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My names Marissa. I have gone threw a lot in my life.So im pretty good at giving advice from my experince.I always try to answer to the best i can.So if u got a question dont be shy ask away and i will get to yuh as soon as i can.


~Marissa

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all of my best friends have boyfriends and theyre always so busy with them that i get left out of everything. theyve stopped being such good friends we dont really talk much and when i do they dont listen. its really stressful and i dunno im not jealous of them im happy they have someone but shouldnt they still care about me? they dont know what its like to be in my situation and when i try to explain it to them they just shut me out. what do i do?

Normally everyone in a relation ship goes threw the faze of only wanting time with there significant other. Just try to talk to them and if they try to shut you out don't let them, have them hear you out on how your feeling about all of this.

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How do you tell your best friend you're moving?

that's hard to do I know, just take her out somewhere to hang out and tell her then

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what happens when you run outta answers, and you dont know what to do anymore? what happens when your not happy with yourself and your lost and confused? what happens when you think your fat and everyone else tells you your wrong? what happens when you lose your bestfriend because shes just not the same anymore? what happens when you life falls apart?

I would love to help you truly but I am woundering the exact same thing. Try opening up with a friend tell them how your feeling/wondering and maybe they can talk it all out with you and you'll understand all your questions.

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last night I was at the movies with my boyfriend and we were making out. Then after that I noticed that he had his arm diagnal across *down there*...does that mean he had a boner and was trying to hide it?? lol thanks for the advice!!

lol he may have had a boner,or may of just laid his arm down there.

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I have a friend named Bailey. One day she did a prank phone call to me with a bunch of her friends. And it got me real upset because I thought she was my friend. So the next day she called me and asked if she wanted to hang out with me. And she sounded like nothing happend with the prank phone call. And I said, I thought you were mad at me, and she said never! And I asked her why did you prank me? And she said.. it's only a prank, and she hung up. What should I do?


-x Lauren x-

Well i think if you still wan't to be friend's with her call her and talk this out.Normally talking thing's out work the best.If you don't,then don't let it bother you.Prank phone call's arn't bad though hun,there just something people do when there bored.Trust me i've done them and my friend's have dont them to me.But if it was something mean about you I'd just talk to her about it. Hope i helped

!SilentTears!

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I know a girl, who i played soccer with and who was in 1st period with all year during school, and it seems like we have a lot in common. The only problem is that she is a senior, and i am a freshman. I've always been nice to her, being that she is an upperclassman, and she has always been nice to me. I think we could be really good friends, but i feel like something is holding both of us back. Could it be because of the age difference? If anyone wants to know more to answer the question better, comment me back.

Yes,It may be the age differnce other than that im not really sure,unless she's not feeling this friend ship thing the same way you are.But,maybe you should ask her about it or try to hang out with her.

~SilentTears

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I have a friend.. lets call her... loogie. Well loogie and I have been best friends for 3 years. I love her to death! (as a friend.. duh) but she is just kinda annoying!! I mean my friend and me had plans to go to the movies. Well the night before I asked loogie to spend the night. I called the person I was going to the movies with to make sure it was still happening or whatever.. MY FRIEND GOT SO MAD AT ME!! because she wasnt invited. I mean I cant spend all my time with her! Shes not my ONLY friend!! What do I do to tell her I have other friends and she doesnt have a hold on me?

I would be straight up with her and not lie.Just tell her something like we dont have to be with each other 24/7 you know girl your not my only friend..and remind her your not trying to be rude or anything.that way she dosnt get even more mad at you then before or something because you didnt invite her.hope i helped!!

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My best friend dated my ex. It was a tough thing for me to see.They are totally over and you would think everything is fine. Wrong. I still like him. At least I think I still like him. I even have a boyfriend who I love very much. But then I read a note from my ex that was about me that was to my best friend when they were together, and now I feel sad. He liked her a lot. And I feel like a bitch. I need to know what is going on! HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!

i think u might be seeing signals that you still like him.im not completly for sure but it seems like you are having them because if it was tough to see them together.Even though u have a boyfriend and love him very much you still may have feelings for your ex.I've seen this happen with many people and this could be the case happening with you.

Hmm well i did my best hope i helped you.

-SilentTears

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i went to a club saturday and like there was this guy there that i knew lets call him joey well his nefu my ex wesley he went to and he dumped this girl lets call her corey he did it at the club to and so joey told me to go talk to her and she was in the bathroom so i went in my friend holly followed me and i told her joey told me to come in her to talk to that girl the girl started screaming at me and then she had an asma attack and i just cant forget about it because she was so angry at me plz help

ok well if your thinking this was your fault i truly don't think it was,maybe talk to *Joey* or maybe talk to ur ex wesley about it and try to get this situated it can be very easy thing to get off your mind. maybe not forget forever but get off your mind maybe hang out with your best friend at the mall or something.do something fun with a friend or your friend and try to forget about at the time and not even talk about that subject or think about it. hope i helped


~Marissa

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I was hanging out with a group of my friends the other day after school. We were just hanging out having a good time and one of my friends pulls out a joint and lights it. She started passing it around our group of friends and everyone took a puff of it but me. I basically just stood there confused. These innocent girls that I had known since I was 6 years old had just lit up a joint and smoked it. I am completely disgusted by drugs and drinking and I will never do it because it's the worst thing you can do to yourself. They started making fun of me that I wouldn't smoke it. I wasn't hurt that they were making fun of me, but I was just hurt at their stupidity for smoking it. I don't know what to do. They've been my friends for a very long time and have always been loyal to me, but this is something I can't handle. What should I do? Should I tell them they should stop? I'm so confused! Please help.

1st i would like to say good job on not breaking down on peer preasure, ok now to your question.I think you should try talking to them about this and getting them to stop.But if they dont listen then you can try getting help some other way, or try hanging with a new crowd of people, and try something new and hope they arn't like your old friend's, but if they listen to you that would be great and you wouldnt be comfussed anymore

!!I wish you luck!!

**~Silent Tears~**

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