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Q: There's this girl that me n my friends can't stand that hang out with us her names Kaytee! Well she was sitting with us at lunch one day, and my friend Lisa came over and sat with me and then left, and Kaytee then said, I was shaking because she was around, there was a rumor that Lisa was a lesbian, but she's my best friend, and I know her more then anyone and she ISN'T! Kaytee is totally against gay people, and all the people of whom I hang out with are don't mind if someone's gay! She assumes from rumors that people are lesbian and homosexual, and then pretends that she's scared of them. Without being totally mean to Kaytee, but getting it across that some people that she thinks aren't gay. What can I tell her?
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Tell her its not a bigg deal! They still have the same personality and it won't change them dramaticaly! When I found out my best friend from 4th grade was gay no one really cared in fact she started a GSA(Gay Straight Alliance) at my school with my help and I found out that a lot of my friends are gay. Tell her that Lisa is not gay and she shouldn't believe everything people tell her.
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Q: so u might have remembered me bcuz i asked about the girl who i called "summer".
now she knows we all hate her and shes acting all innocent! and shes totally not and it really bugs me. shes mean and talks about everyone behind there back. and now shes all goody-goody bcuz we all hate her. i mean WHAT THE ****!! and today she goes "why does everyone hate me?" and i just shook my head and walked off. i mean is she really that stupid? please help!
i also rate *high*!
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I used to have a friend like that but now that most people hate her. We've been battling at each other cuz she's hella homophobic, and is always putting down my friends. If she talks about people then you should say it straight out "Back off mother ******* bitch" (excuse the language). ANYWAY,remember you always have to stay EQUAL OR ABOVE HER NEVERRRRR BELOW HER! understand, good.
FOREVER!
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Q: how do you know if a girl is lying to you like when you ask them out and they say something. How do you know if they are telling the truth or lying to make you feel better??
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They usually won't look at you when there telling a lie. Or they'll start acting nervous before durin or after they tell you one.
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Q: Okay, there's this girl who is supposed to be my friend. Well, let's say she doesn't act like it. She calls me "idiot", "fool", and a bunch of other names. She's also (according to the guy I used to like) asked the guy I liked out, and I trust the guy I liked because I've known him for a while. She knew that I liked him. She also tries to make me look stupid and bad, because we're on the same sports team, and she'll throw the ball in a weird way and I can't catch it, then she'll say "What an idiot!" or something like that. I'm sick of it. Should I just stop being friends with her, and if so, how?
Thank you so much in advance. I'm sorry it's so long.
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I think that if she's putting you down all the time she either hates you or she's jealous of you. But either way you shouldn't hangout with her because a good friend would pull you up not down.
FOREVER,
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Q: There's this one girl in my group of friends who moved into town after we all became friends and we sort of accepted her into the group. The thing is, she's always the subject of our joking and teasing, because sometimes she is really bossy and gives empty threats randomly every three seconds (like I borrow her pencil and she says, "Give me back my pencil or I'll punch you soo hard!" even though we all know she never will) sometimes I feel sorry for her, but she gets on my nerves a lot. What do I do?
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Like pink princess said. Even if other people tease her you shouldn't because that makes you worse than them. Besides maybe she feels that no one understands her. She might even start bullying peopl,e because of you guys so try not to do it as much. I used to have a friend like her annoying and all. But after a year I got to know her better and now she's my best friend. You never know she might become yours as well e-mail me at
eiriyukipicese@yahoo.com
FPREVER,
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Q: There is this girl named Rachel. When we first met, 5 years ago, I couldn't stand her. But I was her friend because my friends really liked her and wanted us all to get along. Well two years ago I mentioned something about not liking our principal (I have good reason too)and she just exploded at me. She started screaming, "Hannah! You don't need to judge people like that! Judgment is 1 of the 7 unforgivable sins. If you don't stop being evil your going to hell!" Well I got mad and yelled back that she was an idiot and some other stuff *cough*. Well that was two years ago and we resolved our issues, darn those stupid friends of mine, and tried to become friends again. Well now out of no where she has been bad mouthing me and my mother, shooting me hateful glares, make rude comments right in front of me, and declaring that my mother is unfit to teach. Its very annoying so I sent her an email telling her to just leave me alone and be done with it, but she won't stop! How can I make her leave me alone.
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Give her a taste of her own medicine. If she cares so much about sins then she must know she's breaking the basic ones. But since that was two years ago maybe you should try bad mouthing her. Sometimes its neccessary. But you should know she'll never leave you alone cuz that's how some people are and the only way is to always be either equal or above her. Don't let her trash you like that. You'll just get hurt worse and worse and the only thing to do before it gets worse iss to get back. Anyway e-mail me and tell me how it goes ok
eiriyukipicese@yahoo.com
FOREVER.
stephagy
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Q: Well, I have this HUGE problem. I started to be friends with 4 girls, named; Jess, Rachael, Chelsey, & Mary. Well, ever since I started hanging out with them, everyone's changed, and started to hate Mary, (supposebly they've hated her for a while, but they just never told her) Mary always cuts people down for no reason, at all! It really makes me mad, she'll pick on homosexuals and people who aren't PERFECT. But she isn't either. She'll say that all these popular guys like her, when she's not popular at all, and they wouldn't pay attention to her. Well, we got into a fight the other day because I was "ignoring" her all day. I seriously don't know what to do! When I'm around her it's always like I'm not paying enough attention to her. I'm her only friend, and it makes me mad, because I feel like I'm losing my 3 best friends, and I don't want that to happen. I don't want to be Mary's friend, but I just don't know how to break it off with her. Help? Please.
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This is a lot similar to a problem I had back in sixth grade! My best friend was friends with another girl. She was so mean putting other people down thinking everyone likes her. Now that we're both in eighth grade she and I are like enemies. She even said that I was jealous of her because she went out with a guy I used to like but it wasn't true and a lot of people new that. I suggest that you stop being friends with her. As long as your the nice one there's no need to worry. Don't worry about other people hating you because like you said people hate her as well. In order to break it to her, I think since your already ignoring her,you should probably keep ignoring her. If she asks you why then say " I'm tired of you putting other people down just because their not you, in fact your not perfect either. If you can't be true to others and not lie then you obviously can't accept who you are, instead of putting down oters just to make yourself feel better". At least thats what I would say. E-mail me at noriko_keyboard_goddess@yahoo.com and tell me how it goes. ok
FOREVER,
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I love helping people, I give pretty good advice at school whenever somebody asks me. I want to study fashion designing in paris then go to japan and study art. I hoping I'l finish my first book and get it published.I'm very athletic. I love Anime. Gravitation, chobits, espicially Spiral.
Um I'm always online, at least everyday checking all my e-mail, for anyone who wants to e-mail me and such. My favorite closing or quote is FOREVER!
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E-mail: Gender: Female Age: 14 Member Since: May 9, 2005 Answers: 29 Last Update: October 11, 2005 Visitors: 2979
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