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Bassically I joined advicenators to help people. My names Sheridan♥. Most of my friends call me Sherri though. I have a boyfriend who I love very much♥ We just recently got back together again =]. So, feel free to ask about ANYTHING and I'll do my best to try and help you
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I cant stop thinking about my ex boyfriend we went out for about a month, and weve been friends since the beginning of the school year.. when he broke up with me I asked him why he said that he broke up with me because his friend likes me but then i was walkin with him in the hallway and his loserr friend came up to me and was like get over it he broke up with you and you know wat he never liked you in the first place and then i asked him if that was true and he said yes.... but he still talks to me and stuff and of course im not mad at him because were friends and we have been friends since the beginnin of the year, but for some crazy reason i keep wondering why he pretended to like me and why didnt he just tell me he never liked me instead of making me look retarded in front of everyone.. sry this was kind of long, please help
maybe he did like you alot and was just afraid to admit to his friends that he likes someone. there are alot of reasons that he could have said that. Guys are confusing and i reallt don`t know what to tell you with this. Maybe he thought that being that close of friends would ruin things if you got to close. or he just thought that you were only friends and didnt realize it till it was to late.
sorry if this wasnt much help but as long as your friends now.. i wouldnt let it keep bothering you
Okey, here's the thing. I can't sing.
No really, not that I don't sing GOOD, it's just that I sing...really bad. Like, really.
It sounds awful. Not that I think anyone would make fun of me..but still, I need to ask this question.
I've always been the shy quiete girl. And I don't want to be anymore. I want to be seen as a happy & loud person! So my class is doing this kareoke thing, and I want to be happy 6 up for anything 6 justa fun loving girl..but I can't sing!
So is there any fun or cool way of saying no to singing in front of the class? If I just say no everyones going to be all "c'mon, don't be like that.." not that they're gonna pressure me, but I'm going to feel like the boring girl who doesn't know how to have fun.
So can I say it in a fun way and turn this to my advantage?
Or atleast in a cool way so people will keep talking to me,. or atleats find me interesting??
Thank you.
well it sounds like fun.. make it into something fun
like.. if you choke up rase your hands and tell everyone to sing along with you.. or have one of your friends go up with you so your not alone
heyy!! i'm thirteen years old and i have never drinken in my life. ive only made out once with a complete jerk. usually i hang out with kids that do drink, and go wayyy farther than making out. They always hang out with boys, and im scared that one day i will be there when they drink. i know better than to drink, but what do i say to them?? they are good friends and i still want to be their friends. what should i do??
Just tell them no thanks. You don`t have to drink and if there good friends they`ll accept the fact that you don`t want any. If they know that you don`t drink then they most likely won`t ask you. If they don`t like that you don`t drink they aren`t your real friends. I don`t drink either and when my friends ask me i say no and its still fine. Just don`t get upset and act all mopey or anything when they start drinking. Act normal cus then they might think your boring. Have a good time without the drink =]
♥ _ ` S h e r i d a n
__hope i helped
k well i have a friend who gets sooooo annoyingg. i am her best friend, but she isnt mine-that sounds mean. but she alwaysssss wants me to do stuff with her, and when i say i have other plans she gets soooo jealous. i want to be her friend, but i dont know how to tell her that she needs to stop. and pleaseeee dont say just talk to her. its more complicated than that :(
please help me
Well I`m n0t g0ing t0 say JUST talk t0 her. But y0u d0 need t0 talk t0 her. If she wants t0 d0 stuff with y0u maybe y0u sh0uld make plans with her s0 that she d0esn`t keep asking. 0ne time w0uldn`t hurt. And just because shes n0t y0ur best friend d0esn`t mean y0u cant hang 0ut with her. and wh0 kn0ws she might n0t be that bad.
thanks so much!!
you really helped me and my friend
we haven't talked yet but I feel a lot closer to her somehow.
