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I want to make my best friend a care package to cheer her up because that's just the sort of thing we do for each other. I guess I should put candy in it and maybe some fun little toys but I want unique little fun things, not stupid redundant little things that aren't really that fun. Anything you can think of that's surprisingly entertaining yet fits in a lunch bag? (link)
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You know you'd be amazed how stupid funny things like a bag of dollar store farm animals of a can of Spam will go... stupid things like that generally make people really laugh as long as you include something that’s not a gag and is serious so she doesn't think she's just a joke to you... hair things (if she like them) nail polish... small picture frame film you could get creative just walk around a drug store you'd be amazed what you and find ;)
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i had a friend a long time ago. i last heard from him about six or seven years ago. he was living in japan. his name was Masaki Bando and is probably around 12 or 13 years old. how do i find him if he may be all the way across the world??? i miss him like crazy and i really want to send him an email or something. please help me find him! (link)
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I'm not sure how you would go about this... I've never done it before, but I wish you luck, hopefully you can locate him...
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just before christmas i had a fight with two of my at the time best friends my mum was there and everything one of my friends called my6 month pregnant mum a f*****n fat mole and i whent off my head at her like any daughter would about 3 days after that we came back from our x-mas holidays to find a notice in our letter box asking either me or my mum to ring the police station. the next day my mum rang the police and a cop came to talk to us the bitches had put out a report on me saying that i said i was going to kill them and i was going to stab them which i DID NOT say the cops let it be and said that she is just trying to get attention. now they have gone around telling other people that my mum said she was going to stab them, but she told the police it was me so they are lying to everyone trying to press charges on me so i really need some advice on what to do here please (link)
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It's called a court order... if there really making you nervous or upset get a restraining order... that way anymore of that crap will get them fined or thrown in jail...
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My friends are bugging me to go to this party tonight, but I'm sick. Seriously. They don't believe me, they just think it's me being anti-social. Should I go anyway and make them all sick just to prove a point? (link)
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That would be pretty funny... bet they would never doubt you again... even if you don't go they will get over it, just might take a bit but they just want you to go... they probably deep down believe you they are just in denial
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What do you do if everyone you thought was your friend suddenly turns their back on you? (link)
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Make new friends.. there are billions of people in this world, and most of them are decent people... you can find a new circle of buddies that don't turn their backs on you...
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I've had this best friend for about 11 years now.. but I'm so sick of her. She's always lying to me, deceiving me, hurting me, so much stuff that I'm so pissed off. I talk to her about it all the time but she just comes up with more excuses, then expects me to forgive her. She's pretty much friends with all my friends, and you could even say she's "stolen" some from me and now they're better friends with her then me, so I can't hang out with them anymore. What should I do? (link)
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she doesn't sound like much of a friend i suggest slowly weeding her out over a period of time that way it will look to her like your just drifting apart not you being a bitch... you deserve a better friend than that good luck...
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Ok well i used to be the girl who wrote the best peoms ever.Then bout a year ago my other friend started writeing her peotry and totally just critisizing mine and then my other friend started writing it oo and then my friend said whoa is she tryin to take m y place and then said well i took urs i mean my poetry is better well she didnt say that but implied it ever since then i have felt so empty b-cz peotry is the only thing i had why is she doing this what can i do to help and y do i feel like this? (link)
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Your poetry is better than anyone else’s in there own way plus since you started it first... your better ;) so no worries! You still rock... you can't criticize poetry it has no rules it comes from the heart...
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ok i like dont like my friend any more because she is becoming some ones that she is not so what should i do cause i still want to be friends with her but not if she acts like someone shes not it just not right i dont know what to do
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Sometimes people change... I know first hand, friends have came and gone in my life, some have even come back... sometimes people go through stages were there trying to figure them self out so they seem to change... stay on "friendly" terms with this friend... but I suggest finding a new friend you can relate better with now... your other friend may change more or she may come back to who she was in which case you can rekindle the friendship and move on... or you could come to terms with her “new self” and accept it as who she is now and stay friends…
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i've been friends with this boy for a couple of years, just friends, but now, after spending most of the summer and after school with him i now have a crush... he has a split personality... one minute, he's the nicest, funniest, all around good person you'd ever meet, but sometimes he hangs around druggies... this scares me... (link)
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Move with caution... just because that is the people he hangs out with does not mean he does it, but it is more likely… You can fish around to find out if he does his "druggies" friends would probably tell you if you asked if he did, most of them think it's great so why hide it... You have to decide if you know and like him enough to not let his taste in friends kill it, and if your moral convictions are too opposing of his views... also are those guy's really druggies or do they just fit the standard stereotype?
