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Age: 16
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my best friends name is cara and we`ve been friends since 7th grade we are in 10th now. my boyfriends name is scott. we all went to the mall when they met and she was flirtin with him and stuff. when my dad picked us up to drive her home and scott was coming back to my house, cara was putting her hand on the seat kinda near his hand and scott told me he thought she was trying to hold his hand. whenever im with her she always tells em how happy she is that im happy and with a ncie boy that loves me and i care about. she was tellin me to have scott to her house along with our other friends brittney, and tim. caras "crush" was supposed to go but he didnt end up coming. last night we were all sitting outback of her house and had a fire and when i got up from the picnic table i guess she tried to kiss scott?! and he thought it was me and he almost did then he was like what the hell are you doing? and she was like i had to tell u sumthin but now i forget.. the whole time we were sort of drinking but cara seriously did not drink alot, there is a big difference between a little buzz and being trashed. its so annoying and she flirts with him so much and i just hated how she hugged him when we were leaving.. what can i say??? thankss (link)
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wow you've got your hands full huh? Well look. I can tell you straight up from experience *my BF of 7 months broke up with me for a freind.* that She is not being a very good friend.. if you have seen this go on continuously you need to stop it.. on the other hand.. scott didn't know it wasn't you.. i wouldn't totally blame him for that one at all.. but you should also maybe be aware of that... oh BTW there is no such thing a sort of drinking.. hehe... *dont worry i do too.* umm okay on another point she shouldnt' hug your boyfriend.. YOUR BF. kay? NO. You need to tell her how you feel, tell her that she is invading space and you are very uncomfortable with it... she might try to put it on scott but dont let her.. bring up all of the instances you cna think of to show her that it's true. Don't let her change the subject or ignore your questions. Tell her that if you want to remain friends then she needs to back off and let you be with your boyfriend and not her. Ask her if it's jealously and if you can HELP her to find someone she might be interested in.. if so then that will take her mind off of scott and vola double dates. Okay do you understand, if you need any thing else just give me a holler! hope i helped!~Dee
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okay so basically my mom is having a hissy fit because well i switched shifts with this one girl and now im opening (working 8-12) and shes all pissed off @ me because she "doesnt wanna wake up that early." and shes saying that all i do is think of myself... wow was i really thinking of myself because i thought i switched shifts with someone else to help THEM out .. ANYWAY - and i told her about one of my close friends parties on Sunday and she was thinking about it. UNTIL she realized that my brother is having his girlfriend eat dinner over for her birthday.. So what am i supposed to do?! the party is 7-11 and shes eating over at 8:30. (link)
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Okay to solve your mom: Dont get mad or give her a reason to get more mad about something you know isn't fair. Let her know that it bugs you when she says things like that, expecially if they arn't true. but dont do it snyvly or cynically or any thing like that.
Now for the party: Your friend.. how close is she to you? Is it a Bday party of some significance? ... if not there are always going to be more parties on never ending lines of them. you will probably forget about it if you dont go. Plus how important is this girl to your brother? If she si important he wants you to share in his joy with you. You should consider being there for him. hope that helps if not drop one in my Inbox *this was the hardest one to answer so far*
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so my friend is like super hott and i am not a lezbo and she doesnt think so but she tries to kill herself and i have tried to like help her out but i am running out of ideas and i dont know what to do but telll her i am there for her and her friends are too but she wont belive me and i am kinda going through some of the same things like her away message is like i am going to draw a picture on my wrists i will do it with a razor and after all of my problems will go away i used to do the same thing after my dads accident but i dont any more nd i think she will do something she willl regret........................HELP (link)
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I have a friend just like her. except she was into drugs and alcohol, she was pretty, but she lost everything when she started getting depressed and angry at the world. I can see that this is what is happening. you've gotten some REALLY great feedback and i would listen to everybit you can get. I did tell parents at one point she had run away, she hated me but then she thanked me. She's back in juvy now, and probably will be for a long time bc she didn't listen to me. YOU need to get through to her. Someone said shock the hell out of her. DO IT. DO IT SO MUCH THAT SHE IS SCARED TO DIE. you need to. I wanted to die months ago but i didn't give up LET her know that she has SOO much more to live for. and hopefully that will help. I'm praying for you and her.
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