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Hello there. I'm Charu, nice to meet you. =)

I'm in 8th grade and I go to Abbott Middle School. I'm thirteen. I love my friends and my boyfriend. Partying is love.

I'm Indian. =) And I would love to give you advice about anything and everything. Ask away!


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i like this guy hes really cute but he doesnt like me back he likes someone elsee and i really dont have the strength to tell him and if i do tell him then how?

well, sweetie, i'll make it frank. you're not getting anywhere unless you let him know how you feel. just take a deep breath and say, "you know, i really like you." i'm not guaranteeing you're gonna get a positive result, but you're gotta take a chance.

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Theres this girl who hates me and has hated me for as long as i can remember. She is like obbsessed and makes a list and profile about how much she hates me and i really dont want to be in a bad relationship with her. She goes to my school and is friends with my best friends and then it causes a problem when one of my friends wants to invite people over? How do i get this problem overwith?!

Well, you should ask her why she hates you.
If it's for something stupid, don't get mad
Just "pretend" to apologize
If she just hates you for no reason
The tell her she's being stupid and that you don't want to get into any bad relationships.
But if she still continues to hate you, tell your best friends about it, so they can try to help crack the problem

Really hope I helped. =]

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My friend is going to kill herself next Friday.

She seems happy about it.

I've tried to change her mind, but that didn't work.

She doesn't eat, she's an insomniac, and she is very stressed.

She's been to shrinks but she says that they were a waste of her time.

She hates her parents because she can never talk to them, I guess.

I don't know what to do.

Seriously. You HAVE to go tell someone. You can't just sit there and not do anything! Tell a counselor, tell her parents, tell YOUR parents, tell anybody who can help! Sitting around worrying isn't going to get anything done! But here's the thing... if she's HAPPY about killing herself, she might change her mind when if actually comes to it. I can understand if she was depressed, she might just do it without regret. But not if she's happy.

Remember to give her a heeeuuuuge hug and explain to her how much she means to you. Explain to her that a lot of people love her and will miss her a lot. Remind her that she'd be ruining a lot of people's live!

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My BFFL and I have been BFFL for almost 2years now. We NEVER fight which is great, so there hasn't been any problems w/ fighting but Now there is. She has another BFFL.First, we hated each other then we liked each other and now he has a g/f that he LOVES & she loves him and now we extrememly dislike each other, again. I'm at my dad's now for two weeks and I try to talk to her but shes always "busy" or with him, so she says she can't call & he's even before me on her myspace! I'm losing her! =[ HELP

ouch. just remember: the closer you pull her, the more she's gonna run away from you.

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