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Lately I've been chatting a lot with this guy. He's a friend of a friend. Anyway, it's been about 3 months now and we have loads in common. We decided to go see a movie together(not a date) next weekend. Trouble is, he's very smart, and when I'm chatting with him I always feel like I'm too stupid for him. When we meet, I'm afraid it might show even more, that he might start talking about things that i don't have much say in and he'll find me unworthy of his time and won't want to be friends anymore. How should I act, or should I plain out cancel the meeting and just stay friends on msn? (link)
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Aww don't cancel... I met the man of my dreams off of AOL... If something like that ever was to happen, first off be honest, let him know you don't understand, that does not mean your by any means stupid or unworthy, to him that just might mean you just might not be as well rehearsed as him in that area... also that way he'll know what to talk about with you, if he really likes, and knows a lot about, say something like cars, but you don't know anything about it, and are less then interested, really, let him know you don't understand. There is a lot out there to talk about, and I'm sure if he is aware you don't know a lot about something, he wont get really into talking over your head... for example I really like horses, but when I'm around people that don't know much about them I avoid talking about them so they don't feel left out... and if you were to ever feel like you were for some reason less intelligent, think about something you know a lot about, and he may not... that’s an example of something your more learned in... You are never below someone, and its a fact that most people spend more time in a relationship (this includes friends and family) thinking up ways that they are inferior... relax, you can't just not live because your scared of what others might think! Be brave and know you ARE worthy of his time...
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i swear life is out to get me i just got over a bad mood and now i am in a huge fight with my firend and he said he didnt wanna talk to me and he hated me whate should i do? (link)
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Leave him be for a little bit, give him a week or so to just cool off, let him figure it all out, then after he feels better you can mend things, but in this cooling off time still be nice if your, confronted, smile at him so he doesn't just think your done with him... you could also talk to him, and try and resolve your problem diplomatically
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my best friend for over eight years (i'm only 13) doesn't wanna be my BFF no more. i don't really understand. she said it has something to do with me acting too smart around other people. what the fuck is going on with her??? (link)
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Often throughout most peoples life friends come and go, even you and you closest bud may drift apart. It can happen many ways, another person can step in and steal the "lime light," big arguments, change in where one lives, change in interest, or really a reason that can't be explained or understood. When this happens its best to, while you may not want to, let them go... In your case it sounds like she's more or less irritated with you, and more often than not with in some period of time things are resolved, and return to pretty much normal. Just remember whether it works out or not, relationships come and go and you should not need to change who you are in order to be friends with someone, be yourself, try and be happy, look at this as an experience rather than a night mare... Good luck!
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I moved away from to go to college, but most of my friends stayed in our hometown to either take community college courses or just slack off and not do much of anything. Now it seems like every weekend they guilt me about not coming home. I can come home some weekends, yeah, but honestly I'm making some new friends here that I like to party with too and don't really want to go home more than once a month. My high school friends are just like, "But it's so-and-so's annual such-and-such party! You've never missed this! are you too good for us now or something?"
Am I a bad person for neglecting my old friends? Should I make more of an effort to go home and salvage these relationships? I want to stay friends, but sometimes I wish phonecalls were enough. (link)
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Unfortunately this is a very well known dance. Come college, people start to go there separate ways, most of the people you know in high school, even your closest friends begin to fade into history. It has been said many times by many people, don't go home every weekend, your missing out, and you'll regret it in the long run. You can do what you can to keep in contact with your old friends if you wish, but you’re not a bad person for moving on and taking the next step in your life.
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My best friend Joleen has been dating this guy Tom for a month now. Tom and my friends Allison and Grace go to the same school, but Joleen and I go to a different one.
Well, Tom, Allison, and Grace's school had a homecoming festival. Allison, Grace, and this other girl Mary were hanging around a fire pit, when Tom comes up and sits on Mary's lap. Then, he says "Oh, no. I'll crush you, you can sit on my lap." and Mary did. Apparently, that wasn't all that happend, either. They were flirting a LOT.
Should I tell Joleen what Tom did? Or should I keep it to myself? (link)
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Ok first of all you need to find out if your blowing this thing out of proportion, his girlfriend has the right to know, but I advise you to actually talk to him about it first. Be strait forward and honest, flirting with others does not always stop with the start of a relationship especially early on. I know people that can't help but flirt with everyone like that, even if they’re in a very serious relationship. He could be one of these people... It's simply there nature; they treat their friends as though there more... unless you catch him kissing her it's not something I'd get to exited about. If you want to tell your friend which is reasonable, weight the pro's and con's. You might have just have started a fight between your friend and her boyfriend over nothing, or you could have saved her from a situation of getting cheated on and hurt. If I were you I'd talk to him first, or even just his friends to find out if he has a flirtatious nature...
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my worst enemy kathryn is talking shit about me(well she always does) , what would be a nice way to tell her she is the essence of evil and i would perferably not talk to her eever again?
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Not talk to her? I have a girl i pretty much despise, I avoid her when ever I can, but if I can't I'm nice I smile and say hi how are you, it's generally hard to talk shit about someone thats really nice to you, now this won't bring her lies and crap to a screeching halt, but it will make you the better person, and make it so you won't really have to deal with her... telling her off, yelling at her, calling her bad things, talking behind her back, will only increase the amount of crap she talks about you and only make things worse...
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ok i have a problem....there is this girl and she was one of my good friends untill one day her mom calls to complain all these mean thing that i did even though there not true....so what do i do...i cant just not be friends with her! SHES MY NEITHERBOR!!! (link)
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Sure you can, just because she lives next door theres no rule saying you have to love her, sure you probably will have to see her all the time, but really if she's going to act like that and get her mom to say that stuff she's not a good friend. Stay on good terms just slowly weed her out of your normal social schedule, you can say hi and what not and be nice to her just don't hang out with her and be really careful about respecting properly lines and you should be ok... throughout your life your bound to have neighbors that arent nice, you just have to learn to live with it...and ignor it as best you can...
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