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Name: Kelley ♥ I'm a jv cheerleader for my school, Keystone Oaks. it's pretty insane there. i have great friends and a very conplicated family. being loud and obnxious pretty much describes me and my friends. i text all the time. i get annoyed very easly though and random mood swings. trying new things is very exciting and i'm usually up for anything. i love piercings and bright jewlery. i don't go anywhere without my bracelets. i made this not only to give advice but to get it too. nobody perfect. i struggle with tough issues all the time. people need guidance and i'm here to give it and receive it :] IM me sometime uhohxomfg!
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Alright.....so I'm in the 9th grade and I'm 14. I'm friends with ALL guys.3 of them tease me about my boob size. I'm a 32B and they all say I'm small and I don't know what to do anymore. It gets really irritating and I just freeze and can't think of anything to say. Can anybody relate and give me a little advise here???
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haha i have the same probably. they just want to make you mad cause they think its funny. i know it bugs the crap out of you. haha same here but just be like yeah my boobs will grow. but lets talk about your penis..im guessing 3½-4inches? they will get really embarrassed. haha thats what i do. hope they stop soon.
My friend has tried to kill herself many times because she thinks shes ugly. I tell her shes beautiful but she won't believe me. People make fun of her and say shes ugly, but I told her its just because they are JEALOUS. I feel if I post a picture of her on here, and I want to know if you guys really think shes ugly. Honestly, I think shes really pretty but she thinks I'm just saying that. Do you think she's pretty? http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=viewImage&friendID=21583599&imageID=983295681&MyToken=72866b2d-41b3-4a0f-89b8-e84a24a369a8 I'd mostly like guys to answer this because most of the time she tries to kill herself is over guys, but girls can give there opinion too. I need a lot of answers so I'm going to rate everyone who answers. She wants me to help her change her appearence so if you think anything needs to be changed like her hair or whatever just tell me, and I will try to help her. I don't want her to die, so please answer as soon as you can!
shes not ugly at all! shes a very pretty girl. well you might want to inform an adult if she tries to committe suicide again. that could really be dangerous.
as for changing her appearence; try new make-up ideas; darker or lighter; new hair cut; new hair color; new clothing style; better attitude helps you come off as a pretty person in general.
you need to explain to her that guys dont like girls that are very self concious. its a major turn off.
i hope i helped just a little bit at least.
Okay, so I'm having a party for the end of the school year and I want to invite guys. Here;s the problem, the ratio of my close guy friends to close girl friends is about 5:15 or 1:3. Thats'a going to be a realy awakrd gap for the guys because some of them aren't great friends with the others, but I still want to invite the guys. Should I add at the bottom of the invitation, "Invite some of your guy friends, or it will be uneven numbers, but tell me whose coming."?
thats a good idea, or just invite the guys your friends with and then invite some of their friends too. it might be akward if you dont talk to some of there friends but you could always have your guy friends give them the invititation. hope i helped
Ok, its not that urgent, but I just wanted to ask, ok, I am one of those people who think that dreams are sometimes like, a sighn, or a prediction. Well, latley I have had dreams about my ex-friend. She was nice at first, then she turned into a total brat, and now we hate each other. Anyways, about the dreams, one of them we became like, best friends again, another I called her and tried to appolagize and become friends again, and another she was at my best friends house. I dont know what this means! Please help me out!
you probably just miss being friends with her. its hard to stop being friends with your best friend. im going through it right now. but yeah you probably just miss her..
OK, so I have this friend Jassy. And she is making a huge mistake. She met a guy over the internet and started dating him. He, of course, lives on the other side of the country. And, being the idiot she has always been, is meeting with him over the summer. Now, if you are willing to travel 3,000 miles across country like he is, you are not 14 like he says he is.
