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help i dont know what to do
ok i like dont like my friend any more because she is becoming some ones that she is not so what should i do cause i still want to be friends with her but not if she acts like someone shes not it just not right i dont know what to do
HELP PLZ
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
Tell her things to let her know that you enjoyed who she was when you met and make her feel good about being that person around you, if noone else. She may be feeling the pr4essure of trying to find out who she is and what she wants to be. That's normal for people at different stages in their lives. You may just be fortunate enough to be present for hers'. Let her know all of the things that you liked about the "her" that she was, and maybe she'll feel good enough about who she was to let you see her again.
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I think you should tell her how you feel about her becoming a different person. I know it's maybe hard and harsh but i think you should be honest with your friend. Explain your feeling to her.
GOOD LUCK
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Well talk to your friend, maybe you can work something out, or test her, be someone ur not, and see how she likes it. Show/Tell her how you feel...Thats the best i can come up w/ now
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Sometimes people change... I know first hand, friends have came and gone in my life, some have even come back... sometimes people go through stages were there trying to figure them self out so they seem to change... stay on "friendly" terms with this friend... but I suggest finding a new friend you can relate better with now... your other friend may change more or she may come back to who she was in which case you can rekindle the friendship and move on... or you could come to terms with her “new self” and accept it as who she is now and stay friends…
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Try to bring back the old friend she used to be. By telling old jokes or something. Ask her "Why are you acting like that" "Why do you do that" etc. Eventually she will come around its hard to be someone your not. Her innerself will jump out.
-shay :-)
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