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ok, 1st this is going to be very long and for that i am very sorry! but here goes nothing:

Ok my friend (who is a guy, and i am a girl)Always follows me. Right after lunch we have 4th and 5th together.

So in my 4th hour we are doing a lab amd he ask me if i wanted to be his "lab buddy." I said i was sorry and that i already had one. Then we had to dign up for a lab table, me and partern signed upfor table 6, then my "stalker" went from table 4, to table 6. When i say i am so sick of school, he says "don't drop out." Im not dumb, and im not going to. He has to know what is going on inmy life or he gets so mad at me.

In 5th hour me and my friend Shelby and me are always talking together, and he has to but in. He is always trying to get my attention. If im talking to someone else, he'll say my name and i'll tell him one min, but if i take to long then he pokes me. It is so annoying. My friends say he has a crush one me. And i am starting to think that it is more then that. For my end of the year solo I sang unfaithful, and he told me that he would never do that to me, as if we were going out. And we are not. I do not want to be mean to him but what do I do? Any help I would really be greatful.
~*Keri~!

hmm..

well its funny you say that becuase i have one too!

lol yah like i had to get the school involved and stuff. he asked me out like, 6 times or something and was being rude to my friends and texting me alllll the time and had my number memorized and met me at all of my classes even though i hardly knew him.

and recently he said he was sorry so i thought we were cool but then he goes and puts me on his top 8 on myspace and told my friend he loves me! and then he comments a pic and said something very offensive and i got mad at him and he didnt know why (WTF??) and so he was trying to apoligize today and our classes are next door and he was texting his friends in my class trying to talk to me like "tell her i said hi" "tell her have a great summer" "tell her i want to talk to her after class" "ask her why she isnt talking to me".

ecch.

yah just go up to him IN PERSON and tell him "Look, Im sorry if you have feelings for me, but I don't think of you like that." and if he keeps doing it then have your friend be rude haha such as "No one wants you here. Where are you supposed to be now? How bout you to back there and stop annoying us. We don't like you and never will. ok?" haha my friends done it for her sister before.

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my friend has been leaving me out a little lately. liek usually if i go somewhere, i invite her. well this weekend she is going to this girls house (her friend) i don't really know this girl and i dont' mind her but.. i just feel left out. i can't tell her i feel that way though cause its complicated. but what can i do to get over this feeling or something?

that sucks.

maybe she doesnt realize shes doing it. i was doing that to my best friend ever once. she confronted me, a little to agressively, but it worked and now we're closer. i try to hang out with them equally and get them to combine. it doesnt work sometimes, but im pretty sure we're all good now. try it. it might work :D.

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ok my best friend or was best friend is trying to get attention from everyone in a bad way. shes getting on everyones nerves and i want to tell her real bad but i don't know how to tell her. she hates volleyball and shes over there going i love volleyball its the best sport just to get a attention and its getting way out of hand what can i do to keep our friendship because we are fixing to lose it. HELP!!

Im sorry. Go ahead and tell her, but make sure that you stress that you DO NOT feel that way. It might make her feel like everyone is against her and that is not what you want to be doing. Tell her that people are saying XY and Z and just be gentle to her, but honest too. Maybe tell her that while you are getting your nails done or shopping or something casual...

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Me and my friend Alex I thought were pretty good friends. Her and I borrowed some clothes from eacho other. And last week I called her to ask her if I could come and pick up some clothes and my mom was yelling really loud in the back ground and Alex said my mom hates her. I went to her house to pick up my clothes and she really didnt say much. It was homecoming week last week and AL and I did tug of war at our pep rally and she didnt even say anything to me really. I saw her at our homecoming on saturday and all she said to me was hi..I heard from this girl Rae that I know that Alex told her about my mom. And Al doesnt like drama. I dont know if her and I are friends any more. Its not my fault that my mom was yelling. I told Al that I was sorry about it..Al and I used to hang out alot and I love the gurl to death bc she was one of my best friends..Idk if I should just ignore the problem or talk to her about it..i am usually good with situations like this but this time idk what to do..I just want all this fixed..what should I do.

Aww Im sorry. Tell her what you are saying here. Say to her that you love her to death and that you are sorry your mom was yelling but you cant really help it. Ask her if she is OK. Take her out. ust pretend like everything is normal.

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ok, my friend andy invited me to sleepover on friday night. hes having a sleepover and i really wanna go. the only thing is... im a girl... and andy is a guy so my parents will probably say no. my friend tia is going too... but i dont think that will help convince them much. im thinking about saying im sleeping over tias and then going with her to andys... but im scared my parents would find out... what should i do? please help me...

dont do that. just tell them the truth and say that it isnt like you gyus are gonna have sex or something (DUH!) so they shouldnt worry. If they say no, see if you can go over till 1130 or something then come home. :)

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(16/f) One of my good guy friends and I are starting to like hang out more and he's told like the whole world he likes me.. but that's not the point. One day at tennis practice I was telling one of my really good friends that he liked me and since then she's been like all over him and it's really annoying! This isn't even the first time that she's done this! Ok and by "all over him" she's really just flirting with him. But she didn't used to. A year ago she had a SMALL crush on him but since then she's had like a zillion crushes *let's be honest she's a little boy crazy*. What should I dooo?!
I'm really liking this guy but I don't want her to be mad at me or something
thnks!

Tell her you like him. Ask her to please understand that you really like this guy. "Look (person), I know that you like a lot of guys, but I only like one and he is so special to me. I would really appriciate it if you could please stop flirting with him. I am afraid that he will start liking you and not want to ask me out." If she is a real friend she will understand and move aside.

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well see i like this guy, and he has a girlfriend... but we have all our classes together and none w/his girlfriend. so he's always flirting with me and saying "i love you" but were just really good friends and i think he likes me too, and my friends think so too... so i'm confused. he always wants hugs from me, and he'll say "you don't love me anymore..." and i'll say, "how do you know?" so this one time he said "well i know for a fact, that if i asked you out right now you'd say no" so i never thought he was saying i love you like that... so, does he like me? sorry so long and confusing

He either likes you or is a player/flirt.

If he likes you, wait until he and his gf are over and then make more moves on him, there is nothing more furious than a played girl's wrath.

If he is a player/flirt then you dont want him as a bf anyways. Stop flirting with him sooo much and tone it down a bit so that he moves on and it is easier for you to do so.

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When do normal people have their periods?

"Normal" people have their periods about once a month, however, if it is your first year, it can vary by about a week in a half. Dont worry if it is a week after "normally", it should be fine. Also, stress and fatigue can cause you to miss a period.

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