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Alrighty so there's this guy that I like, and it just so happens that we're good friends. So we're hanging out tomorrow and I'm really happy, I finally feel like I might have a chance with a guy that I really like. But I'm also kind of nervous because I think it'll be just me and him... what if we run out things to talk about, like what can I say? Also, how can I hint to him that I like him, without being too pushy/annoying? I just don't want it to be weird if he doesn't like me in that way because even if nothing happens, I still wanna be friends with him. Help?
Honestly: ya'll are already friends so just gotta be open and real with him. Easy topics would be school, music and hobbies....but once you find somethign ya'll are both into stretch the convo out...
I'm not sure how to tell him, but honestly just be real with him, because guys don't do to well with reading between the lines. So be straight-forward....just try something like We've become really close lately and i think your a really cool guy...compliment him for a minute, and then say- and because of all that we've been through I wonder if you would ever want to be more then friends because I want to.....just be real and honest....
Tell him, that you still want be friends even if no "sparks" are happeneing or anything- I hope this helps....Good Luck
yesterday my best friend was really upset and she said she wanted to be left alone..should i do anything and if so what? i feel kinda bad just letting her be alone. help please?
the same thing happened to my guy friend. what should i do?
thanks soo much.
If a guy wants to be leaft alone...I suggest you give him some space, but in doing so let him know that you are there for him if and when he needs you.
As far as your other friend goes, don't try to push her into talking to you, tell her that you respect her and will give her space, but that you'll always be there for her saying everything will be okay! And never feel bad, every once in a while, people need there space...trust me. If you push to hard, you might start upsetting her even more.
Don't worry, once she gets her space/time; she'll be cool again. Everybody needs a break...its in our nature.
I hope this helps! Good Luck
Hello ,
I'm just wondering what do you think true love really is ?
Thank you ,
Betty.
I always saw true love as somebody loving you for you! Not carign about all your stupid habits like smacking gum or the fact that you talk too loud. True love is someone accepting you and never trying to change you. Someone wanting to hold you or just be close, it doesnt always have to be about sex. True love is someone who values you so much that they dont even care if you dont have sex. Someone who will treat you with repesct and dignity...will do little sweet things for you, not because its your birthday but because they love you. One of the biggest things is when they put you before themselves....like your all that matter sand they will protect you with every breath in theit body. True love is many different things to many different people. However, this is only a few things that I invision abotu true love. i hope this helps!
hey evry1
well mi bff is coming over soon 4 a sleep over and i dont know what kinds of things to do.sometimes its reelie boring wen she comes bcuz we have nothing to do
plz help!
*I rate very high*
Well...everybody likes different things but everybody like movies. So maybe you could go to blockbuster and rent funny movies and eat popcorn. You can prank call guys at your school. You can do crazy stuff like karoke and put it on youtube. You can sing and dance and play truth or dare. I hope this helps! Good Luck
i have an old boyfriend does he probably still like me if i enter a room i seem watching me but when i notice he looks down real fast but if i say hi he won't look at me. I want to be friends at least or at least talk to him...
Communication is the answer to all relationship problems. You might not always get the anser you want but you WILL get a answer. I would try telling this guy what you told me, tell him that you want to be friends again and see where it goes from there. If hes shy or a little nervous about than maybe he just needs more time or hes not quite over you yet. I hope this helps! Good Luck.
ok you on chat. you just say hey..
and a freind be like no i am busy..
so no i don't borther to much. i just hey and all pretty much it. and i know a true freind would say hey sorry i can't talk right now becouse i got tones to do or maybe oh i wish we can chat but i am so busy.. i will talk to you later.
well thought i see if i got my ponit
Maybe your friend was having a bad day or something, somtimes I snap on my friends but I still love them and all...I was just haveing a bad day or upset abt soemthing. Maybe the same is happening with your friend. Don't feel too bad about and if its really bothering talk to your friend abotu it. If they listen and our open and say sorry then their your true friend....if they blow it off and are still rude then maybe they realy are fake! I hoep this helps! Good Luck
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in school eevryone tells me i am really pretty and boys always want to hook up with me. my bestfriend says shes really uglly. since the begining of the school year she asked 3 boys out and they all rejected her becase they say shes too ugly. i tried helping her like to boost up her confidence but she has low self asteem and i dont know what to do anymore. like i keep telling her shes pretty and she says she isnt. so my question is how to i boost her confidence or make her prettier. shes a tomboy and she acts kind of manly i really get sad when she tells me shes ugly but i dont know what to do, please help!?
thnanks in advance!!
