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I am still In love with my ex-bf and my friend is going out with him, but i don't want to ruin them because then I will feel bad I am best friends with my ex his name is james. but my friend told me i make her feel werid when i am hanging out with him and all our friends which include her. How do i stop making her feel this way? (link)
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well your friend needs to understand that the two of you are friends and that you are not going stop being friends with people because it makes her feel weird. You should explain this too her and tell her that you too, feel uncomfortable.
good luck!
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we'll call her leslie...we used to be best friends, until this year, i made a ton of new friends(being involved in a lot of stuff helps) and well she doesnt get involved in anything, and she complains about people all the time and talks trash about people, and is obsessed with really retarded things, like TPing is like her favorite thing and she keeps asking me to go TPing or spray painting with her, and well shes kinda childish...we're both 16 but im the only one who has the liscense and if we hang out i always have to drive and gas is really expensive, and overall shes just really annoying. how should i let her know that we're not really best friends anymore? (link)
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Try telling her this. Don't be mean though. Just tell her that you think that stuff is kind off childish and you get offended when she trash talks people. You could also try just drifting from her. Don't make an effort to be nice to her. Let her see that it's over with out just breaking it to her. Good luck!
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Hummm, Soo for the soccer team we have to buy gifts for people and it is supposed to be secret...Hints the name Secret Santa..The girl that I picked is really stuck up and I know absolutely nothing about her.. What should I get her. (link)
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try a mall gift certificate. soccer ball necklace, nice soccer ball, gift certificate to a sporting goods store.
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ok.. so this boy ive been really good friends with since 5th grade asked me out at this place we have in our town the teen center to hang out..i told him i'd think about it..but im afraid if i say no he wont be my friend anymore but i dont wanna say yes cuz hes not that cute.. i dont want ppl to make fun of me cuz he is ugly but hes reealy sweet& nice.. what should i do? (link)
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k first of all u shudnt judge ppl by how they look just cuz ur insecure that ppl will make fun of u. go with him as a friend but not as a gf. tell him that the reason u dont wanna be his gf is cuz u dont want it to affect ur relationship
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one of my good friends told on me and my other friends for drinking and smoking weed to her mom, even though she was there and did it too. now i am in big trouble and its because she told on us! how do i confront her about it? (link)
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well first of all did she admit she was doin it cuz thats different.
If she did: well then in long run ull thank her. Do u no how many ppl die from drugs and alchoal? My uncle died from a freakin drunk driver and my friends cuzin died from a drug overdose. U dont wanna get involved with that type of stuff and she right to tell on u all, including herself
If she didn't: well thats plain wrong. Anyone who tells on sumone for sumthin they did isnt worth ur time. U can confront her by just askin y did u do that? and my guess is shell probaly say ull thank me l8er. That when u say no ill thank u when u admit that u did it too. Then u give her the cold shoulder (w/out bein mean) untill she admits that she did it too. w/e u do do not tell on her. good luck and dont do drugs
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My question is I have known this guy for almost fifteen years. We have known each other since the third grade and the whole time I have known him I have liked him more then just a friend. We used to be good friends but in eighth grade he asked me if I wanted to have sex with him and when he asked me I didn't say anything. But after that day we weren't good of friends like we were before because I didn't know how to act around him. But in high school I noticed that he still likes me because I use to catch him looking at me and smiling and sometimes we would smile when ever we looked at each other because we always had a class together through high school. When we graduated he wrote something really nice but the thing is I don't know if he is the type of guy to write the same thing in every girls yearbook or if he just did it in mine. But to this day I don't know if he wants to be more then friends or not. But I found out that he hoined the army and I am thinking of writing him a letter but I am not sure because we haven't keep in touch in almost four years so what should I do. (link)
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I think you should write to him. You are probably both waiting for the other to contact u. Tell him how you feel and wish him luck in the army. Good luck.
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lately my best friend has seemed kind of unfriendly 2 me... she'll talk 2 me still but still seem kinda bored and like she has other things 2 do... i dont get it... i know i should talk 2 her but thats easier said then done... AdViCe?!?!?! (link)
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I was in this same case and i dint wanna tell my friend either but finally i did. All u have to say is look is there sumthin goin?r u mad at me? then ur friend will get what ur syaing and if shes truly ur friend, shell respect that and explain y shes been actin this way. If its easier u shud email her or write her a letter so its not in person.
hope i helped =D
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I have like a lot of friends but the only time i see them is at school or at a party i throw and none of them ever call me except for my bestfriend and maybe one other person once a month, and i just want to have people call me to see what im doing or to hang out, what should i do? (link)
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Try calling them! If you call them and start hangin oout with them they will see how much fun you are and start to call you to do stuff! Good luck!
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A lot of people judge people by their looks and not by their personality. i used to do that too. i realized you arnt going to become a better person and your not going to meet people by judging other people by their looks. It makes me want to cry how i am experecing this. I realized i have been doing that too. i told some people about this person awhile back whom i liked. he wasn't the greatest looking person and the people i told knew that. when i told them, they all looked at me in discuss. that night i reconsidered liking him because of what he looked like and how dorky he was. Now i could have become really good friends with that cretin guy, but because of people and myself judging him, i am not friends with him. Everyone will not notice this, but every look you give a person, if its bad it will bring him/her down. just think about it. How would ypu fee; about it, people making fun of the way you look, or the cold looks you get every day when you walk down the halls. you see every popular boy and girl with someone, having un. Then you see yourslef looking at them wishing you were them. Christina Auhulara has inspired me to write this paragraph, Her song "Beautiful" is a great song. I hope some day you will listen to this song and think the same this i do.
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I really understand where you are coming from and it sucks. People say that this isn't true but in reality, sadley, it is. People tend to want to hang out with the person that is better looking. Now not to be stereotypical, but often this occurs more with girls then boys. Unless ofcourse a boy likes a girl, that can happen. But the sad thing is, girls are the ones who shed more tears over the subject but they also are the ones who tend to disregard some one for looks. I hope that someday people will understand the subject as well as you do. And Good Luck.
~Shea~
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i think that im kind of annoying to my friends. i always want to do something different, and sometimes i bug them too much about something. its the way i am, and sometimes its hard 4 me to be different. i have alot of friends, because my nature is 2 be nice, but if i know some1 for a long time i tend to get like this. what should i do? (link)
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jUST be who u r! Don't try to be different. unless ur friend has told u, u r probly not annoyin them. If they have nown u for a while, it probly dusnt bug them when ur like that. Hope I helped
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Ok my bestest friend iz havin boy trouble n i try n talk to her n tell her i kno how it feels cuz i have been through the same things but she iz alwayz like u dont kno how i feel!!! Dont u think if i've been through worse crap then she has then i do kno how she feels?????
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Your friend is prbly just really sick of this way. I know you wanna help but maybe you should stop talking about it with her. Also try not to talk about boys around her. Maybe boys like you better then her and shes jealous of that.
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