, myspacing, soccer guys, (: music, shopping, SUMMER, being European, animals, people who can make me laugh, people who love to have fun, moneey (: , televsion, computer, PHONE, aim, BOSNA, my amazing friends, hanging out with friends, BERIX, bosnian food (;, McDonadls, BASKETBALL, soccer, volleyball, being acctive, the beach, swimming, tanning, fashion, taking random pictures, swings, rollercoaster, coloring, make-up, ribbons, flip flops, black & white pictures, oversized sunglasses, strawberries, GUM, cookies (:, Nicole Richie, Paris Hilton, ANGLINA JOLIE, Paul walker, Christiano Ronaldo, (: && most def. Channingg Tattummmmmm (: , ONE TREE HILL, Passions, The Hills, Laguna Beach, real friends & muccccchhh more..


DISLIKES: Fake friends, biotches, stupid commercials, being bored, bugs, heights, feet, blood eww, Chain Letters, two faced people, white socks, TENNIS SHOES ugh, wanna bew`s, when people change soo quickly, sea food, homework, winter- even tho its pretty soemtimes, cheesy songs ugh, when poeple put others down.


OK well tthat`s more then enough. dont be shyt to Ask me anything, i will answer the best i can (:

♥ Nesmira

advice

I told my best (male) friend that I wouldn't sleep with him. We had been friends for 3 years and really cared about each other. I felt that he was my "soul mate". The problem was that he is trapped in a bad marriage- really bad. They have nothing in common and fight constantly. People say they are like oil and water. I almost think he is afraid of her. They have never had kids and she is older than him with two grown kids who are heroin addicts. lt time I saw him he hinted we should fool around. I told him that as long as he were married I wouldnt sleep with him. Now he wants nothing to do with me. So does that mean he was never intending on leaving her and just wanted an affair? Because I think he really did care about me but is too scared to leave her. She is very vindictive. I know how unhappy he was with her because I could see the pain in his eyes when he was with her at social functions so if you think he's staying with her becuase he loves he it's not true.

NO iT DOESNT MEAN THAT HE DOESNT WANT TO DO ANYTiN WiTH YOU!. HE MiGHT NOT WANT TO END THiNGS REALLY QUiCKLY WiTH HEE! SiNCE HER KiDS R HERiON ADDiCTS! YOU NEVER NO WHAT THEY WiLL DO TO HiM OR HOW THEY MiGHT TRY TO DO TO HiM! & THERE MiGHT BE SOMEThiN GOiN ON BETWEEN THEM. "THE GUY & HiS WiFE"! THAT MAYBE YOU DONT NO ABOUT.! BUT iF HE DiD JUST TRY TO HAVE AN AFFAiR! & DOESNT WANT TO LEAVE HiS WiFE. THEN MAYBE YOU SHOULD JUST TRY TO FiND SOMEONE ELSE.! YA i NO iTZ EASIER SAiD THEN DONE. BUT! iF YOU THNK THATS WHY HE WAS WiTH YOu!. & WANTED TO FOOL AROUDN THEN HE iS NOT WORTH it!. & YOU SHOULD JUST LET HiM BE UNHAPPY WiTH HER iF THATS WAT HE WANTS TO DO!

& HOPE i HELPPPED!

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I threw a party last weekend and one of my good guy friends, Chad, brought a guy I didn't know. I didn't care because the party wasn't invite only.


Well anyways, Chad always asks me to hook him up with my friends and I do. He's dated like 3 of my good girl friends.


Well the other day I asked him about his friend that he brought with him and if he was single and all. I told him that I wanted him to introduce us. He automatically said no. I tried to ask why and he just said that he didn't want me to date his friends.


That's the only reason he gave me which I think is complete BS because I always introduce him to people he wants to meet that I know. And this guy seems really cool (plue he's sooooo cute).


What do y'all think I shoud do?

i think that you shoudl find a way to talk to Chad and find out the real reason to why he doesnt want to introduce you to this friend.
personally i think that Chad likes you or someting because he would introduce you to his friend otherwise.. but liek he might think that he is ruining his chace..
if you dont think thats the deal then maybe you should find a way to meet this guy (chad's friend) on your own without Chads help...
&& hoPe i HeLpeD

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do u think amela has a big chin

um...i no who diz iz...hahhaha.... yupp**!!

^^ but dat ?? waz mean... hhahahahhahha....

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I got a friend that copies me and now i think she likes the boy i like.


-Amber

What should i do about the copying and then boy liking? I'm not flattered about it either i shouldn't be.

i think that you should first talk to your friend about the *boy* to make sure she like's him.. it may be just false signals or something.,
and you should also try to talk to her about copying you, i know its hard but liek she might be doing it with even know (with no intention) ..
*so just talk to her.. and see how it goes..

-hoPe i hElPED!!!
& TELL ME HOW eVERYthInG GOeZ

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well i dono wad to put this under.. !! hehe
hey nesmirA gurll its ABBY... well i dont need advice just wanted to sayy hii n i kant wait till FRiDAY.. heheh ... n ya they r comin.. :) n ya we gon have some fun.. lol.. well ya i have to go im on the phone wid brAd.. lov ya so much..... **BF4L**

hey BabE.. i no gurl i kant wiat till fridayy either .. hah we betta have fun..i no they comin i've talked to them like todaii.. hehehe... okii.. well i got to go to kuzz i like have so much homework.. lol.. CALL ME.. Bf4L...... mwahzzz

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So there's this boy and I used to be able to talk to him with no problem, but now that i like him i can't even say hi to him. our winter formal is coming up and i kinda want to ask him, but i don't have enough courage to do it. for christmas i gave him a card and he really liked it, but since then i can't even say the word hi to him. i really want to tell him i like him, but i'm afraid it'll be awkward. and should i make him something for valentines?

you like need to find a way to talk to him.. even if it means talkin about anything.. then like start gettin more serious conversationz yes i think you should get him something for valentinez day becuzz that might strengthen your FRIENDSHIP/RATIONSHIP and then like ask him if you kan hang out.. get to no him a little bit more.. and then tell him how you feel..
&&hope i helped//
♥ write me backk about what you think..♥

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ok there is this kid that i like and i kno him but he dosnt kno me! How can i make him notice me?This is eating me up inside

please help!

Note that i am very shy.

thankyou

you need to like try to talk to him first about like basic things. just like sai hi here and there. eventually get to no him.. n then ask him if he would like to hang out.. n just take it all slow.. n follow your ♥heart♥...

&&♥♥H0PE i HELPED..♥♥

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hey 15/f
well im having a party tommorrow(not really just a few of my closest friends over- all girls) and i want to know if you guys have any ideas of what to do? we're real girly and besides truth or dare i wanted to know if any of you girls have anything you do with yoour friends when you hang out at your house? im basically looking for different things and as many as you can come up with? we're pretty much rated pg if you know what i mean?ill rate 5s for good stuff

well there are manyy thingz dat you could do...

-take pikturez
-talk about old memoriez
-prank kallz

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