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Name: Josh
Birthday: December 16th
Sign: Sagitarius
Grade: 12th (Senior)
Nationalty: Lebanese
Hair Color: Black
Eye Color: Varies (depending on what I wear)
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Favorite Color: Blue
Favorite Drink: Starbucks Hazenut Latte
Favorite Food: Lebanese Food!!! And mom's homecooked meals
I am junior in highschool at a small private school in NY. I am involved with many extra-ciricular activites at my school such as Mock Trial, Model UN, The Enviro-thon, Ecology Club, NCCJ, and I do alot of volunteering around my area. I have been told by friends many times before that I am a good listener / adivce giver and I have decided with the persuasion of a friend to try my talents out. Looking to answer your questions, and maybe to meet some new people.
Can't reach me here? Or do you have a private question? Feel free to IM me on AIM at AskTrevorWolf.
Gender: Male
Location: New York
Occupation: Entrepenuer
Age: 15
AIM: AskTrevorWolf
Member Since: October 4, 2004
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How do I stop this girl who is meant to be my friend to stop annoying me? She knows I can take so is she trying to get some kind of reaction out of me? (link)
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Most likely she is looking for attention. People tend to annoy other people and get attached to them when they don't get enough attention at home or by other friends, or when someone does not have a huge social group. I would not try to avoid her, because things will just get worse. I would explain to her what is going on in a nice way. Saying "your a cool person, but things for me have been hectic, and I just need some space." or something similar. Or another thing is trying to find her some people that are like her, or would like her to hang out with. Any more questions or wanna talk about it, IM me. My SN is in my column. Hope I helped! Rate!
Sincerely,
-TW
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I am so sexually confused! One second I'm bi and another I'm
gay! I am 14yr.s old a freshmen, confused on what my sexuality is. People says I'm gay, but I still think girls are cute, but I would
rather go with a boy. So what am I!?! Need answers... (link)
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No one is 100% straight, but then again people are not 100% gay...well the could be. But anyway, just go with what you really feel, this includes finding out what gender you like to do sexual things with more. Just because you think girls are cute, doesn't mean you couldnt be gay, or it could. Its really hard to say since you really have to go by person to person. Each person is different. But don't stress...your 14 years old, most people who are questioning dont know until years to come. Jus Chill, and it'll come to you sooner or later. Hope I helped, leave anything else you need in the inbox.
-Trevor-Wolf
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Hey, I have this friend and well shes obsessed with Ireland. And she also looks Irish, which adds to the obsession. Well she met this guy on an irish-penpal thing and they email and write to eachother. I read one of his letters and he calls her like "Princes Jenny" and all that good stuff. Well, shes going to Ireland and its not just because of the guy. Shes always wanted to go but shes gonna meet him there. Shes 16, hes 21..and I'm kinda worried..I joke around saying "If you get raped, I'll kill you" But I really dont think meeting this guy is a good idea. Should I tell her something or is it not my buisness? Thanks~ (link)
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No definitely say something and tell her how you feel. Meeting someone that you meet online is a very dangerous thing. They could be an unknown indentity, and someone completely different from who they say they are. There is a huge risk of your friend getting into trouble or a huge risk of being abducted, raped, etc. Not to make you feel scared. But please do tell her how you feel...your her friend and only looking out for her. And plus it is illegal for her to be 16 and him "21". You never know with online people, or predators for that matter. Hope I helped. :-] Hit my inbox up if you got more questions.
-JTrevor
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This weekend im suppose to be going out with one of my friends to a different town around people i dont know and people she does know. How can I hang out with them and be cool w/o making a fool of myself. How do I meet knew people..i thhink im scared a little, but how do i overcome that? Does anyone have any ideas of how I can not be afraid? Maybe Im just scared people will hate me or something? Any Advice ? thanks!! (link)
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I think that you are just nervous that you are going out of town with your friend and staying or meeting some people you don't know at all and she knows so well. I can understand that you're a little tense, just as anyone would, of meeting new people when your staying with them! My best advice is to just act like you would around any of your friends, or when meeting a new person at school. Play it cool. Obviously you are wanted because you were invited and people don't care if you come visit with your friend. In a situation like this it is hard not to be scared and overcome your fear. Just play it cool, and I am sure that once you get talking to the people, you will feel better and more relaxed. If you need to prepare, do it with yourself by practicing how to act around them when you first meet them. If all else fails, just stay quiet if you are so afraid. Also, if you are persistantly afriad to meet new people and go into like a social group you may had Social Anxiety Disorder which is very common among people today. There are some drugs to treat it, but I would not at all reccommend going on any of them. Just play it cool, and loosen up. You may also want to ask your friend a little about the people and maybe how you think they'll like you, etc. I hope I helped. :)
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I have a friend...let's call her "Megan". Megan and I are pretty cool. We hang out at school, between classes and after school on occasions. I have no problem going places with her, spending the night at her place...stuff like that. We're pretty good friends. She just has this really annoying habit of always trying to ruin someone else's good time.
Like, in an argument, when she's wrong and you're right, she'll scramble for any possible reason to say you're still wrong. Or if something good happens to you, she'll always say something to make you feel terrible about it. I hope that makes sense. It bothers me a lot and I've tried telling her it's annoying, but she still does it.
I don't want to stop being friends with her. She's cool most of the time. This is just starting to get to me. Why can't she let anyone else have a little sunshine sometimes? :( (link)
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She is a control freak and some one who isn't very responsive to people having fun. This may be because of a number of things...she may not have the fun you have, she may have something bothering her inside, among many other things. The best solution I can think of is to sit down with her and have a chat. Tell her that you think she is a really cool person but is there something bothering her? Just tell her how you feel and be honest with her. The truth may hurt but it definitely helps in alot of my cases. Explain to her that you still want to be friends but that she is causing you to be depressed or not let you have any sunshine. Everyone deserves a little sunshine now or then right? Right. If all else fails then, really there is nothing you can do to change someone like that. Trust me, there are some people in the world that are just made the way they are without any remorse and not willing to change. I hope that I was just of a little help. :)
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