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HeYy! im myriah. im pretty sure i give good advice... i've already been through a lot of things that people are going through now and i know how to deal with a lot of stuff! i love having fun and being creative. i like to sing, dance, hang out with my friends, and i absolutely cant live without my makeup, my digital camera, and my clothes lol!! ask me anything and ill do my best to give you an answer you can use!
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hay, im a 14 yr old gurl and i know this really "popular / cool" gurl. i guess you can say were friends and everything cause we talk every once in a while, but i wanna be like.. really really good friends with her, ya know? soo can you help me on how i could please? (link)
ask her if she wants to hang out... find things that you two have in common... but since you know that she is popular... dont just be friends with her to gain popularity, nobody wants to be used.


ok.. so my best friend and i were in this chat with our other friend. and the other friend and my best friend have like a really funny joke together.. inside joke. so they were talkin about their joke and i just left cuz i didnt wanna be in the middle of it. then they started bein real mean to me, so i ignored them and blocked them. since then, my best friend wont forgive me when she should be the one sayin sorry. what should i do?
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this one is tough. your best friend prolly feels really bad and that is more than likely why she was so mean. admitting she was wrong would make her look bad so she is acting like you are the one who made the mistake. i suggest you drop the whole thing. tell her it doesnt matter and that she is your best friend. next time you feel like she is leaving you out... dont freak out just tell her that you feel like that and she will respect it! dont lose a friend just because she left you out once everyone makes mistakes!


I have a friend who hangs out with me when we are in class and since we have a locker right next to eachother she hangs out with me. But when she is around certain "friends" she acts really mean to mean and ignores me. Sometimes I feel like i'm not her friend and sometimes i feel like we are best friends, What should I do?
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if she is a true friend she shouldnt be scared to show it. you may think that she is what you would consider a good friend, but good friends are the ones who are your friend no matter what. you need to find someone who will accept you all the time even when they are around someone they think is "cooler" than you. i think you should talk to her about it, and if she chooses them over you, then you deserved better all along. but if she tries to change that then you have most likely found an honest friend.


there is this girl who i used to be friends with, and now she acts like she hates me. how do i make her realize that i still love her and wanna be friends like we used to be? (link)
i have had a lot of experience with this one. this is what i did and what you should probably do too... ask her if you had done anything that made her mad, or that if you had hurt her feelings in any way. if she says no then maybe she just needed some space. if she says yes, find out exactly what you did and make sure that you apoligize. let her know that you didnt mean to hurt her and that you love being friends with her. she will appreciate that you cared enough about her to make sure the friendship was still there.




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