Therefore, my friend, Jessica, and I are trying to convince her not to meet him. Jassy thinks she's safe and can trust him but she can't. Jessica felt the same about her neighbor and he molested her. Her neighbor is someone she's always known. Imagine what someone my friend doesn;t even know could do to her. Jassy keeps saying it can't happen to her. She's just being so ignorant!! What should I do? She can get extremely hurt. Sorry this is long, but my friend is putting herself in danger!
definitly be there for her. no matter what. if you are to scared to talk to her parents then tell your parents and they will for sure do something about it. a good way to get them to stop talking to to block him from her buddylist and delete his screen name when she isnt around. make sure you delete it though because she could scoll down to see who is offline and see he is blocked. if none of that works then in the summer find out when they are supposed to meet and be prepared like having yours and her family around without her knowing incase something happens. he definitly isnt a 14 year old if he is going to travel that far. hope everything is okay and works out. what ever you do just stick by her side as much as you can.
okay so i have been working at this job for 2 years now and one of my managers became like my best friend we talked about everything and hung out all the time, and all of a sudden she started being so mean to me and actually made me cry! she wont help me get days off that i need and she talks behind my back well now i have another job but really need both jobs for the money what should i do thatis reasonable should i ignore it because that always is harder to do!! HELP
I would try talking to her calmly about it. like nothing mean or argueing or anything because you don't want to lose your job or friend. try to look at little things though. like maybe ask around seeing if like her personal life has something wrong or family or something. but if i were you i would just keep being nice to her and try to talk to her to see what is up. hope i helped
oakyy whats better tell me in your own expernice what is better reading the note or give it to the guy? Because the guy that iam going to see in a couple of weeks i wrote him a letter and i like him and we have known eother long enough so . So i was wondering maybe you can give me ideas what should i do because first of all the place we are going to be at is going to be alot of people there and plus i don't know should i read it or not because i don't want other people hearing it you know? So i want ideas how do it so i won't have to feel like an idot. If you mind giving your ideas or thinking that would be great..Thanks for your help!!
Lauren
hah well i have a few ideas:
1. just forget the note. i dont think you shoud like read it from the paper or give it to him. you can just tell him whenever you guys are going whenever your alone, just whatever comes to mind from the heart
OK so, right before Christmas my freind broke up wtih her boyfreiend. They had only been seeing eachother for 2 weeks. She then told me sometimes in January that if me or any of my freinds went out with him she would be mad. Well, we aren't really freinds and more and over the weekend I kissed her ex. I don't know if I should tell her or just keep it to myself. Like, if someone else told her would it be worse? I like him and have liked him since January.
personally i wouldnt tell her.. and if she does find out just tell her that you like him and that them two are over and she needs to move on.. wel of course in a nice way hah so theres not to much to worry about. but if she has a problem its just jealiousy.. she'll get over it, yeah your supposed to stay true to your friends but you cant let a boy come between you guys and if thats the case then its not a true friendship. but go for the guy. im sure shes not going to get to mad over something little like that. good luck.. hope i helped
There is this boy who I have had a crush on for like 5-6 years. One night I found out he had a 'thing' for me and I was so surprised that well I thought it would last forever but then it faded so distant and now he barely talks to me. He never texts me back, never ims me, never calls me...he completely forgets I'm alive. My friends who knows him as we went to the same schools, tell me to move on and just live life, with or without a guy. I've been trying but every friday wen he's online I feel so sick to my stomach because I have no idea what's wrong with me; do i have a sign on my head, did i hurt him, what did i do?
Last night though he talked to me...just a few words and somehow I think it's because my friend asked him why he's not talking to me. HE just said hi, how are you and how was your day. And wen I asked y he was talking to me he completely ignored my question. He was like a brother to me, he used to help me with homework, we used to talk for hours on the internet and wen he called me I would sneek outside to talk to him. One night he called me 11 with his friend and talked for 40 minutes and it was amazing how I made my grandma think it was my 'girl' friend! It's really botherin me...does ne one (girls or guys) know why he's ignoring me all of a sudden?
it could be because he might only think of you as a friend for now and doesnt want to give you any mixed signals like most guys do.. just try your hardest to keep in touch with him. if you need something to talk about online just randomly IM him saying something weird then be like opps sry wrong IM then start talking or maybe ask him to help you with homework and once you feel like you guys are talking more just go for a walk with him and tell him how it hurts that you guys dont talk no more =] hope it all goes well