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I have this friends and I really like her like more than a friend. A couple of months after we became friends I asked her out but she thought that it would be better if we stayed friends. After that was said, we became much closer and im kinda getting signals. what should I do, I really like her?

Well what are ya waiting for..Go for it and see what happens!Dont let it pass you by if you really really like this girl :-)Good luck!

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Im a 16 year old girl im bi sexual and I have a g/f but I like this other girl she is a really good friend and thats all I want and she knows that, but the other day she was really mean to me we were hanging out thw whole day but then when we went on the bus her and my other good friend started making fun of me for no reason i was so nice to both of them the whole day and for some reason it really hurt, and for some reason i still like her! what should I do to let them know that they hurt me and get our friendship better?

Well Try talking to them about it ask them why they did what they did, and how they hurt your feelings and see what they say.If they continue to do it well then they are not worth being friends with and to find dif.friends!Hope that helps a lil bit and good luck!

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is it realli wrong to date your best friends ex boyfriend? cause this kid likes me..and i realli like him..but i have a feeling my best friend will get mad if i go out with him. cause she gets jealous even if i chill with him! please help soon cause i'm gonna chill with him tonite! i rate high!

Well i would talk to your friend about how your feeling and see how she feels about it and if she still has feelings for this guy.And if she does and doesnt like the idea of you being with her ex boyfriend then maybe you should just be friends with him because you dont want to let a guy come between you two!So just talk to your friend and she how she feels about it!Good luck and hope everything works out:-)

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My friend just told me today.. that she ALWAYS throws up after she eats. As much as I'd love to help her, I just dunno what to say. Cuz she might get mad. I don't want anything bad to happen to her. The past couple days shes been telling me that shes been haveing bad stomach pains and she feels sick ALL THE TIME. I wanna help her, I don't wanna make her mad and say the wrong thing though. Should I just forget about it, and let her live her life the way she wants it? What would you do? Please I need help.. =(

*amYy.. my AIM sn is NaInErZzZ

No you def.Dont want to forget about this.Your friend is hurting herself to the point where it can kill her.You need to talk to her and tell someone so she can get help whether she gets mad at you or not.Because if you dont do something your going to lose your friend by what shes doing to herself.This is a really serious problem and your friend needs some help.So dont even think twice about going to tell someone and quick before its too late for your friend.I hope ive helped because that is the right thing to do trust me.And if you need anything else let me know.Good luck with your friend.:-/

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This girl that I used to be friends with is spreading rumors about me. She is telling everyone I had sex with this guy I liked. The guy and I hooked up not long after the rumors started. He's three years older than me, so we didn't tell many people. We didn't wanna hafta deal with all their shit.

He and I didn't have sex until almost 2 months after these rumors were started. My best friend heard the rumors, and she was mad cause I didnt tell her I had sex for the first time. I didn't want her to know I did, so I told her they weren't true.

I want these rumors to stop cause its no one else's business if I had sex with him or not. I don't want to talk to this girl in person cause i already wanna beat her ass, and if i saw her, i know i would loose control and hit her.

Is there any other way to stop these rumors without talkin to her about it? And don't tell me to ignore them cause that never works. I have ignored them for almost 3 months, and im sick of it.

Please Help me!!

Well I def.know how you are feeling right now.The same thing happened to me a few years ago and it went on for like almost the whole school year.What i would do if i were you is whenever someone asks you about these rumors say its not true and this girl is just trying to stir up trouble.And she must not have anything better to do with her time then spread rumors about ppl:-).I know its really hard but you should act like it doesnt bother you what ppl think because it will just make this girl think that she is getting to you and if she sees that it is not getting to you then maybe she will stop.Because that worked for me.So i hope what i said helps.Good luck and i hope the rumors stop.:-)

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My BESTfriend.. Let's call her *Liza. She is anorexic, i didn't know this before.. i just thought she was super skinny. But she left her diary over my house, and i just read some of it. She's been anorexic for almost two years, it's crazy. She doesn't know that i know yet.. so i'm scared to try and help her! Do you have any ideas on how i can tell her that i know and try to get her to stop. Cause i'm soo scared that something bad is gonna happen to her, Please, pretty please.. someone help me. Thank you so much, sorry it's so long.

Signed,
Very Scared!

You def need to say something to her or tell someone even if she gets mad about it.Because this will soon hurt her seriously and you will be helping her out in the long run and it will be worth it.I Hope everything works out with your friend.Good luck and if you need anything else let me know!

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I am a 13 year old white girl (almost 14). I am intrested in this black kid. some of my friends are ok with it but one of my best friends think i shouldnt like him because he is black. he is one of the nicest and sweetest people i know. i just dont understand why she cant see him for an amazing person and not just him being black. What can i do to get through to her?

Well i think you should go for it if its really what you want.Your friend is wrong about the whole not being with him because hes black.Because color shouldnt matter!If your friend is a true friend than she should understand,Listen to what you have to say about this guy and support you on whatever decisions you make.So good luck and if you need anything else let me know!
:-) ~*Nicole*~

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