Hey. I can totally relate to your friend because I am JUST like her. I am a tomboy too and my friend try to dress me up and change me into a certain image and while they're trying to help. I hate it, because it makes me feel like I'm not good enough sometimes. So I don't really think you should try to transform her into a girlie girl or change her style...now you can try to give friendly advice but try not too be too critical. Also just recently I was rejected my a guy I like and it sucks...but I son't think that she needs to be told all the time that shes pretty....sometimes people just want their friends to listen. In other words, maybe she feels she has to try to convince herself that shes ugly...that way when it happens she wont be so upset because she convinced herself shes ugly. Now I dnt know if this made ANY sense, but I hope it helps. Also, maybe you could just talk to her by saying that beauty is in the eye of the beholder and that beauty isn't a skinny little model on TV....remind her that all shades, colors, and shaped of people make them pretty. maybe even try telling her she isnt pretty...shes BEAUTIFUL for the way she treats her friends and family. For the grades she makes for her accomplishments....I hope this helps though! Good Luck!
what are yalls favorite friendship songs. like i moved about two years ago from louisiana and i wanted to make a cd of friendship songs for my best friend in louisiana. like to say that we will always be best friends. help would be great. and fast if possible. thanks in advance. bye
A few songs I have heard of and liked are...
1.Anytime You Need a Friend by Mariah Carey
2. because You Loved Me by Celine Dion
3. Waiting to Exhale by Whitney Houston
4. You gotta a Friend In Me from Toy Story
5. For You I Will by Monica
6. Good bye My Friend by Spice Girls
7. I'll Be There For You from Friends (theme tune)
8. I'll Be There by Mariah Carey
9. Wind beneath my wings by Bette Midler
10. I Turn to You by Christina Aguilera
11. Time after time
i hope these help! Good Luck
alright, there's this guy named Drew. we're not incredibly close, but he sits next to me in science and is in a couple of my classes, so we're friendly with eachother. so today we had to get colored pencils in english, and they were all on his desk so i walked over there, grabbed a box and walked away. well he like smiled at me and then like got a "serious" look and grabbed the colored pencils and was like, "what do you think your doing? put that back!!!" it was weird though, was he like trying to flirt? (he flirts with alot of girls) or just joking around? or like something else? lol thanks.
He was probably just flirting with you and might have wanted you to flirt with him back by saying something back to him...he probably just wanted to joke around with you and stuff
I think you should flirt with him back, flirting is pretty simple and non-pressured way to have fun so I say go for it!
Hope this helped! Good Luck!!!
So I have this friend. And shes the most popular in our "group". Shes really funny and popular and she knows it. What do I do about this?
Also, she used to be my best friend. But lately shes been hanging out with this other girl. All three of us hang out together sometimes. But theyre kind of mean to me, just in a teasing kind of way. They say I always have these "blonde moments" and they gave me a nickname for it. Anyway, how do I get them to stop teasing me, how do I get closer to Heather, and how do I make her stop thinking that shes the shit? Thanks so much.
Unbelieveable!!! I am facing the same situation. So, being in that same situation I advise not to be too hard on the new girl becasue maybe she doesn't realize how she's acting. You should talk to all the girls at the same time explaining how you don't like their jokes and you think they are kinda harsh sometimes, tell them you don't really appreciate your new nickname and would like them to leave you alone. And the girl who think she's all that...well tell her you don't like how shes been acting and he recent attitude... and you can become closer to Heather by hanging out with her more often, like talking on the phone alot and goign to see movies...just ya'll though, not the whole group! Ya'll will be close in no time!
I hope this helps! Good Luck
i seem to only attract people who end up using me. the worst part is, i just want them to like me, so i let them. and i end up feeling really shitty. what can i do to tell these people to stop?
I've been in this situation before, time and time, again. Although its hard, the best thing I can recommend is to stop it next time before it starts. Try starting to socialize with new people and make new friends....true friends are going to like you for who you are. When you realize that you are being taken advantage of talk to the people and tell them how you feel. I hope this helps! Good Luck
ok i have this good friend whos depressed sad but she always says "shes fine" and act normal around everyone and i know that shes not okay even though she denies that shes sad. but she pretty much admit it when we talk online.but she doesnt know why she cant cry even though shes really sad what do you guys think the she cant cry? and what do you think she should do? and how to release your tears? thank you so much and im sorry because of my english is bad im from japan
If your friend is depressed, SHE NEEDS PROFESSIONAL HELP. It is important that you tell someone like a trusted adult or parent whats going on, although she claims to be okat at times, is she suicidal?
Some psychologists( i took a class on this) believe that depressed teenagers, the more depressed they are, have a harder time crying, because of the depression. Some teens who have been suffereing from depression for a long time might not be able to cry anymore, because they have become use to their status. I really hope this helps, but if you have any more questions you can write me back. Good Luck!