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uggh i dont even know where to begin. thanks for reading this and trying to help but seriously what youre about to read is alot!

ok so i was going out with this guy last year and i got back together with him this year a few months ago.. well i broke up with him because he wasnt acting like my boyfriend but i still wanted to be friends.

my ex best friend (lets call her bob).. ok i got into a fight with her and i really didnt do anything and she ended up turning everyone against me, we made up a long time after but i found out she was pretty much mad at me for no reason she pretty much picked a fight, well.. theres another girl who was my best friend last year (lets call her billy) and i found out that they made a plan to get me jealous of them being best friends and after they found out i broke up with my bf they were happy (they liked him) and pretty much everyone in my school likes him that knows him.. and we had a party the day i broke up with him and he was sad when i wasnt there but as soon as i got there he was acting all happy and hanging out with my two "ex best friends" and he knows i hate them. so at the party bob asked me if she can go out with him because she found out he wanted to go out with her (this was the same day i broke up with him). what pisses me off is that he is only doing this to get revenge with me and shes doing the same probaly just like she had the plan with billy..

theres more to this that i didnt mention but really i dont know what i should do!

i agree with toxic paradise.theres nothing much you can do. if he picked you over his friends then its not meant to be.he probably would of ended up cheating on you if he liked her. the best thing you could do is move on and show them that it dont bother you. or fight them that what i would do.

hope i helped.
love kayla

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Hey! Well i have this problem..i LOVE hanging out with my cousin--we are the same age . both 15 and she is pretty much awesome lol we are really close! The only thing is when we hang out we dont really go anywhere..she is a computer (AIM , MYSPACE) addict..im serious. We were suppose to hangout this weekend and at my house we are having this party but like ALL OLD PEOPLE are going to be there..and its boring..and my cousin told me that me her and the kid she liked (mike) and his friend (zack) and this girl brittany were all going to go to a movie so i could meet the guys she likes. Well now i just talked to her a little bit ago shes like GUESS WHAT? i get to drive to your house on saturday because she got her permitt..and i was like ohhh coool..and shes like but yeah i dont think zack has even talked to mike yet ..so im not sure what we are doing this weekend..and it seems like she is coming over here for the boring party where we will just sit here with all the adults and do nothing..she will probably go on the computer. She wants me to sleepover but the problem is since she is grounded from the computer at her house..we dont do anything besides sit there and watch tv the whole time..this is not how i want to spend my weekend! i look forward to my weekends and i dont want to waste it by sitting on my butt. We never go anywhere..sometimes its boring but like there is never anything to do and it seems like she never wants to do anything! we both dont really hangout with guys..even tho i would want to but we are more quieter so we dont have many guy friends..and yeahh. SO any suggestions on what we could do? Or anything that would help with my situation on how to spice things up..and just have fun!!

i will rate 5 for anyone who answers!
thanks :)

Well you dont always have to go to the movies with friends.. go to the mall or just walk around some where. I know what you mean i dont like sitting in the house on the weekends either.. Ugh Boring! invite some friends over... and when she comes over take a plug from your computer and hide it so she cant get on it. if something happens to where she does get on it just tell her how you feel. I know there is not much to do in life on the weekends but you can go bowling, rollerskating, out to eat,ect.

HOPE i helped.
LOVE

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(it's long but important info.) ever since this guy moved here (we'll call him James) I've liked him so much. James is the only guy I've ever trusted and the only one I can be my 100% self in front of. We're like brother and sister and we never get mad at each other. He knows I've liked him and he's liked me at times, but James has had 2 serious girlfriend during the time I've known him, and the current one is over a year already. I told James I love him and he took it well, but was in an awkward position because hes deeply in love with his girlfriend, we'll call her Kayla. I originally was fine with him having a girlfriend and respected it and talked to Kayla when he would have people over his house. Kayla was nice to me too. But a couple days ago Kayla was at James's house and I was bored to I texted James (not knowing kayla was there) saying hey what are you doing? and he texted back I hate you. so I thought it was a joke and texted him haha funny. why? and hes like dont talk to me i HATE you. so this was suspicious so I went online and his away message said Kaylas here

well i truly would beat that girls ass. your right you and him were close first and its not right what she is doing. pull him aside and tell him how you feel. or call me one night nomatter if she is over there or not and when you call and shes over there and she has a problem beat her buns! thats what i would do. she doesnt deserve him.

hope i helped.
LOVE

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i had some drama within my group of friends. me and my 2 bffls told some of our other friends how it annoyed us that they always talk about their amazing sleepovers infront of us and we're never invited. They all hate me now, and they really dislike my 2 friends, but since i did most of the talking, they especially hate me. They said some really mean stuff about me and even said they "never liked me." i know i shouldn't care about girls who pretended to be my friends for 3 years, but it really makes me so mad! i have friends on my side too, but i feel so crummy about the things that said about me, calling me a b*tch and a hoe and annoying and stuck up. what should i do? i'm so mad at them!!!

15/f

well ive had a lot of arguments with my friends. and just to let you know when they say they never liked you its totally not true! its just a thing they use to convince others that they arent upset and make you look like the bad one. and you were just telling the truth about them when you said that they were annoying.. so i guess they cant handle the truth. now when they call you a ho* and a Bitc* then thats when you need to stick of for yourself. personally i would say stuff back or fight them but its up to you. and it isnt better to ignore them because if you do then theres a chance they will keep talking out of their as*!

hope i helped...!! goodluck

---->>&&heaRts;kayla

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I know this seems like a classic, but I'm in love with my best guy friend. We're both 16 and I don't mean puppy love. We tell each other that we love one another, but he is the kind of guy who wants to date you, but is afraid to. He flirts with me all the time. (e.g. holding hands, telling me that he loves me, hugging) I know he's a guy and all, but he is constantly starring at my breast. One time when he was giving me a hug, he "accidently" grabbed my butt. I know you're thinking that is is just a "accident," however; I though most people can tell the difference between your butt and your back. Anyways, I really love him and he knows that, but what can I do to get him?
~!Thanks!~

If i were in this situation i would tell him"" Look we have been good friends for along time" and we know how to treat each other" I know your probably afraid that ill hurt you" but i want to be with you"! hope i helped! but you have to remember that hes not the only boy out there!!
good luck!!

---->> x0x Kayla

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Well, I like this guy and one of my "friends" told him, but she said she didnt. I heard from about 6 people that she did but she keeps lying to my face about it. I'm not even mad that she told him just that she lyed to me. I even told her that I thought someone said they heard her telling him and she said "Well obviously this person doesnt want us to be friends if they're telling you this." What should I do?

I would just let it go! that shouldnt mess up your friendship with her! just tell her " I believe you when you say you didnt tell him" "But if you are lying i rather you tell me the truth next time! " i wont get madd"! hope i helped! Good luck with your friend!

---->> x0x Kayla

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