but anyways, thanks :)
your welcome =] im glad i could help
i hav this frend who thinks shez betta than evry1 else shes constantly talking about herself and nevr cares bout what any1 else haz 2 say shez obsessed wit boys and im sick of her ways. i want to stil b frendz but shes just too much and im getting REALLY sik of her. pleez help thanx
Let her cool off for a while. Show her that she's not better then everyone else and when she starts to talk about herself change the topic. Talk to her and tell her that people are getting annoyed including you. Try to do it in the nicest possible way because she might get ticked off from the way shes been acting. Or you could try ignoring her untill she gets the point. But i highly just suggest talking to her
♥_Sheridan
*****I RATE HIGH*****
Hello,
I am a 13 year old girl. I have a Best Friend of 8 years. I love her to death, but she gets mad at me for no reason sometimes. She'll get mad at me, and make me upset in the beginning of the day, and then will talk to other girls about me during the day, then the next morning will act like she didnt do anything to me. Although I am soo hurt inside, and I feel like crumbling up and dieing. She does this constantly. I always try to tell her how I feel about all this but she always yells at me and gets more angry at me. She doesn't know how to except my feelings. She always talks about herself too. Every word from her mouth is about HER HER HER! Everytime I bring something about me, and my life, she immediately changes the subject.
How can I fix this problem, without loosing one of my BEST FRIENDS?
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sam
This really isn't a fixable problem. You said that shes 8 years? well thats just how 8 year olds are. my sister just turned 9 and my brother just turned 8. 8 year olds need everything to be about them. She doesnt mean to hurt your feelings she doesnt know she is. You have your friends and 5 years is an age difference.. she might think that if your hangin out with all your older friends she doesnt have as much attention from you as from when you were both yonger so she does anything she can to get your attention. She'll grow out of it sooner or later its just a phase most 8 year olds go through.. you most likely did the same thing =]
♥_Sheridan
Hey coudl you help? my friends are always talking about parties and drinking and i feel kind of let out.. its making me almost want to start drinking. like i will fit in better. i know its like peer pressure but i dont know what to do anymore. I always feel like im being left out of something. And like almost all the friends i hang out with drink, and the ones i dont hang out with dont. Also they are always sorta -making fun of me. They say," OMG! can you picture her ( her meaning me ) at the party last night! and laugh.. i want to prove them wrong that i can do the stuff they do.. but im just not sure if i want to start drinking :(
If you dont want to drink you shouldnt have to. It seems as though your hanging out with the wrong people. You shouldnt have to drink or smoke or anything just to impress them. You could go to the partys and just choose not to drink that way you wont feel as left out and if people pressure you about it just tell them no and call someone to come get you. You could also talk to your friends about it. If they were really your friends they wouldnt care wether you drank or not.
I hope I've helped at least a little =]
♥_Sheridan
ok well i have this friend and i feel like she kind of uses me. like I'm always giving her rides and money and she never offers me anything. also, lately she's been really boy crazy and thats like all shell talk about.
I feel that there should be more to our friendship than just boys.
should I stay friends with her, should I talk to her about this?
What should I do?
HELP!
DON'T not be friends with her! Talk to her about how you feel about it and that its bothering you. Never let a boy come between your friendship. I don't think shes intending to use you. maybe you should ask her for rides or to borrow money or anything else you would like to borrow. The boy crazy thing is also just a phase. She'll get over it soon and you'll get your friend back =]. Make sure to talk to her though. if she doesnt know how you feel then she'll never know not to. she probably thinks you like talkin to boys. If you need anymore help im here to talk to =]
I hope I helped
♥_Sheridan
one friend(1) said i shouldnt talk to another one of my friends(2). and so i didnt talk to friend(2) and now friend(1) is talking to them again. and now its akward talking to friend (2). what should i do?
from: NONAME
You should probably talk to friends. It may be akward talking to friend (2) but talking to them more will make things better. Try not to hang out with both of them at the same for a while because that might make things weird for you. If friend (1) tells you not to talk to friend(2) again I wouldn't listen. If there really your friend you should be able to talk to whoever you want even if there in a fight with that person. Don't get in the middle of things and when they decide to have a conflict again it might be best to just ignor there fight and when ever one brings up the topic of what side your on or to not talk to the other friend change the subjec.