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Q: ok, well my friend got raped by her dad and is abused. I dont know if he does it alot, or if he did it just once, but still, my friend is in deep shit if she dosent tell anyone. Fortunatly she told me cause we're really close, but she didnt tell the social worker *she was adopted* cause she said she dosent want her world to turn upside down and change. She told me to keep it as a secret and when she told me i was half asleep *i'm awake now* so i promised i wouldnt tell anyone that could arrest him or anything. Should i tell my parents and make her suffer but have her world the way it is and how she wants it to be? or should i break my promise to my friend and tell my parents? Please help, it's a big problem! i'll rate high!
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You need to tell an adult- immediatly! Your friend will be very mad at you at first, but she will realize it is for the best. She is in a very unsafe environment being abused and raped... you definetly cant keep this inside you. You are just a kid and you should never have this stress inside you.. if something terrible were to happen to her you would feel awful for not going to an adult- who could have easily prevented it! Now go tell your parents- your friend is in danger and needs you to get her help.. she just hasnt realized it yet!!
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Q: i was hanging out..dating this guy for about 2 months & we had so much fun together hangin out & he was so sweet to me.. we talked about not getting serious and everything since he was going pretty far away for college.. then he went on vacation with his friends for a week and came back & i went to a party at his house and he barely talked to me.. and now he never calls me and we havent hung out for like a month..was he using me or what ?.. i dunno what to do i really miss him!! ..it freaking sucks!
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You should definetly call him and find out what the problem is! Maybe he wants somebody he can get serious with and then go off to college. Guys can be guys.. Whos idea was it to not get serious? Obviously one of you brought up the idea first, and if it was you, he could just want to get with someone else for a 'quickie'. You should definetly suggest hanging out.. and maybe talk to him about why he was ignoring you.. and why he never calls?
♥Maddie.. hope that helped!
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Q: all right, i'm going to this wedding today and i'm bringing my best guy friend and now i'm feeling nervous. see i have this huge family and i'm worried they will bug him or make him feel uncomfortable. i can't cancel because he seems to really want to go an i'm just worried my family will scare him away or something. what would you guys do in this situation? i already warned him but he just laughed and said he was sure it would be fine... but still i'm nervous. help?
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Stop worrying! Its you your best guy friend.. he likes you for who you are.. not for who your family is! Unless your family is REALLY crazy (ex. takes off clothes in public, eats shoes) you have nothing to worry about. Your best guy friend should like you for you, not because your family asked him one too many questions.. and besides you already explained the situation to him, and he just laughed it off. So, I'm sure you have nothing to worry about!
♥Maddie
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Q: i dont want to choose between my friends bc i love them both. i have 2 of the closest friends in the world. if i do something with one of them, the other one will get mad and say "oh well your leaving me out a lot and i feel left out" and all that and then i go over to the other one and hang out with her for like 12 minutes b4 the other one comes over and says "oh well your leaving me out a lot andi feel left out" so i do things like go to the movies with both of them and if i lean over and say something like "this movie is awesome" the other one will be like "YOUR LEAVING ME OUT AGAIN! WHAT ARE YOU SAYING TO HER?" so i talk loud so they both can hear me and boom...."DID YOU SAY SOMETHING TO HER THAT YOU DIDNT TELL ME?" and im like "NO!" so.....this goes on and on and on and on! im tired of it! I love them both to death but they are sooo annoying!!! I always do things with both of them at the same time and they just keep nagging me!! helpppp.
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I definetly know how you and your friends feel! I've been in both your position and your friend's position before and I know what you are all going through! Try inviting them both to a sleepover and talking with them. Tell them they shouldnt feel left out if you tell one of them something because it would never be about the other one, because you love them way to much. If they care about you, their friendship with you, and one another, they will understand that this nagging cannot go on! Good luck =D
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bio
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My name is Maddie. I love to play softball, and I work on my pitching everyday. I desire to play in college. Standing on the mound, your heart beating fast, stike 1, strike 2, strike 3. SHUT OUT =D Feel free to ask me questions ANYTIME and I will answer them to the best of my ability.
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E-mail: Gender: Female Location: California Occupation: Student Age: 14 AIM: MSN: wildthingssoftball@hotmail.com Member Since: June 16, 2005 Answers: 40 Last Update: February 8, 2006 Visitors: 5489
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